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Red Hair

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Motherland2624 · 18/12/2024 09:38

Hi 👋 i was wondering if i could get some help from you wise ladies
im 46 and have bright red hair its long well maintained and in great condition Ive had it for 10 years now i do sometimes mix it up with different shades but mostly stick to this colour
Ive recently met someone nice guy (I think ) high up corporate job nice lifestyle very casual which is ideal for me at this time in my life
He recently mentioned that my hair prevent would him from progressing to anything more serious in the future because the colour doesn’t fit in his world,I was a taken a back I’m a confident person or maybe naive I never imagined my hair colour would be a problem to anyone so AIBU should I go back to my natural colour I’ve put in a pic of my hair happy to take criticism

Red Hair
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Marblesbackagain · 18/12/2024 09:41

Lucky swerve, if he has that lack of capacity he ain't going anywhere high

FiatMultiplaWhopper · 18/12/2024 09:41

the colour is not my thing BUT don’t let any man tell you that your appearance isn’t good enough for him. Find someone who loves you as you are.

rainbowhairchalk · 18/12/2024 09:41

Bin him off immediately

Growsomeballswoman · 18/12/2024 09:41

You are beautiful hair, he is the problem and I think it's him that doesn't fit into your world. No one should ever want to change you.

SpanThatWorld · 18/12/2024 09:40

Your hair is glorious.
He sounds like a tool

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