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To be furious at my son's father for bringing my baby home injured!

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twentytwentyfour2024 · 17/12/2024 22:38

My son's dad watched him this evening. Said DS was playing with toys when he turned round and noticed blood on his hand I got home from my evening course and checked my son(I live with parents so they pit DS to bed this evening) DS hand is FULL of blood! There's a blood patch on my bed from him and his had. Has all dried blood on it and it quite clearly is NOT a small cut! It has clotted and stopped bleeding now but if tomorrow it starts again I'll be going right to a&e!
Am I being too harsh on the ex like he says I am being or am I right in what I'm saying!? It was 2 hours and he wasn't watching a crawling 10 months old baby?!!!!!????? WHAT PLANET DOES HE LIVE ON!

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twentytwentyfour2024 · 17/12/2024 22:42

Onlyvisiting · 17/12/2024 22:41

I wouldn't be angry about the accident, but would question what was left out that was sharp enough to cause a cut.
But I would be angry if having noticed the blood he didn't clean it and stop the bleeding? Did he clean it up and it just started again or did he leave it?
How big is the cut?

He did clean t and try to stop but it wouldn't stop he said

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Mylifeisamesssuchamess · 17/12/2024 22:42

Calm down. It's a cut. Your child will do this sort of thing hundreds of times in their lifetime. It's life.

TallNeckedGiraffe · 17/12/2024 22:41

Did your parents notice the blood when they were putting him to bed?
How is he now?
And yes, his dad sounds crap.

NotaCoolMum · 17/12/2024 22:41

How big/deep is the wound? Did your DS cry?
Too many factors to tell If YABU

Onlyvisiting · 17/12/2024 22:41

I wouldn't be angry about the accident, but would question what was left out that was sharp enough to cause a cut.
But I would be angry if having noticed the blood he didn't clean it and stop the bleeding? Did he clean it up and it just started again or did he leave it?
How big is the cut?

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