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Chickenpox - would you rather know?

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Notjustanychristmaspud · 17/12/2024 19:24

My DD 14 months has just come out in what I think is chicken pox spots, she had a couple of raised marks this morning on her legs but I thought it was the start of an eczema flare up so just put some moisturiser on. I’ve just noticed in that bath that she’s now covered on her arms, tummy and neck too.

This morning we went to a mum and baby group with a group of friends from NCT and yesterday spent the afternoon with my friend and her 2 YO twins. I feel awful about it although I had no idea then.

Would you let them know now or keep quiet and see if their DC catch it? I’m weighing up the potential worry it will cause the parents waiting for it vs the ‘ignorance is bliss’ attitude.

I feel really guilty that their DCs might have it over Christmas too!

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TheSpottedZebra · 17/12/2024 19:27

Absolutely I'd rather know.

You don't know who in their circle might be especially vulnerable. If you tell them, they are forewarned and can make their own choices.

Soubriquet · 17/12/2024 19:26

I would definitely want to know so I could keep an eye out on my children