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AIBU in thinking the government have made the correct decision not to blanket pay all WASPI women £3k? This goes against the Ombudsman recommendations to pay between £1k-3k to every WASPI women.

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caringcarer · 17/12/2024 13:35

At the time it was in every newspaper for weeks, in the radio and on the TV news a lot of coverage via the media. Most women of this age agree they knew about pension age changes. At the time it was huge. I fail to understand how any women could not have known unless they lived off grid. No individual letters were sent out to the women who would be affected. The Ombudsman's recommendation was that a blanket payment of between £1k-3k be paid to all WASPI women. Labour have just announced no money will be paid out at all. It would have cost the taxpayer up to £10.5 billion pounds on top of the huge amount of my ney it has cost to review it for several years. It is money that the government just don't have. Assuming lessons have been learned and any future changes will see DWP send out letters to any individuals who it will directly affect. The only worry is that it sets a precedent of ignoring what the Ombudsman's recommendations.

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1apenny2apenny · 17/12/2024 18:11

Something people seem to be missing is that there was no equal pay and not all jobs were open to women. There was also the expectation that women did all the wifework.

A woman couldn't get a credit card without their husbands signature until 1974 etc.

Many of these women did work but they were underpaid, they still paid their stamp etc. They have been treated poorly.

mitogoshigg · 17/12/2024 18:10

The issue is that many of the women affected immediately also had to leave their jobs because there was no maternity leave, they needed the state pension. I'm at the other end of the cohort as it was announced in my 20's so whilst I do have a private pension maturing at 60, At least I got 35 years to make arrangements, my mother did not

Nolegusta · 17/12/2024 18:09

I agree OP, but it's not a popular opinion.

Mespher · 17/12/2024 18:08

They have ignored the Ombudsman though, what if every company just thinks now that doesn't matter, we will just ignore it. The banks, the energy companies.

MontyDonsBlueScarf · 17/12/2024 18:07

The differences of opinion on here and the comments that have been made, for me, highlight the reality that the WASPI issue is far more complex than most people seem to believe.

There is one group of Waspi women who had their pension age put back, but were able to plan for it over a reasonable (albeit relatively short) period. I am one of this group. There is a subset of this group who then had a further delay in their pension with only a couple of years' notice. This left them with the impossible task of making (for example) what they thought would be adequate income for three years, stretch over five. Whatever they did or didn't know, the reality is that no one can stretch three year's income over five. People outside this subgroup had to stretch five years' income over seven, or ten years' income over twelve, or whatever, all of which are difficult but attainable. But this particular subgroup got a very raw deal. And it's not just a question of somehow surviving those two years and then picking up where you left off. In order to survive people had to cash in assets that were essential to their future plans. When they were gone the whole future was different.

I'm less certain about compensation for most of the Waspi women but I support the idea of compensation for the subgroup who were shafted. It's not about 'they should have known' or 'they should have taken responsibility'. Even women who were in full possession of all the facts would have been unable to reorganise their financial affairs in order to plug a gap of that size in that short a period.

BIossomtoes · 17/12/2024 18:07

OnlyDespairRemains · 17/12/2024 18:05

Younger generations are already over-funding older ones and it is not sustainable.

Why should someone who won't retire until they are 70 (if they retire at all) pay for someone else to retire at 60?

Another case of the 'me' generation taking as much as they can with no thought for those to come.

Nobody’s retired at 60 for a decade. Do keep up.

OnlyDespairRemains · 17/12/2024 18:05

Younger generations are already over-funding older ones and it is not sustainable.

Why should someone who won't retire until they are 70 (if they retire at all) pay for someone else to retire at 60?

Another case of the 'me' generation taking as much as they can with no thought for those to come.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 17/12/2024 18:04

Bloom15 · 17/12/2024 17:56

Exactly!

My grandmother was born in 1926. She worked - as did my mum

Did they work full time? I hear a lot of older women say "I've always worked" and then you find out they worked about 10 hours a week nearly all their lives or something.

BIossomtoes · 17/12/2024 18:04

CurlyhairedAssassin · 17/12/2024 18:02

Quite. There are many areas in life where claiming ignorance of a matter just doesn't cut it. Take some personal responsibility and find out.

I do think that some members of the older generations see the state as someone to look after them, and don't think too much about how it's going to be paid for.

There are those people in every generation. We wouldn’t have in work benefits otherwise.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 17/12/2024 18:02

TheBestLackAllConviction · 17/12/2024 15:09

That's very sad, but it could have been avoided if the person had taken responsibility for her own financial future by informing herself better or getting her own job/pension/annuity.

Quite. There are many areas in life where claiming ignorance of a matter just doesn't cut it. Take some personal responsibility and find out.

I do think that some members of the older generations see the state as someone to look after them, and don't think too much about how it's going to be paid for.

Bloom15 · 17/12/2024 17:56

Ginmonkeyagain · 17/12/2024 15:20

@EmmaMaria Not sure about you "dear", but not being middle class my mother and grandmothers always worked. Home maker was not a luxury afforded to working class women.

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Exactly!

My grandmother was born in 1926. She worked - as did my mum

BIossomtoes · 17/12/2024 17:56

Porcuporpoise · 17/12/2024 17:52

Is that not how cut offs usually work though? Someone's always just on the wrong side of it.

No it was mad. It was incremental in the most lunatic way you can imagine. What they should have done was create eligibility on a specific birthday in the same way as qualification for state pension is for everyone else. The transition for 300,000 WASPI women was an absolute buggers’ muddle.

usernother · 17/12/2024 17:55

I think it's the right decision. I'd rather the money is spent on something else. I found the amount of lying from people (some of whom I'm friends with) saying they didn't know, sickening.

louddumpernoise · 17/12/2024 17:55

EmmaMaria · 17/12/2024 14:56

Absolutely not. I'd like to see the rich and corporations pay their proper contributions instead of avoiding them. The money Amazon gets away with would more than pay for this.

Maybe not every WASPI woman is poor (I am not) - but the vast majority are in the poorest sections of society, often with reduced pensions because "childcare was their job" as wives and mothers. They didn't have the luxury of a choice. Many didn't have the luxury of working.

Taxwatch think Amazon have avoided tax of approx 339million, in 2022/23 so where does the other 10billion come from?

Also, Amazon reject this.

Anyway, how do you prove beyond reasonable doubt, that you genuinely had no idea & weren't contacted?

wombat15 · 17/12/2024 17:55

EmmaMaria · 17/12/2024 14:42

No it doesn't - because everybody "knew" that the pension for women was paid at 60. That was probably all they knew.

I find it astonishing that a site that lauds itself on being pro-women, driven by equality and "for mums" has so many posters that actually do not support the poorest women in society. But unsurprising. There were more complaints about a handful of rich farmers possibly having to pay inheritance tax.

The fact that it would increase was talked about for years before it was officially announced. As a group, pensioners haven't been the poorest in society for years.

LatteLady · 17/12/2024 17:53

Billydavey · 17/12/2024 17:13

With respect though it was widely publicised in the mid 90s and then regularly since then. Anyone who ever watched the news or read a paper would have been aware

Well, if that were the case then the WASPI women cause would not have been set up, nor would the parliamentary and health service ombudsman’s have found that the DWP had failed to communicate the changes adequately. Those are the facts, agreed by all, but what annoys me, is if this were a Bank or Insurance Company, the government would be telling them to pay up...

Porcuporpoise · 17/12/2024 17:52

Is that not how cut offs usually work though? Someone's always just on the wrong side of it.

BIossomtoes · 17/12/2024 17:46

Porcuporpoise · 17/12/2024 17:43

@Cableknitdreams It doesn't upset me. I think late 60s is about right given how long we are living on average now. I just have very little sympathy for this group of women.

I don’t understand why you’re picking out a small group of women who have been treated so unfairly. I’ve been reconciled to the injustice for a while but it still irks me that I’d have got my state pension three months sooner if I’d been born eight hours earlier - that’s how bonkers the transition was!

Porcuporpoise · 17/12/2024 17:43

@Cableknitdreams It doesn't upset me. I think late 60s is about right given how long we are living on average now. I just have very little sympathy for this group of women.

SuperfluousHen · 17/12/2024 17:42

”the government don’t have the money…”

funny that.
They always have plenty of money to fund foreign wars…

Cableknitdreams · 17/12/2024 17:40

Porcuporpoise · 17/12/2024 17:34

@Cableknitdreams perhaps because going on and on about the deep tragedy of not being able to draw a state pension at 60 to those who have to work a whole lot longer is a bit tone deaf?

Well how about campaigning for a lower retirement age for all, if that upsets you?

Craftymam · 17/12/2024 17:39

Honestly some of these posts are ridiculous!

No the waspi women are not the poorest in society
And No they aren’t trying to sell out their grandchildren to go on a cruise.

Yes it’s wrong. It’s a principle thing. When we allow the gov to do this type of thing and change the terms/ move goal posts then don’t even think about quietly breathing a sigh when they do it to you.

It’s not the kind of society I want to live in. So I’m with the waspis and think they should get paid.

Cableknitdreams · 17/12/2024 17:39

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 17/12/2024 17:15

Lots of women were living on the moon for a while apparently. Wink It was widely advertised on earth.

Perhaps they were ill, run down, struggling with bereavement, exhausted, going through trauma, homeless, trying to survive domestic abuse, caring for disabled children and/or elderly parents, holding down 2-3 jobs as well, not computer or generally literate, struggling with addiction, etc..

There are many, many good reasons why someone might not be able to spend their time regularly seeking government administrative information they had no reason to think had changed.

BIossomtoes · 17/12/2024 17:38

Porcuporpoise · 17/12/2024 17:34

@Cableknitdreams perhaps because going on and on about the deep tragedy of not being able to draw a state pension at 60 to those who have to work a whole lot longer is a bit tone deaf?

That isn’t the issue. What is the issue is that moving women’s retirement age from 60 was fine in 1996 when there was time to prepare was well and good. Moving it again several years further in 2011 when 300,000 women had little or no notice was unfair - and DWP didn’t even write to us.

Porcuporpoise · 17/12/2024 17:34

@Cableknitdreams perhaps because going on and on about the deep tragedy of not being able to draw a state pension at 60 to those who have to work a whole lot longer is a bit tone deaf?