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Outdoor flashing Christmas lights are obnoxious & tacky

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Skyrainlight · 15/12/2024 21:58

One of my neighbours has recently moved in and has just put up the most hideous Christmas lights, red and yellow then flashing to blue and white, with aggressive unpleasant flashing back and forth. Fortunately they are on the same side of the road as I am so I barely see them, I see the lovely lights on the other side of the road that don't look like a tacky flashing casino. Is it just me or does anyone else dislike these lights?

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user2848502016 · 15/12/2024 23:32

I absolutely hate flashing lights, they really bother me!

Poggishairtufts · 15/12/2024 23:30

It's the flashing that I find really triggers a migraine for me. I bet those who have it on the strobe type of setting never have to actually look at them - they're outside or in an empty room!

Tacky things I can just silently judge and roll my eyes at and move on.

EconomyClassRockstar · 15/12/2024 23:27

I remember the day we moved into the first every home we bought in the late 90s and I walked into DC1's about to be bedroom and it was like Blackpool Illuminations because the house behind us was COVERED with decorations. I was absolutely horrified because I used to be a hideous snob

Then I met the neighbors and I ended up loving that family and their much loved Xmas home. And I invested in good black out curtains.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 15/12/2024 23:22

My neighbour has flashing lights but I think he doesn't realise that if he pushed a button they'd change the setting! It's very annoying

Blondeshavemorefun · 15/12/2024 23:18

Bah humbug

House local to me is amazing. Has 3.5min flashing sequence all diff colours and shapes and can tune your car radio to it and lights flash in time to the music

Fantastic !!!

BrieHugger · 15/12/2024 23:18

I don’t like them but I like seeing them!

Samandytimlucypeterolivia · 15/12/2024 23:14

Each to thier own, but the tackier the better at Christmas, colourful 80’s/90s vibes. And tbh if I knew that you lived on my street it would give me great pleasure they piss you off 🙃 mine are colourful and sometimes flash depends on the programme I select. Can’t be dealing with aesthetics at Christmas.

Flopsy145 · 15/12/2024 23:00

I'm with you! Warm white is best followed by colourful ones, ideally incandescent rather than LED. But it's the bright blue and/or flashing that I find irritating, flashing lights if you can see them from your window are just annoying. I would rather some big inflatable colourful craze that didn't flash to a simple flashing set.

CydonianKnight · 15/12/2024 22:59

You need the new Richard Franks ‘Mum’ video.

PomandersandRedRibbon · 15/12/2024 22:57

It's all about what atmosphere you're going for though isn't it.

murasaki · 15/12/2024 22:52

The only thing I don't understand is why you'd ramp up your electricity bill for something you can't personally enjoy from inside your house.

Saying that, thanks house opposite, as your Halloween moving skeleton display was epic, and your Xmas display is pleasing to me.

Still wonder how much it costs you though.

SunshineAfterTheRainR · 15/12/2024 22:51

I love Christmas lights! So cheerful! We have warm yellow ones but I love the coloured ones too. The only ones I don’t appreciate are the flashy ones to be honest.

MurdoMunro · 15/12/2024 22:50

I’m all for the sparkles and lights, all the colours or white, artfully wrapped on a tree or strung between the wheely bins, all of it. But the flashing bothers me and I’ve had to put some cardboard over a couple of windows to block out the neighbour’s. As others have said, they are also troublesome for me when I’m driving and even more so the blue ones.

Toopulululu · 15/12/2024 22:49

I can’t see them so I can’t say whether I like them but hey ho, it’s Christmas, and a few lights here and there are usually fairly jolly. I doubt I’d have an issue with them.

ForPearlViper · 15/12/2024 22:47

Every time I read a thread like this it puts me in mind of just one person. Hyacinth Bucket.

QuestionableMouse · 15/12/2024 22:46

It depends on the lights.

Thatcastlethere · 15/12/2024 22:46

I do get a bit cross when the local council decide on blue lights... just what I wanted.. to feel like I'm surrounded by emergency service vehicles and also feel cold. How merry.
Luckily this year they've gone for warm colours.

I drove past someone with violet and pink tiny fairy lights in their trees in the front garden the other day and it did actually look so pretty. Really inviting.
I wouldn't have thought of pink being a good colour for Christmas but it was lovely. Was an old cottage and really suited it.

EmmaEmEmz · 15/12/2024 22:45

I love them.

I wish I could afford to put millions of lights and decorations up

Thatcastlethere · 15/12/2024 22:42

I actually harbour a view that those people who stick to one colour scheme are more tacky.. like you see the tree is entirely white and grey.. white branches and silver ornaments.. and the stocking are crushed grey velvet..
Just reminds me of chav tactic decor. Crushed velvet lol..
However I would never say that out loud to anyone in real life because more than I think that, I think people should be allowed to enjoy Christmas how they want. There's enough misery in the world without getting cats bum face about someone's colour scheme.

DelicateSoundOfEchos · 15/12/2024 22:39

It isn't so much the colour of the lights as I'm a big fan of multicoloured fairy lights, but the blinking of them. It drives me mental. Especially when they're blue lights and I'm forever looking for an ambulance or something.

motherhoodmcrollercoaster · 15/12/2024 22:39

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100% agree our neighbours across the way have their icicle lights on 'manic flash mode' 😒 we're a warm static white house and the outside matches the tree lights. Might put them on soft twinkle mode Christmas Eve / Christmas Day

user1471453601 · 15/12/2024 22:38

Can I ask that you nip next door and ask them where they got them from? Red, yellow, blue and white? They sound right up my street. Thankd, in advance.

Thatcastlethere · 15/12/2024 22:37

Oh pull yourself together. It's just a bit of fun. I don't have any personally but it always make me smile when I drive past someone's house and they've really gone to town. Good for them.
I think perhaps the ones that flash too rapidly might be bad for people with epilepsy so I'd think people should avoid having those.. but other than that it's just people enjoying themselves. I like to see that.
Even if I couldn't be arsed to go to those lengths myself.

mitogoshigg · 15/12/2024 22:36

@BinghamtonMetz

Completely agree, warm white only here

NettieHead · 15/12/2024 22:35

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Yes, this! Lol!