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Outdoor flashing Christmas lights are obnoxious & tacky

159 replies

Skyrainlight · 15/12/2024 21:58

One of my neighbours has recently moved in and has just put up the most hideous Christmas lights, red and yellow then flashing to blue and white, with aggressive unpleasant flashing back and forth. Fortunately they are on the same side of the road as I am so I barely see them, I see the lovely lights on the other side of the road that don't look like a tacky flashing casino. Is it just me or does anyone else dislike these lights?

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SkunderlaiSkendi · 16/12/2024 13:44

I actually laughed out loud at 'aggressive christmas lights'

Maddy70 · 16/12/2024 13:19

I love to see tacky lights. The more ghastly the better

MurdoMunro · 16/12/2024 13:02

I thought this thread was about FLASHING lights being ‘obnoxious and tacky’? Lots of people posting about their coloured lights, inflatables and whatnot to defend them. I think most of us have said we like all sorts of styles (except blue, quite a few saying never blue to be fair) - but many find FLASHING lights to be unpleasant or disruptive (I’m avoiding the word tacky myself)

barbarahunter · 16/12/2024 12:55

I love all things tacky at Christmas! I can't wait until my grandkids spot my waving Santa in the front garden when they arrive. Merry Christmas everyone!

Magnastorm · 16/12/2024 12:50

I put up Christmas lights because my kids like them.

Couldn't give a fuck if joyless bastards think they are tacky.

Larryimonducktales · 16/12/2024 11:37

Some lights start on demo mode every time and do crazy flashing unless you press the button a few times. The button is usually outside, so people don't change it.

Personally, I don't use them if I accidentally buy some that do this because I cba to go outside and press the button. Other people just leave them doing random flashing.

The neighbours across from me have left them on demo mode and have a massive projection of snowflakes that somehow keeps ending up reflecting onto my windows. It is awful.

PomandersandRedRibbon · 16/12/2024 11:17

My Xmas feel wants to be narnia old bbc series. I Want that feeling of walking through the door and seeing the trees and flickering lamp light tumnus cosy cottage/crumpets, hot choclate wind in the willows and animal footprint in the snow.

All these flashing displays are very florida, Disney loud and cheery.
Nothing wrong with that at all but I suspect it suits florida more than uk. Also depends on the housing stock I guess more modern houses suit these displays.

Couldyounot · 16/12/2024 10:51

FREE FROSTY

Skyrainlight · 16/12/2024 10:50

Typerighter · 16/12/2024 09:13

The paradox of calling out tackiness is that in doing so you become tacky.

And now I am tacky for calling out your tackiness.

Same as saying something isn't 'classy'. By doing so you show your utter lack of class to the world (and also now my lack of class).

The language police.

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stripeyshutters · 16/12/2024 10:33

I hate blue lights but other than that go for what you like!

NotbloodyGivingupYet · 16/12/2024 09:36

I LOVE Christmas lights, the tackier the better. But I really don't like the very bright flashing ones because they make me feel a bit ill. The blue ones are the worst.
(DH has of course bought some blue lights but at least I can stop them flashing. They aren't up this year, I think he's forgotten where he put them😁)

Thinhair88 · 16/12/2024 09:21

Don’t mind lights. I don’t like the inflatables that are deflated much of the time blowing everywhere. 😂

Caterina99 · 16/12/2024 09:18

I like lights and don’t really care what colours they are, but I hate it when they flash!

Gentle twinkling is fine, but the speedy flashing is a migraine trigger for me and I can’t stand looking at them for long!

Typerighter · 16/12/2024 09:13

The paradox of calling out tackiness is that in doing so you become tacky.

And now I am tacky for calling out your tackiness.

Same as saying something isn't 'classy'. By doing so you show your utter lack of class to the world (and also now my lack of class).

evilharpy · 16/12/2024 09:05

I love them all, warm white, cool white, coloured, tasteful, tacky, garish, uber bright, whatever. We do an annual Christmas lights hunt where we drive around our town and the neighbouring villages looking for the best/biggest displays, it's one of my daughter's favourite Christmas traditions.

I do however hate anything that flashes, and blue lights can get in the bin. Flashing blue lights have no place anywhere other than on emergency response vehicles.

Skyrainlight · 16/12/2024 08:46

emanresu24 · 16/12/2024 07:27

I love warm white (not yellow) lights and the big lit reindeer, those illuminated bows and bells are pretty too. A white dripping icicle light, a snowfall projector, or even every bush, tree and hedge covered in multicoloured net lights. What I hate is blue lights and bright flashing ones. I'm photosensitive, it can literally make me ill. My child was run over recently and due to the 6 emergency vehicles and crime scene stuff I'm now triggered by flashing lights too. I wish they wouldn't sell blue ones.

I'm so sorry about your child, I can imagine how triggering blue lights are now. x

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poppymango · 16/12/2024 08:38

It's not to my taste at all, but it's only a few weeks a year and it's lovely knowing that people are getting in the spirit of it. I like to think how excited children will be when they see all the Christmas decorations going up in their neighbourhood!

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 16/12/2024 08:34

I have a line of blue lights, just on the front face of our home. I turned the flashing off, as they did remind us of the emergency services and because of how we are orientated on the road, distracting to drivers. We have no street lights and they go on as it gets dark and off about 10. I like the fact that the house puts on a festive face and miss the windows, over decoration of homes, handmade streamers, tacky foil ceiling decorations of my youth, when the space was more about family and fun and less about curation of decor and what the neighbours think.

Sonolanona · 16/12/2024 08:20

I hate them too.
Unfortunately my dh loves them, as does our grandson... so my house does indeed resemble a knocking shop Grin I try remind myself that they won't be up for long!

XelaM · 16/12/2024 08:20

We have the tackiest house on our street 😝 with 6(!) blow up oversized santas/smowmen/dog/baubles 🎅 and lots of different lights 😅

We're like one of those over the top houses you see in American films.

Porridgeislife · 16/12/2024 08:06

We don’t have any Christmas lights but I absolutely LOVE seeing them on neighbour’s houses. So cheery at Christmas! YABU.

LlynTegid · 16/12/2024 08:06

Tacky is the word I'd choose. Also a symptom of overcelebrating and hyping up events, I'd guess the neighbours will spend a fortune on 'big birthdays' and have things like 'birthday week'.

Blondeshavemorefun · 16/12/2024 08:04

MrsPeregrine · 16/12/2024 01:16

It feels like the no-fun brigade have turned their attentions from fireworks and wanting them to be banned to outdoor Christmas lights. There was someone on my local Facebook page who posted recently asking people not to put twinkly lights outside. It’s only for a couple of weeks each year and brings a lot of joy to people. Especially children. What will be next?

Same

Do we live near each other

Or just both have miserable people

It's for a few weeks at the most

Not noisy like fireworks

ChristmasFluff · 16/12/2024 08:01

I don't like blue and white lights (cold and really not tacky enough), but my multicoloured lights go on a 'flashing' mode 2 weeks before Christmas until New Year's Day (they are just 'on' the rest of the time from the end of November to Jan 6th). I love tacky.

I doubt it bothers any neighbours - it's not 'seen from space' stuff and most of my neighbours have similar.

CalicoPusscat · 16/12/2024 07:30

@NotParticularly that sounds awful for her 🙁