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Has his own money but took out of savings

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DustyLee123 · 15/12/2024 07:59

DH has some money put away from an inheritance, yet he’s taken money from our joint savings to pay for his family’s Xmas presents. AIBU to suggest he uses his own inheritance money to buy his family presents, when I use my wages for mine?
YABU - of course he can use joint savings for his family presents
YANBU - he should use his inheritance for his family’s presents

OP posts:
Foundpresents · 15/12/2024 08:00

Either you both use the joint for all of the presents or you both use the personal accounts for your own families. Should be equal both sides.

SaagAloopa · 15/12/2024 08:00

Why doesn't he use his wages for his family's gifts?
Maybe take the money you spent out of your joint savings?

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