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To think I had a near death experience because of my own stupidity?

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Sleeplessworried · 15/12/2024 01:02

I was out for Christmas drinks with friends last week.
I rarely drink but had 2 Proseccos, 2 cocktails and a shot. This was from 5pm to 11pm. Not crazy but a lot for me.

I got home at around 12am and took two paracetamols 500mg each, thinking I was getting ahead of the hangover. I felt fine at this point and my friend even said I didn’t even seem like I’d been drinking before she dropped me off home.

I went to bed and jolted awake at around 2.30am. What followed was room spinning, struggling to see, the worst diarrhoea of my life, rounds of vomiting, stomach pain and hours of lying sweating on a bed while itching and shivering.

I know this is silly but because I don’t drink much, I had no idea you can’t take paracetamol after drinking. I realise now this is totally dangerous and stupid.

I remember panicking on the bed wondering if I’d been spiked and actually worrying that things were going to worsen and maybe I’d been poisoned. I know that sounds dramatic but I felt like I was going to die.

Anyway now I am feeling so embarrassed and stupid for taking paracetamol after alcohol.

It ended by me continuously putting fingers down my throat to encourage more vomiting and feeling slightly better after my stomach was completely empty. I managed to sleep from around 5am to 9am and felt only slightly nauseous in the morning.

Just wanted to write it down as I can’t tell any of my loved ones. I wouldn’t like to worry them and don’t want them to know how bloody clueless I am! It feels good to get it off my chest though.

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/12/2024 21:39

What did you have to eat that evening? It sounds a lot like what happened to an ex who ate some dodgy prawns with the itching, sweating and puking up vast amounts in between shitting himself inside out.

The other possibility is have you been taking antibiotics for something like a tooth infection or bacterial vaginosis? It's also the reaction you get if you have alcohol within about 3 days of taking Metronidazole.

(BTW if anybody's wondering, he was one of those people who just wouldn't be told not to eat the 'they're a day past the use by date, I'm throwing the prawns away' or 'You can't have alcohol when you've been taking those'. My sympathy was entirely non-existent).

Xmasxrackers · 16/12/2024 21:20

Op alcohol is essentially a poison. Your body did what it should and got rid of the toxins. I get this any time I drink.

Ilikemymenlikeilikemycoffee · 16/12/2024 20:30

I always take paracetamol after drinking! Sounds more like a bad effect from the alcohol. I took Imodium before I last went out drinking as I had stomach cramps. Now these you aren’t supposed to drink with I found out after! I then fainted when I got home, was sick, had diarrhoea and sweating and shaking then an awful ringing in my ears!

Paracetamol are very unlikely to have made you feel like that!

Katemax82 · 16/12/2024 20:26

I had a nurse friend who said its safe to take paracetamol after drinking

Newusername3kidss · 16/12/2024 19:30

I always take paracetamol and a pint of water before going to sleep after drinking - stops the hangover being as bad. 40 years old and had a good few very drunken years at uni and in early 20s and never had this experience. Cocktails were probably stronger than you thought - mixing drinks definitely makes me feel like room is spinning and throw up

Single50something · 16/12/2024 18:35

Sounds more like food poisoning or a bug than the alcohol. Paracetamol and a glass of water was standard post pub/drinking when I was younger..so v much doubt it was that.

Sharptonguedwoman · 16/12/2024 18:25

Gerrysmum · 15/12/2024 01:09

I thought a pint of water and a couple of paracetamol was pretty standard after a few drinks 😂 sounds like you were just feeling the ill effects of being drunk.. nothing to beat yourself up about.

Absolutely this. Sound like you were proper drunk.

zingally · 15/12/2024 16:34

I've never ever heard of paracetamol doing that before...

More likely, you either had a bit of a tummy bug brewing, which the alcohol made worse. Or you ate or drank something that disagreed with you.

But sometimes our bodies just do weird shit for no obvious reason. Personally, I'd just chalk it up to "bodies being bonkers" and carry on.

Dezember · 15/12/2024 16:15

@Sleeplessworried you actually binge drank that night according to the nhs definition “The NHS defines binge drinking as ‘drinking heavily over a short space of time’.2 Another way of thinking about it is ‘drinking to get drunk’.
More than 8 units of alcohol in a single session for males, or more than 6 units in a single session for females is the technical definition.3 That’s equivalent to about four pints of normal strength beer for a man or three pints for a woman.” Source https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/facts/health-effects-of-alcohol/lifestyle-effects/binge-drinking#whatisbingedrinking. This is one of the reasons why more and more younger women are being diagnosed with liver disease. Someone who is otherwise healthy may get away with it in the short term but you said you have been hospitalised with heart issues in the past, surely this is not going to help?

Binge drinking

Are you a binge drinker? Drinking a lot, quickly, or drinking to get drunk can have serious health consequences.

https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/facts/health-effects-of-alcohol/lifestyle-effects/binge-drinking#whatisbingedrinking

elm26 · 15/12/2024 16:04

I survived my nights out aged 18-26 by drinking a pint of water and two paracetamol before bed and trust me, I'd had much more than you to drink. I never knew you shouldn't take paracetamol whilst drinking?

LawrenceSMarlowforPresident · 15/12/2024 14:50

Possibly migraine + hangover? The vision problems could be a migraine aura. Alcohol can trigger migraines, and potentially something non-alcoholic in the cocktails could as well (depending on what sort of cocktails they were). I doubt that the paracetamol was the culprit.

Mynewnameis · 15/12/2024 14:38

This once happened to me after news year eve. It turned out I had food poisoning. Don't punish yourself op

mumda · 15/12/2024 14:36

Drinking a small amount of alcohol while taking paracetamol is usually safe. Try to keep to the recommended guidelines of no more than 14 units of alcohol a week. A standard glass of wine (175ml) is 2 units. A pint of lager or beer is usually 2 to 3 units of alcohol.

It may not be safe for you to drink alcohol with paracetamol if you have certain health conditions, such as liver problems. Check the leaflet in your medicine packet to find out whether it's safe to drink alcohol when taking paracetamol.
https://www.nhs.uk/medicines/paracetamol-for-adults/common-questions-about-paracetamol-for-adults/

nhs.uk

Common questions about paracetamol for adults

NHS medicines information on common questions about paracetamol.

https://www.nhs.uk/medicines/paracetamol-for-adults/common-questions-about-paracetamol-for-adults

Sistertwo · 15/12/2024 14:14

rayofsunshine86 · 15/12/2024 13:53

He says he reacts badly to it in larger quantities, but I wouldn't say he's allergic. He can drink two glasses of wine (just about) but no more without having those nasty symptoms.

I get racing heart, panicking feelings, sweats, bad tummy purely from alcohol. Started in my mid-30s.

I can have 3 alcoholic drinks in total now or I get exactly these symptoms.

rayofsunshine86 · 15/12/2024 13:53

Sleeplessworried · 15/12/2024 01:39

@rayofsunshine86 do you think he’s allergic to alcohol? Has he always been like that? I used to be fine drinking years ago.

He says he reacts badly to it in larger quantities, but I wouldn't say he's allergic. He can drink two glasses of wine (just about) but no more without having those nasty symptoms.

Arran2024 · 15/12/2024 13:47

Covid now often starts with similar symptoms. I had this about 6 weeks ago after a meal out. Dreadful digestion problem in the night and a fever - I was freezing cold for ages. Very scary.

ManyATrueWord · 15/12/2024 13:39

Sounds like you got properly drunk is all. If those cocktails had three shots in you'd be wasted. 3 units on prosseco, six on cocktails, one on the shot. I'd be very ill on that, even if the cocktails only had two units (and they mostly don't these days).

Cattery · 15/12/2024 13:34

Can’t see it being the two paracetamol. More likely the combination of the drinks. Prosecco can do funny things to the bowels…🤔.

user2848502016 · 15/12/2024 13:23

This doesn't sound like too much alcohol or the paracetamol to me.
Did you eat? Could be good poisoning?
Or maybe you actually were spiked? Did you leave your drink unattended at all?

DecayingRelic · 15/12/2024 13:15

I would say it was from mixing your drinks

Redburnett · 15/12/2024 13:13

Maybe you have Norovirus?

biscuitsandbooks · 15/12/2024 13:12

BeensOnToost · 15/12/2024 11:19

The panic, stomach pain, vomiting, headache sounds like alcohol tbh.

At most id expect that your liver might have worked a bit harder due to paracetamol but it all sounds within range of what a healthy body can deal with as a one off without the need for medical support.

Look at it this way, plenty of people have a skinful on a Friday night, lounge around with a hangover and taking paracetamol all day on Saturday and then go out again Saturday night and take paracetamol all day on Sunday.

It's not ideal or healthy or something I'd encourage but I'm just giving you context of what many people did 20 years ago before times changed.

Exactly this. And if you're not used to it (or didn't eat enough beforehand) then you're bound to feel pretty shit afterwards.

It's a lesson most of us learn in our teens and twenties Grin

Lanzarotelady · 15/12/2024 13:11

Sleeplessworried · 15/12/2024 01:48

@Havingaswimmoose some people get spiked/mix drink and drugs by accident/drink alcohol with unknown existing health conditions and they die. It can turn badly quickly.

Evidence please

Lanzarotelady · 15/12/2024 13:10

OP are you normally this bloody dramatic?
How do you get through life?

Lanzarotelady · 15/12/2024 13:09

GreenGherkin · 15/12/2024 09:28

Sounds to me like you may have been spiked. Exact same symptoms as my friend when it happened to her

Took a while for this classic line to come up!

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