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A nasty card given to child

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Ssvic · 14/12/2024 08:43

I just found a card tucked away in my daughter’s drawer. It says “no one likes you or cares about you”. She’s 9 years old. Schools have broken up so can’t talk to the teacher. I have the mums contact details as we are on class WhatsApp. I have never spoken to her. What would you do? Ignore and talk to school in January or send the mum a picture of the card? What would you do? I spoke to dd who got very quiet and said he’s naughty. I asked her if she would like me to tell the school
snd she said yes she’s never mentioned this boy before. Sorry for typos, my phone screen is not working properly

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MattieandmummyandIs · 14/12/2024 08:46

Oh that's horrible, your poor DD. I would wait and speak to her teacher first and show them the card. You might have to speak to the boy's Mum if school aren't very helpful but hopefully they will be. Important that's it's on their radar though just incase this is not an isolated event.

DustyLee123 · 14/12/2024 08:46

I’d be contacting school if it came via them. There’s always someone you can co tact

Ssvic · 14/12/2024 08:46

Sorry I wasn’t very clear. It was a Christmas card with “happy Christmas” crossed out and replaced with that message I’ve written in op

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