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Why do people go into debt to go on a holiday

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Bluecatblu · 14/12/2024 00:03

Genuinely don’t understand why people, who are already in debt, will fund their holidays with their credit card. Stressing how you’re going to pay the bills for 50 weeks in exchange for 2 weeks of sitting in the sun.

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theduchessoftintagel · 12/07/2025 19:26

Because life with working full time just to pay the bills is an unrelenting grind and people take a risk with credit to have something to look forward to.

StMarie4me · 12/07/2025 19:09

Because they need one? Because they can? Because your normality is not their normality.

Stop judging people.

BrutalOutHere · 12/07/2025 19:07

Life is short. People have different pleasures, priorities, values. It’s not that hard to understand, is it?

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 12/07/2025 19:04

Dimdam · 12/07/2025 18:43

Self entitlement and hedonism, if you can afford it then don’t go. and don’t buy things you can’t afford, harder to buy the things you need.

My mortgage is paid, don’t drink or smoke. I do pay on the card for extra safety but always clear card at the end of the month

PS Not, all holidays are sitting in the beach baking in the sun. I rode a motorcycle sixty thousand miles through Europe on my own, wild camping in Russia and Scandinavian, beach holidays are my ideas of hell unless I’m scuba diving or playing about in boats

Why resurrect a thread from 6 months back,
where OP disappeared anyway. To show us all how perfect you are?

Screamingabdabz · 12/07/2025 18:51

We did this when our DC were little. If we’d waited until we could afford to save, our kids would have grown up and we’d have never had those precious memories.

We are paying it all off now they’re young adults and although debt is a bummer, I’d never regret it. It bought us priceless family times at a time when we couldn’t afford it, but couldn’t afford not to.

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 18:45

I've started a thread calling out right folk. But I wouldn't get in debt to go on holiday. I couldn't enjoy the holiday properly if it had put me in a bad situation financially

Dimdam · 12/07/2025 18:43

Self entitlement and hedonism, if you can afford it then don’t go. and don’t buy things you can’t afford, harder to buy the things you need.

My mortgage is paid, don’t drink or smoke. I do pay on the card for extra safety but always clear card at the end of the month

PS Not, all holidays are sitting in the beach baking in the sun. I rode a motorcycle sixty thousand miles through Europe on my own, wild camping in Russia and Scandinavian, beach holidays are my ideas of hell unless I’m scuba diving or playing about in boats

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 14/12/2024 17:23

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 17:10

So lack of patience and delayed gratification? That’s what I thought. Beneficial to the economy but means a lot of people will say they don’t have any money when actually they’re just spending it before they’ve actually earned it. Sounds like a bit of a poverty trap?
As I said before the poor plan for the weekend. Which is why they remain poor. Must be a mindset .

Yes, pretty much.
works for me but appreciate it’s not how everyone wants to do things.
I booked 3 holidays for next year on 0%…. 2 fully paid and the other 1 about half paid now.

EmmerdaleFan78 · 14/12/2024 17:11

Is there a point to this thread? The OP has disappeared.

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 17:10

DarkForces · 14/12/2024 14:50

Because I'd rather have my savings in my account earning interest for me and the bank give me the additional security of credit card payment for a large expense

If you have savings then this isn’t about you.

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 17:10

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 14/12/2024 17:01

Because we just don’t want to wait while we save. I’m not bothered about a bit of debt, it’s not a huge amount.

So lack of patience and delayed gratification? That’s what I thought. Beneficial to the economy but means a lot of people will say they don’t have any money when actually they’re just spending it before they’ve actually earned it. Sounds like a bit of a poverty trap?
As I said before the poor plan for the weekend. Which is why they remain poor. Must be a mindset .

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 14/12/2024 17:01

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 13:38

Yes but why do you feel the need to spend money you don’t have on a holiday ? Wouldn’t it make more sense to save up and then look for the deal? Why get yourself in a situation which means you are always owing money?

Because we just don’t want to wait while we save. I’m not bothered about a bit of debt, it’s not a huge amount.

Screamingabdabz · 14/12/2024 16:46

If you’ve got the means to pay it back surely that’s what credit cards are for? We would never have done a single thing or had a single holiday when our children were little if we hadn’t gone into debt. Being able to save is a sign of privilege.

snowlady4 · 14/12/2024 16:42

Because life is short. They can. They want to. Its not illegal. It doesn't hurt anyone. They might not have another way to have the holiday.

saveforthat · 14/12/2024 15:05

I don't get into debt to pay for holidays but if I couldn't afford one I absolutely would. Holidays are really important to me, more important than my mobile phone contract, beauty treatments, new clothes, haircuts, tv pretty much everything except food. We all have different priorities.

Thestreets · 14/12/2024 15:00

Lilacbloomers · 14/12/2024 00:04

We listen and we don’t judge.

🤣🤣🤣

LadyCatNap · 14/12/2024 14:59

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 13:38

Yes but why do you feel the need to spend money you don’t have on a holiday ? Wouldn’t it make more sense to save up and then look for the deal? Why get yourself in a situation which means you are always owing money?

We’ve done this because we wanted to enjoy a few holidays with the DC. If we waited until all the debt was paid and saved up it would take another 5 years and DS would be 18 by then.

The debt was due to DH being ill and not being able to work for 3 years. We’d been through a horrendous time already. Just working to pay bills/debt for another 5 years would be depressing and we were confident we could pay it back. It’s all on 0% cards so no interest. We’re not planning any more holidays now until it’s paid off.

PenelopeAndTheCats · 14/12/2024 14:54

I went into debt for a sofa. Lots of people would say to wait until I had saved. But my back was sore and I wanted to be in comfort. I'll pay it off in 2 years. 0%. Being able to manage debt is a skill in itself. Doesn't worry me at all.

I might do the same for a holiday at some point in life.

DarkForces · 14/12/2024 14:50

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 13:38

Yes but why do you feel the need to spend money you don’t have on a holiday ? Wouldn’t it make more sense to save up and then look for the deal? Why get yourself in a situation which means you are always owing money?

Because I'd rather have my savings in my account earning interest for me and the bank give me the additional security of credit card payment for a large expense

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 13:40

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Withdrawn at the poster's request.

You have a 0.004% chance of dying tomorrow. Those are rather good odds.
Yes I did google it 🤪

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 13:38

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 14/12/2024 13:36

We don’t have much savings and want to keep them for car emergencies etc.

Easy to spot a great holiday deal, buy on credit card and then pay over the year or however long the 0% deal is.

Yes but why do you feel the need to spend money you don’t have on a holiday ? Wouldn’t it make more sense to save up and then look for the deal? Why get yourself in a situation which means you are always owing money?

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 14/12/2024 13:36

We don’t have much savings and want to keep them for car emergencies etc.

Easy to spot a great holiday deal, buy on credit card and then pay over the year or however long the 0% deal is.

ConsuelaHammock · 14/12/2024 13:31

NeverSeenAFarmerOnABike · 14/12/2024 13:15

If you think that's bad OP, the way some people buy houses will blow your mind. 25 years' worth of debt for those suckers.

If you don’t pay your mortgage the bank will take it back? A bank can recall a mortgage at any time too. Not a good comparison at all.
I suppose people who spend money they don’t have just don’t really think about the future ? They assume they will keep earning?

I remember a saying which is something like
‘Rich people plan for 3 generations
Poor people plan for the weekend ‘
Most people have a ‘poor person’ mindset and want to live in the now. Those with a different mindset will go without for a while to reap the benefits later. Delayed gratification? Like children who can wait for the sweet ?

Fairyliz · 14/12/2024 13:31

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But statistically you won’t be dead; the average person has another 40 years to live (assuming average age of death to be 80).
Fair enough if you use credit cards for the security but op is talking about people who are in debt or have no spare cash.
Is it really worth it if in the long run you pay back more money by using a credit card, which ultimately means you can afford less in the future?

MyPithyPoster · 14/12/2024 13:23

Ohnonotmeagain · 14/12/2024 13:19

This.

my kids are older teens now. The last couple of years we’ve done a few “nice” holidays, which I’ve financed on 0% credit.

yes I now have a fair bit of debt on the cards, but in a year both will be away at uni, holidaying with friends, and unlikely to want to come away with mum and dad. So it’ll get paid back then.

when they were younger I’d budget what we could afford only. But I just thought sod it, let’s go to these places and do things before it’s just me and dh getting old.

Risk of being morbid my uncle dropped dead at 56 with a 16 year-old daughter. As soon as he knew he got cancer he was running around like a blue arsed fly trying to create memories but of course he was too sick.

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