AIBU to be upset my partner didn't text to check up on our sick child?
We don't live together atm, but have a child under 1 together. This is because we split up but have been back together a few months and all going well we will move back in together but didn't want to rush this step.
A few days ago our child came down with sickness, they've just started nursery and picking up all the illnesses. I was home alone at my house dealing with all this, sick on dc, sick on me, sick in the bed.
Naturally very worried about them as still little and not had a sickness bug before.
Shortly after dc first came down with this, partner has text asking how little one is so I tell him what's going on.
I then don't hear from him for 25 hrs (I know this is very precise and yes I was counting!).
I didn't try and contact him in this time but I was quietly confused and upset why he didn't check on dc or check if there was anything he could do to help, if we needed anything?
He just responded after all that time saying "sorry for the slow reply, was out for an meal last night and slept in the morning. Is DC any better? How are you? Xx".
When I asked him why he hasn't check in on his ill child for 25 hrs he's called me a psychopath basically, that I'm showing myself for who I truly am, it's become "clear", the "counting the hours" says it all about me, I'm manipulative, controlling.
Was IBU to find it bad he just didn't text?