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Question for Jevovah’s Witnesses or ex Witnesses

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Jozephine · 13/12/2024 14:39

Not really an AIBU, but not sure where to ask this. I’ve got friends who are JW. The know I don’t believe, and are very closed about their beliefs to me and just shut down conversation if I talk about religion. So my question is around death and funerals.

my friends were recent converts and none of their extended family or friends are JW. There have been a number of funerals in their family recently. As these family members were not JW will the belief be that they will be burnt in the eternal fires at judgement day? I can’t square it with my friend saying that her dad is now ‘at peace’ if she believes that’s going to be his fate? If I believed the things JWs claim then I would be a mess thinking of all my dead loved ones who would have such a fate waiting for them. How does it work?

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Workingclasslass · 13/12/2024 14:42

Jozephine · 13/12/2024 14:39

Not really an AIBU, but not sure where to ask this. I’ve got friends who are JW. The know I don’t believe, and are very closed about their beliefs to me and just shut down conversation if I talk about religion. So my question is around death and funerals.

my friends were recent converts and none of their extended family or friends are JW. There have been a number of funerals in their family recently. As these family members were not JW will the belief be that they will be burnt in the eternal fires at judgement day? I can’t square it with my friend saying that her dad is now ‘at peace’ if she believes that’s going to be his fate? If I believed the things JWs claim then I would be a mess thinking of all my dead loved ones who would have such a fate waiting for them. How does it work?

Jehovah’s Witnesses don’t believe in hell they do believe that when people die that’s it what they do believe is when the end of the world comes the people dead will be resurrected and they will get a chance again to know the truth and if they then decide to reject it they will be killed and that’s it. They will be gone from eternity. Actually, when they talk about the end of the world, they also say that the people alive at that point it’s gonna be really bad and they will be killed as well for rejecting the truth.