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Football match and I am 6 months pregnant

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NAY0110 · 13/12/2024 06:48

Hi Everyone,

Sorry I need to know AIBU here because I am fuming. I am almost 6 months pregnant with my 3rd child. My children are 6 and almost 2, so very dependent and at the moment I am really exhausted all time balancing home life and Uni and a pregnancy. My partner and I have had discussions about trying to buy our first home and save. He works full time , pays his way and hardly ever goes out and is a really good hands on dad. This weekend he has told me his colleague has a spare ticket to go and watch the football and I have asked if he minds declining as I am burnt out. I haven't got any support , i mean NONE and I need him to help me as my 2 year old is very active. He has kicked off saying I am controlling him and that I don't let him have a life which has upset me. This is not the case at all and I would never stop him from going out I just feel so worn out plus we're supposed to be saving and i have been very disciplined

AIBU?

OP posts:
HollyGolightly4 · 13/12/2024 06:51

I think you are being unreasonable. If he hardly ever goes out, this opportunity is nice for him- you say you don't stop him, but you're literally doing that. You just need to take time the next day

Hercisback1 · 13/12/2024 06:49

Say "that's fine, I'm going to the cinema the day after and the kids are your responsibility"

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