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To still think exactly is hot?

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Jumell · 12/12/2024 16:56

met my ex for coffee a bit earlier - we’re lucky we’ve still got a good relationship - gosh I still think he’s hot - frim his looks to his accent !!

Conclusion - I really need to get a life !!

any ideas for any pre Xmas distractions before I start going through old photo albums !!

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AshCrapp · 13/12/2024 18:15

BunnyLake · 13/12/2024 18:03

Is that supposed to sound ‘hot’? Well it takes all sorts I suppose.

Heifers?

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I think there's some sort of inverse 'hot man - ugly accent' graph to be drawn here. The hotter the man, the hotter the unattractive accent he has is. The more unattractive the accent is, the hotter the man using it has to be for the accent to be hot. Although there has to be a tipping point - past a certain level of hot accent, any man's use of it is elevated in hotness.

AshCrapp · 13/12/2024 18:11

Hey, listen, I get it. A significant ex of mine is Australian and there is just something about the way he talks that makes my head swim, it's just so incredibly hot to me. On the rare occasions that I've since talked to him I can barely register all the reasons that the relationship didn't work through how he sounds and looks. At the end of the day, there's nothing wrong with fancying an ex. They were obviously attractive enough to date, and attraction doesn't have to stop just because cohabitation didn't work out.

Wouldn't act on it though, if he is indeed a twat.

BunnyLake · 13/12/2024 18:03

Jumell · 12/12/2024 23:47

Accent = Blimey Guv’na!!! - even though he’s never actually used the expression “blimey, Guv’na!”

lol he was exasperated with a family member today and said in a resigned voice *ya can’t tell ‘er nuffink, can ya?!”

I love it -,he talks the same now as heifers met him

he’s an ex ‘cos we used to argue at one time about money, working hours etc

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Is that supposed to sound ‘hot’? Well it takes all sorts I suppose.

Heifers?

Norder · 13/12/2024 17:50

Dollybantree · 13/12/2024 17:14

Oh that accent would make my fanny clamp shut!

Yeah, Cockney was not even at the bottom of the list of "sexy" accents, what the OP describes actually sounds quite grating. 😬

Blinky21 · 13/12/2024 17:46

I recently met my ex, hot he was not

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:24

JustHiker · 13/12/2024 17:20

I know it's Friday but go easy on the wine there babe

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But I’m one of these people that post ‘Prosecco’ memes and ‘Did someone say Beveragino?’ on the dot at 5pm on Fridays ! 🤣

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:21

JustHiker · 13/12/2024 17:20

I know it's Friday but go easy on the wine there babe

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🤣

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JustHiker · 13/12/2024 17:20

Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:18

Yes !!

e.g foreign object falls into fireplace -

“Gerrit aaaaaaht!”

I learned so much when I was with him ..

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I know it's Friday but go easy on the wine there babe

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:18

ObtuseMoose · 13/12/2024 17:16

Is he very virile?

Pope and Catholic come to mind …

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:18

JustHiker · 13/12/2024 17:14

is that is supposed to be him saying 'get it out' 😬

not hot and sexy to me sorry.

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Yes !!

e.g foreign object falls into fireplace -

“Gerrit aaaaaaht!”

I learned so much when I was with him ..

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ObtuseMoose · 13/12/2024 17:16

Is he very virile?

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:15

Dollybantree · 13/12/2024 17:14

Oh that accent would make my fanny clamp shut!

To be fair it’s definitely not for everyone …

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JustHiker · 13/12/2024 17:14

Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:11

Gerrit aaaaht lol!

sorry my typo !!

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is that is supposed to be him saying 'get it out' 😬

not hot and sexy to me sorry.

Dollybantree · 13/12/2024 17:14

Oh that accent would make my fanny clamp shut!

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 17:11

JustHiker · 13/12/2024 17:06

Gerrit assaahht?

Gerrit aaaaht lol!

sorry my typo !!

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JustHiker · 13/12/2024 17:06

Gerrit assaahht?

lionloaf · 13/12/2024 16:43

pinkyredrose · 12/12/2024 17:04

Have a wank and then do some online shopping.

This is exceptional life advice 😂😂

Errors · 13/12/2024 16:42

Jumell · 13/12/2024 16:33

Aargh !! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Nah, go and get yours OP

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 16:33

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/12/2024 16:29

It’s bad. You know it’s bad!

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Aargh !! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/12/2024 16:29

Jumell · 13/12/2024 16:26

He said he’d come round in Saturday fifa chat - dunno if this is going to be good or bad !! 😭😭😭😭

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It’s bad. You know it’s bad!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/12/2024 16:29

An ex is an ex for a reason. And agreed with a pp, one at least of my exes was ridiculously hot as well as being a grade A twat. He now lives in Bucharest (he’s British) and think he had to be careful after pissing off some of the local girls who got their brothers onto him.

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 16:26

MabelMora · 13/12/2024 16:22

And....? What did he say?

He said he’d come round in Saturday fifa chat - dunno if this is going to be good or bad !! 😭😭😭😭

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MabelMora · 13/12/2024 16:22

And....? What did he say?

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 11:55

Errors · 13/12/2024 11:52

Why are you telling us, OP? Go and tell him Wink

I have done actually after a few glasses of wine 😭

felt I’ve embarrassed myself !!

if I book myself the next flight to New Zealand - everyone will know why ! 😭

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Errors · 13/12/2024 11:52

Why are you telling us, OP? Go and tell him Wink