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To still think exactly is hot?

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Jumell · 12/12/2024 16:56

met my ex for coffee a bit earlier - we’re lucky we’ve still got a good relationship - gosh I still think he’s hot - frim his looks to his accent !!

Conclusion - I really need to get a life !!

any ideas for any pre Xmas distractions before I start going through old photo albums !!

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Jumell · 17/12/2024 12:22

SingingSands · 17/12/2024 12:21

God, I love a Cockney accent on a good looking man. Makes me go all gooey.

You and mr both !! ❤️🙌

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SingingSands · 17/12/2024 12:21

God, I love a Cockney accent on a good looking man. Makes me go all gooey.

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Jumell · 17/12/2024 11:36

recyclemeagain · 17/12/2024 11:35

Is this the same ex that's 5'7 and 9 stone. I'm married to a Londoner of similar proportions so can recommend.

Thank you - and yes ! 🙌

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recyclemeagain · 17/12/2024 11:35

Is this the same ex that's 5'7 and 9 stone. I'm married to a Londoner of similar proportions so can recommend.

Riverswims · 15/12/2024 16:06

I think you’re right @Fannyfiggs😋

Fannyfiggs · 15/12/2024 10:31

Riverswims · 15/12/2024 10:25

I’m a healthcare professional 🫢 my colleagues would love this “advice” when there’s no patients around lol

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OMG that's hilarious. I think some of your patients would also love this advice 😂

Riverswims · 15/12/2024 10:25

Fannyfiggs · 15/12/2024 07:27

I hope you're not a doctor 😂

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I’m a healthcare professional 🫢 my colleagues would love this “advice” when there’s no patients around lol

Fannyfiggs · 15/12/2024 07:27

Riverswims · 13/12/2024 10:37

I’m gonna start saying that- yanno just generally when someone comes to me with a problem pmsl 🤣
you’ve given me a much needed laugh today 😋

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I hope you're not a doctor 😂

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Jumell · 15/12/2024 07:21

He was describing a friend who’d recently come into a small inheritance and said :

” you gotta spend it in an ‘olidy or summink i- I mean -,ya can’t tike it wivvya!’

I love that accent and am practicing my glottal stops as we speak !!

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Jumell · 15/12/2024 07:14

MumOfOneAllAlone · 14/12/2024 22:40

Oh yeah, a man should be filling you up, not draining you 🤭🤭

He does sound hot though

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Agreed a man should definitely be filling you up !! 😊😊😊😊

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Jumell · 15/12/2024 02:29

MumOfOneAllAlone · 14/12/2024 22:41

Nothing wrong with a little walk, you can guague whether to briefly go there again 🤭

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Exactly. I’m looking forward to it ❤️

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Jumell · 15/12/2024 02:16

RedToothBrush · 14/12/2024 22:34

Just shag him then block him.

Get it out your system! Then do the sensible thing.

🤣🤣

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MumOfOneAllAlone · 14/12/2024 22:41

Jumell · 14/12/2024 19:38

Ah yes seen him ! He’s wearing a nice fitted top ❤️

We had a chat about our current lives - mine’s uneventful! - and had a look through some old photo albums. Omg when he was younger he was soooo cuuuute !! 🤣❤️

He suggested going for a walk in the next few days ..

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Nothing wrong with a little walk, you can guague whether to briefly go there again 🤭

leia24 · 14/12/2024 22:41

RedToothBrush · 12/12/2024 18:16

He has to be beautiful to make up for being a twat?

It's the twat / beauty complex ....

Yeah this. I get botox and lash extensions to conceal the fact I'm a dickhead

MumOfOneAllAlone · 14/12/2024 22:40

Jumell · 13/12/2024 11:39

Haha the cockney accent is very ‘chef’s kiss’ ❤️

His parents were actually Irish so it’s quite an achievement for him to have turned out so ‘Blimey, Guv’nor!’

I guess the main thing I learned from our relationship was that if something’s blocking the drain you -

’Gerrit asaaahht!’

Quite a valuable life lesson.

It’s a good thing now and again to have sinful thoughts 😉

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Oh yeah, a man should be filling you up, not draining you 🤭🤭

He does sound hot though

RedToothBrush · 14/12/2024 22:34

Just shag him then block him.

Get it out your system! Then do the sensible thing.

pinkyredrose · 14/12/2024 20:26

Jumell · 14/12/2024 19:38

Ah yes seen him ! He’s wearing a nice fitted top ❤️

We had a chat about our current lives - mine’s uneventful! - and had a look through some old photo albums. Omg when he was younger he was soooo cuuuute !! 🤣❤️

He suggested going for a walk in the next few days ..

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Woohoo! Great update!

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Jumell · 14/12/2024 19:40

AshCrapp · 13/12/2024 18:15

I think there's some sort of inverse 'hot man - ugly accent' graph to be drawn here. The hotter the man, the hotter the unattractive accent he has is. The more unattractive the accent is, the hotter the man using it has to be for the accent to be hot. Although there has to be a tipping point - past a certain level of hot accent, any man's use of it is elevated in hotness.

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lol I think I just about follow this ! 🤣

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Jumell · 14/12/2024 19:38

pinkyredrose · 14/12/2024 18:24

How's today going Op, have you seen him yet?

Ah yes seen him ! He’s wearing a nice fitted top ❤️

We had a chat about our current lives - mine’s uneventful! - and had a look through some old photo albums. Omg when he was younger he was soooo cuuuute !! 🤣❤️

He suggested going for a walk in the next few days ..

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pinkyredrose · 14/12/2024 18:24

How's today going Op, have you seen him yet?

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 18:35

tarheelbaby · 13/12/2024 18:24

I hear ya.

A very long time ago, I went with an acquaintance to see a specialist vet for her nutty dog. He was tall and had the poshest OxBridge accent (which was lost on her as an American) and I was ready to strip off. I knew that her dog was in the best hands but she didn't realise how good.

In a similar vein, male friends I've never fancied put on reading glasses, look over their noses and then I'm jelly. OR play a musical instrument like a boss and I'm ready to go home with them.

I like men who push their glasses back on their nose iyswim

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Badburyrings · 13/12/2024 18:33

Dollybantree · 13/12/2024 17:14

Oh that accent would make my fanny clamp shut!

Same.

tarheelbaby · 13/12/2024 18:24

I hear ya.

A very long time ago, I went with an acquaintance to see a specialist vet for her nutty dog. He was tall and had the poshest OxBridge accent (which was lost on her as an American) and I was ready to strip off. I knew that her dog was in the best hands but she didn't realise how good.

In a similar vein, male friends I've never fancied put on reading glasses, look over their noses and then I'm jelly. OR play a musical instrument like a boss and I'm ready to go home with them.

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Jumell · 13/12/2024 18:21

BunnyLake · 13/12/2024 18:03

Is that supposed to sound ‘hot’? Well it takes all sorts I suppose.

Heifers?

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Sorry heifers is autocorrect/typo!

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Beautifulweeds · 13/12/2024 18:15

Only you know the answer to this! How does he feel, why did you split up? It's quite common for exes to have a post get together, not saying it's the right thing to do, but it happens a lot. All depends if he hurt you and you're trying to move on etc x