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People who think weight loss injections are cheating

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AuntieDote · 12/12/2024 12:18

I've seen this viewpoint over multiple threads recently, and I'm just really curious to understand it a bit more because it makes no sense to me whatsoever.

What do you think people using the injections are cheating at?

As in - what's the competition and who are they gaining an unfair advantage over? What do you think the rules of being allowed to lose weight are/ should be?

Is it more important to you that overweight people/ those struggling with obesity lose the weight, become healthier, reduce the burden on the NHS, stop taking up more than their allocated amount of space in the world, or just stop doing whatever it is that upsets people so much about the existence of fat people -- or is it more important that they struggle and suffer whilst doing so?

Or would you secretly prefer them to remain fat so you can feel superior?

Is it that you feel you've worked really hard to either lose weight, keep it off or never put it on in the first place, so nobody else should be allowed to achieve this without the same amount of struggle?

What do you think the weight loss injections actually do, and do you not recognise that those on them are also doing all the usual things people who are trying to lose weight e.g. modify their eating, exercise etc? Does it not count that they're doing these things because it's made easier in some ways by the drug?

What types of weight loss support or tools are not 'cheating'? e.g. I used hypnosis once and it worked for a bit, to the point that I felt pretty much the same way I do with the injections i.e. reduction in food noise and compulsion to snack etc. It didn't last anything like as long, but it worked for a time - was that cheating?

Would it still be cheating if they weren't as effective as they are?

FWIW, I really couldn't care less if people think I'm cheating - who cares? Who does it impact only me and my bank balance? If someone said here, press this button and you'll be a healthy BMI overnight and stay there forever I'd press it with both hands and not give a shit about how anyone felt about it.

But it's just the logic of it that baffles me - I've never seen it as a competition and have never felt like getting to or being a healthy weight only counts if it's done in a certain way - I suppose I'm not much interested in what size anyone else is or what they do to get that way, so I can't imagine for a second ever thinking another person was 'cheating' - only ever being happy for them if they're happy and hopefully healthy too.

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TheresGlitterOnTheFloor · 12/12/2024 12:29

You hit the nail on the head with this, OP:

Is it more important to you that overweight people/ those struggling with obesity lose the weight, become healthier, reduce the burden on the NHS, stop taking up more than their allocated amount of space in the world, or just stop doing whatever it is that upsets people so much about the existence of fat people -- or is it more important that they struggle and suffer whilst doing so?

It's all about the struggle - and people who think this way don't acknowledge or understand any struggles that fat people have had in their attempts to lose weight beforehand. They seem to believe that fat people are having a lovely time enjoying food and should be made to be miserable. That's all there is to it. Anyway this thread will fill up with the most horrendous ignorant WLI bingo, but you've got the answer, honestly - it's people who cannot bear to see anyone else succeed at anything and don't possess a shred of empathy.

Smallsalt · 12/12/2024 12:27

It's utterly ridiculous and more than a little pathetic.

Cheating?
Therefore weight is a competition?

That says a lot more about the saddos who bitch about the injections than it does about the people using them.

It's tragic that some people's sense of superiority at "being slim" is being eroded by people trying to improve their lives.

ThisMustBeMyDream · 12/12/2024 12:25

No bloody idea. I can tell you now, I'm sat in the gym having just done 2 hours of working out. I do that 3x a week. My lunch is in a pack up in the car where I'll sit to eat it and crack on with all my other jobs for the day. I fit in 10k steps somehow, despite barely hitting 1.5k back before I started this.
I show up every god damn day, and work really fucking hard. As hard (actually, way harder!) than I have at any other weight loss I've done before (I've lost 4st, regained, lost 5.5st, regained etc). This time I've taken 19 months to lose 6.5st, and I've made the lifestyle changes and habits to last a lifetime. I'm close to target and Saxenda has only played a small part in that. But it was the part that gave me space to make the changes. My metabolic age went from 54, to 34. I'm 40 for reference. I am strong. I'm fit. I'm amazing, and fuck if anyone feels it's cheating. Because the sacrifices and effort I make are MORE thanks to Saxenda ❤️. It's been life changing. Literally. My life is totally different now.

Ps. I love my new body, and I'm damn well showing it what this woman is capable of! Medication isn't bloody cheating, the same as going to the gym and doing my 10k steps and living on 1300 cals aren't!