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Suitable accommodation ?? Help!

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BePearlMaker · 12/12/2024 09:19

Is a bedsit (no rooms other than bathroom) suitable accommodation for my 6 year old, her dad (she sees once every 2 weeks), his new girlfriend (my daughter has met once) and potentially her child too?

Am I being unreasonable to say this isn’t suitable accommodation and to stop overnight stays and proceed with long day visits instead as it puts her at risk and discomfort?

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Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 12/12/2024 14:25

Is the bathroom shared or unsuited?

If it's shared I'm afraid it would be an absolute no from me. The safeguarding risk is just too high.

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BePearlMaker · 12/12/2024 13:31

MiddleAgedDread · 12/12/2024 13:23

Dad and daughter I think would be ok, although I'd be concerned about how she's going to go to bed at a sensible time for her age when there's only one living space.
Absolutely not OK with a woman she's only met once and another unrelated child. How long has he been in this relationship?

He refuses to tell me anything! I don’t know anything about her at all (not that I necessarily have to know, but I want to protect my daughter)

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MiddleAgedDread · 12/12/2024 13:23

Dad and daughter I think would be ok, although I'd be concerned about how she's going to go to bed at a sensible time for her age when there's only one living space.
Absolutely not OK with a woman she's only met once and another unrelated child. How long has he been in this relationship?