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AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.

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Catasleep · 09/12/2024 21:18

Not going to name any specific women actors but I was just looking at one of my fave comedians whose just had a face full of fillers and she just didn't look great. She was about the same age as me (early 50s) and my friends and none of them have had anything done, (well maybe a little but it's not obvious if they have), but they all great and I'd be really shocked if any of them started to go down the route of such extreme fillers / botox etc.

I'm not saying I look like I've fallen into the fountain of youth, far from it, but I look, for want of a better word, normal.

I do get there is so much pressure on women in the public eye but after a certain stage of procedures it doesn't make anyone look any younger and just starts to make people look weird.

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Beentheredonethat0 · 10/12/2024 19:11

I've never been a fan of Victoria B, I still remember an interview she did where she was having problems speaking because she'd had so much lip filler done, clearly not long before her interview. She's had lots of work done but not much of it very good.

Brooke Shields I respect, because though she has had work done, they ALL do. It's very subtle and not drastic, she's decided to also show her wrinkles, which is really brave in that industry. She has great bone structure and that really helps.

Since I'm in my 50s now, I am scrupulous with my health (most of the time), I quit drinking alcohol. I work out a lot, combo of cardio and strength training and I take lots of great supplements (NMN, collagen) which really helps your skin.

But nothing, and I mean nothing, helps more than strength training for looking younger. So if I want to perk up my bust, I do specific chest exercises. If I want my glutes/butt to be more lifted, I focus on glute exercises. Nothing could have prepared me for the change in my body that strength training has given me. I'm both amazed and delighted. It's taken some time, following lockdown and sciatica but I can sculpt my physique as I see fit and I love doing it. And I'm not even doing this for aesthetics (which have massively improved, fat loss and musculature I never thought I'd have again) I'm doing this for my older lady physique, to protect against falls and bone and muscle loss. Beside which, I love being strong.

I can pick up a 20kg barbell off the floor with ease. It's the best feeling I've ever experienced!

MJnotMJ · 10/12/2024 19:01

MJnotMJ · 10/12/2024 18:58

The photo I posted was from a few months ago - to me she has definitely ‘kept up’ her face. Photos of her recently show a smoother appearance - not wrinkle free but refreshed. I really don’t think she’s aged without help (and I have no issue with that at all!)

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@uptheculdesac bloody hell I’m bad at this photo and tagging stuff 🤦🏻‍♀️

MJnotMJ · 10/12/2024 18:58

The photo I posted was from a few months ago - to me she has definitely ‘kept up’ her face. Photos of her recently show a smoother appearance - not wrinkle free but refreshed. I really don’t think she’s aged without help (and I have no issue with that at all!)

Beentheredonethat0 · 10/12/2024 18:54

NurseButtercup · 10/12/2024 15:53

I think the red head you are referring to is the actress Lindsey Lohan? She looks amazing. I understand that Dr Steven Levine in New York did the surgery and Dr Radmila Lukian in Dubai has done the skin rejuvenation work.

If I could afford it I would absolutely, definitely undergo surgery. I don't recognise myself when I look in the mirror. I've also stopped doing filler after hearing Dr Amir Karam explain how it damages your skin in the long term.

So until I win the lottery or somehow become rich, I'm relearning how to love my face as it ages (sob), and I'm cutting out sugar and alcohol.

I finally fully understand the following motto:
When you look good you feel good, when you feel good you look good.

Yes, thanks! It's Lindsay Lohan. Think she's had a deep plane facelift and she looks great. But then it would do, she's only in her 30s.

Telltale sign of a deep plane is the subtle front of ear scar or pull and of course the mouth looks pulled, which it has been. It can look a bit 'Joker' ish if you know what I mean. So you can tell Lindsay had it.
But the more surgery you get, the more damage and scar tissue is created.
Also they don't last, so after 8-10 years all those ageing signs will revisit!

Yes please, no more fillers for your face (a tiny, and I mean tiny amount in the lips can look great, to even out lips size, etc) but NOT in your facial features like cheeks, etc.

DelicateSoundOfEchos · 10/12/2024 18:54

Fillers, botox etc are incredibly ageing. I see young women having this shit done and it ages them 15yrs overnight. Same is the case for older women, but it's even more pronounced because your attention is drawn to it more.

TorroFerney · 10/12/2024 18:54

uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:33

I. Ant see how this doesn't look 58 to you. She looks great. I think she's really attractive. And natural. What do you mean the eyes? These look like 58 year old eyes. Hell. Trey are wrinklier than mine

Oh come on she's had botox , and subtle fillers. she's just not gone wild so she has some little wrinkles. She's probably not had an eyelid lift I grant you but please let's not kid ourselves.

User14March · 10/12/2024 18:52

@uptheculdesac in other photos VB looks amazing & on her make-up videos.

TorroFerney · 10/12/2024 18:51

Mercurial123 · 09/12/2024 21:53

She's had a face lift.

Was just going to say that! Not wearing make up does not mean no plastic surgery! She is only acceptable to the media as she looks so fantastic with no make up because of the plastic surgery. It's like the woman who played Barbie she's had her eyes and nose done and she was already very attractive to start with and young.

User14March · 10/12/2024 18:50

@uptheculdesac have you had lip filler? Your lips look amazing either way.

uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:33

MJnotMJ · 10/12/2024 18:04

@uptheculdesac this is a 58 year old woman. Look at that jaw line, look at those eyelids. This is not aging without help…
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I. Ant see how this doesn't look 58 to you. She looks great. I think she's really attractive. And natural. What do you mean the eyes? These look like 58 year old eyes. Hell. Trey are wrinklier than mine

AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:31

MJnotMJ · 10/12/2024 18:04

@uptheculdesac this is a 58 year old woman. Look at that jaw line, look at those eyelids. This is not aging without help…
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I've just posted pictures of my jawline 🫤
I haven't had surgery or had any procedures other than using tretinoin and vitamin C

My mother still had a jaw line in her 80s. Not firm firm but she had zero double chin . .

uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:29

Speedweed · 09/12/2024 22:46

They've all had facelifts - look at the jaw lines. All taut and no double chins!

They have an early facelift in their late thirties/early forties (normally coincides with having their babies, so they have a year or two to recover and for the lift to settle). The men are at it too - Rufus Sewell had a face lift which was a bit tight and he didn't look right, so then disappeared again for a few years before coming back and looks great.
Then they have a routine of non-surgical tightening to keep everything in place. Botox and fillers as needed whilst they aren't working, and then those are allowed to wear off in time for filming so they can move their eyebrows, have expressions etc.

I prefer those who let themselves age (even if at a slower rate) like Kristen Scott Thomas, Meryl Streep, Pamela Anderson to those who seem desperate to stay looking 'young' eg Madonna, Jlo, Nicole Kilmun etc.

Not everyone gets a double chin. I don't have one. My neck is a little softer but I don't have loose skin and a wattle

AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
Moonshine5 · 10/12/2024 18:25

usernother · 10/12/2024 14:13

Renee zellweger put on weight for that role. She said she found it very difficult. She was a size 12.

Do you mean Bridget Jones?

uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:22

User14March · 09/12/2024 22:42

@PrincessHoneysuckle you’re right & she’s often held as gold standard by women seeking ‘work’. I expect the best ‘work’ is prohibitively expensive & surgeons booked for years unless you have clout. Cheap work shows.

Interesting that apparently Madonna looks good in real life! I think being very physically fit into your 60s/70s/80s makes you appear much younger in the flesh. The way you move counts for a lot.

Madonna moves bizarrely considering she was a dancer

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uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:18

User14March · 09/12/2024 22:28

Trinny Woodall I think looks amazing at 60 plus. I don’t think she’s had a facelift just ‘tweaks’ & her ‘get up & go’ is enviable!

Caroline Stanbury had a good face lift before 50, not sure she needed it.

I think being on screen potentially problematic as you can look facially fine in the mirror & baggy, crepey saggy & lined on the big screen or even on a humble Teams meeting. Influencers etc I think sometimes overdo filler etc as you then look perfect on TicTok etc but overdone in real life.

Mooooo Trinny's mouth makes me gag. I literally switch off anything she is on. When her face pops up on social media I have to delete it. That mouth has been filled to the point that it looks just awful. Horrible.

SemperIdem · 10/12/2024 18:11

No idea if she’s had any work, but Jane Seymour has aged phenomenally well and must be well into her 70’s now.

uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:08

Catasleep · 09/12/2024 21:41

Pamela Anderson looks incredible.

She's had a facelift or two

MJnotMJ · 10/12/2024 18:06

With the photo!

AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
MJnotMJ · 10/12/2024 18:04

@uptheculdesac this is a 58 year old woman. Look at that jaw line, look at those eyelids. This is not aging without help…
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Gloriia · 10/12/2024 18:02

Ohnonotmeagain · 09/12/2024 21:40

I would just like to say Pamela Anderson.

bloody amazing woman. Looks amazing too, despite not conforming to Hollywood pressure.

clearly she felt the pressure as a young actress but happy for her that she can embrace her looks now.

She looks great, so youthful without the overfilled weird cat's eyed look. I wonder why she doesn't just put basic makeup on like mascara and blusher though? She would look exactly the same as she did in her heyday. There aren't many women of her age that would go so obviously sans makeup particularly when they knew they'd be photographed.

uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 18:01

User14March · 09/12/2024 21:27

I think there’s a sweet spot where lots of work is usually an improvement - would I like to look like Nicole Kidman at 70 as she does now? (Know she’s not 70 yet) Hell yes, if a toss up between this & saggy crone, crepey & old dumpy womanish in MS polyester in Lidl aisles.

Victoria B not an actress but she’s 50 & looks incredible. Look at her Spice Girl audition tapes. Fab work or is it the fish ;) Seriously, she looks amazing.

I feel like I've fallen into a parallel universe where someone thinks Brook Sheilds looks unnatural and Victoria Beckham looks good. I think she looks weird af. Her mouth looks stretched like Zippy's mouth

AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
uptheculdesac · 10/12/2024 17:57

Appalonia · 09/12/2024 21:27

Totally agree. I find some older actresses almost painful to look at now because the work they've had done just makes them look so...strange. I was watching a film recently with Brooke Shields in, we 're the same age, late 50s and she was so stunning in her youth, but I swear I look better than her now, just cos I haven't messed with my face! ( I DON'T mean that in a boastful way, it's just such a shame what she's done to her face.) I guess actresses are under a lot of pressure from the industry, and quite a few older actors are getting work done now too, which looks even more weird. Even young women are getting work done now, on the latest MAFS, half the women had had botox, fillets etc and it didn't look good!

This doesn't look like a face that's been messed around with
Sad you think she looks bad

AIBU to think famous women don't look worse because they age, it's because of the surgery.
Justleaveitblankthen · 10/12/2024 17:56

Well I love Pammy. However, she may be going make up free, but she is 100% still having secret nips and tucks.
I guarantee.

MereDintofPandiculation · 10/12/2024 16:48

So until I win the lottery or somehow become rich, I'm relearning how to love my face as it ages (sob), and I'm cutting out sugar and alcohol.
I finally fully understand the following motto:
When you look good you feel good, when you feel good you look good.

I came to terms with my 90 year old face by making a point of smiling whenever I saw a mirror. a) I look better smiling b) it's nice to have someone smile back at you from the mirror.

(I'm not 90, I just think I look it. But I don't care)

User14March · 10/12/2024 16:36

@FridayNight1975 & yet Hugh Grant was told he was grossly fat at 12.5 stone & 5ft 11 & told to sort it out sharpish.

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