I keep seeing this on mn usually in defence of "house rules" for adult children, sometimes also young adults and teens.
For those who say that, is it not your children's home as well?
What age does it stop being their home?
I'm not talking about where there is abuse, aggression, complete disregard for other members of the household, but more when parents seem to be trying to control their children under the banner of "my house my rules".
Aibu to think my house is also my children's house, so allow them autonomy and not try to control them, or
Yabu and, I don't even know because what is the alternative? Drive my kids away and make them feel uncomfortable in what apparently isn't their own home anymore?