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Wondering what others would do in this situation

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farmergirl15 · 08/12/2024 17:46

Person A told person B that their DC was poorly on a Thursday, their DC was off school for two days. There was a weekend away planned with a club.
Person B assumed person A's DC would not be attending as they hadn't been at school and said as much to person A. Person A rang Person B shouting so Person B hung up and informed person C who is in charge of said club. It was originally decided that person a's DC could attend as person a said that their dc wasn't poorly on the Friday, they were off for a family emergency. Then person C made the decision that person A's DC could not attend. Person B messaged person A to let them know and provided contact details for person c. Person A rang person C and shouted at them also.
Persons B and C feel that persons A DC should transfer to a different club, however Person B also feels that the DC shouldn't suffer because of Person A's behaviour.
So AIBU let the DC stay even tho person A has threatened volunteers of the club
Or AINBU transfer the DC out, nobody should be threatened especially when they're volunteering.
Person A and person B are acquaintances at school, person B and C are volunteers.

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farmergirl15 · 08/12/2024 17:54

That's a good idea thanks. I was helping organise the trip and I didn't want nearly 40 people getting poorly

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comedycentral · 08/12/2024 17:53

I find it so hard to read when people use a, b, and c for naming, or 1, 2, 3. Does anyone else feel the same? So sorry, I couldn't follow your story, OP. I hope it ends well for you all, though 🌸

Cherry8809 · 08/12/2024 17:53

MabelMora · 08/12/2024 17:51

Person B should probably have not got involved in the first place.

This.

I don’t understand why you’d call C and “inform them”.

Busybody behaviour.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 08/12/2024 17:53

Volunteers should not be threatened. Person A should be told that in future another adult will have to bring the child to the club and they are banned from the premises while the club is in session and from contacting any of the club officials and volunteers.

farmergirl15 · 08/12/2024 17:53

Person b didn't want anyone else to get poorly on the trip. Person a didn't say that dc wasn't poorly until after the weekend was mentioned

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fost · 08/12/2024 17:53

Person A is an arsehole. Person B shouldn't have made assumptions though.

farmergirl15 · 08/12/2024 17:52

I'm person B, I don't want to use names as I don't want any further threats of complaints.

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MabelMora · 08/12/2024 17:51

Person B should probably have not got involved in the first place.

farmergirl15 · 08/12/2024 17:51

The parents don't have to sign a code of conduct I don't think. It's more common sense and common curtesy. Person A has always been a pain in the arse, late with payments etc.

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MounjaroUser · 08/12/2024 17:50

I wish people would use names instead of A, B and C!

SaagAloopa · 08/12/2024 17:49

Person A rang Person B shouting
Person A rang person C and shouted at them also.

Do they not sign some sort of code of conduct. Sorry but boot the kid out or Person A will forever be a pain in the arse.

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