Met twenty odd years ago at work, good friendship for a couple of years, they moved away, invited me to stay a year or two later. Went to stay and overheard her say to her dh ‘What do you do if you’re not sure if you like someone anymore?’ (Talking about me) also heard her him call me ‘A bit chunky now’ (I was size 12)
She then came to stay nearby a few years later and I saw her but then had excruciating kidney stones, she was upset we didn’t spend more time together (I was in bed vomiting, she said she could have come and sat with me-I don’t like anyone near me when that ill)
A few years later, she stayed a short plane ride away from me, I said I could fly over, we could meet up etc, she made no effort and sort of ignored it until home and it was too late. I’ve tried to keep some contact over the years, by messaging etc, she rarely initiates, which I understand as we’re far away, but we haven’t spoken/messaged really for years.
Would you remain in contact and see her?