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Can I bring my partners Syrian mum and sisters to the UK?

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BA25 · 07/12/2024 19:53

war has broken out, there village is surrounded. Is there any way I can bring them here to keep them safe? My partner is crying non stop. Can I sponsor them? The rules are so confusing.

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TheSquareMile · 07/12/2024 22:22

I'm not sure what their ability to access the internet would be at this juncture, but they would need to apply for a visa.

www.gov.uk/standard-visitor/apply-standard-visitor-visa

AvidOpalBee · 07/12/2024 22:21

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Supersimkin7 · 07/12/2024 22:21

I’d aim a lot closer than the UK if they need to get to safety - Turkey?

I think you have to be on the right side (not sure which it is) of a civil war to get through the uk asylum rules, there’s only 13,000 or so Syrians from the current war here.

LoremIpsumCici · 07/12/2024 22:19

Jc2001 · 07/12/2024 22:11

May be a bit difficult to do all that if the place you live is surrounded by belidgerant forces like the op has said.

A lot of the documents needed for proof of funds can be downloaded to a phone and then you simply wait in a hotel near the consulate while the application is being processed.

Obviously no one can send in the SAS to do an extraction from their current location. They have to first flee to a spot with a bit of safety.

NautilusLionfish · 07/12/2024 22:18

Wow, some smega covered dicks out in force tonight. People do not choose to live in war torn or war vulnerable countries. Have some empathy.

LoremIpsumCici · 07/12/2024 22:17

fashionqueen0123 · 07/12/2024 22:09

I really doubt they’d be approving those visas right now. It would be blindingly obvious they’re not coming for a holiday.

It’s not used just for holidays, visiting family- a family reunion, or other event is totally lawful. Maybe OP and partner can decide to get married in a month, weddings are good reasons for family to travel.

Snowontheroof · 07/12/2024 22:13

greenel · 07/12/2024 20:21

I'm a naturalised British citizen and have lived in the Uk for 20 years. However I can't bring my elderly mother over from my home country permanently (despite her living alone) and me being an only child with a high income. While it upsets me greatly that despite being a British citizen now I can't bring family over, I understand why. There's millions of immigrants like me in the UK and if we all brought our families over, it would be chaos. There's a lot of countries at war, people persecuted everywhere, economic strife and everyone wants to get out but sadly when you migrate you accept people get left behind. It's a cruel reality of immigration and for millennia it's how families have been split up as not everyone can move en masse to one place. It doesn't make it any easier so I'm very sorry for your partner. It's worth checking if they qualify for any exemptions but I know many immigrant families have hit this obstacle without success.

Surely the point is why should she need to be here? What is wrong with their home country?
Our country should be helping these other countries to have the resources for their citizens to live happily where they are, shouldn't they? Who is causing the chaos?

Jc2001 · 07/12/2024 22:11

LoremIpsumCici · 07/12/2024 22:04

Yes, they’d need proof of funds to support their stay. But once the application is in with the British consulate, the decision only takes a few days. If their accomodation is with family, that reduces the funds required.

May be a bit difficult to do all that if the place you live is surrounded by belidgerant forces like the op has said.

fashionqueen0123 · 07/12/2024 22:09

LoremIpsumCici · 07/12/2024 22:01

They can apply for a tourist visa and honestly say they are visiting your partner on a 6 month tourist visa. This could all be over in 6 months and they’d be safe to go back to Syria. If it isn’t then, you have 6 months to build a case with an immigration lawyer and have them file for asylum- you have to file for it from inside the U.K. anyway.
https://visalist.io/united-kingdom/visa-requirements/syria

this gets them here very quickly.

I really doubt they’d be approving those visas right now. It would be blindingly obvious they’re not coming for a holiday.

LoremIpsumCici · 07/12/2024 22:08

Also the visit on the visa request doesn’t have to be for full 6 months. Ask for 2 months and the visa you get is still for 6 months. You’d have to book return flights showing 2 months once it’s gone through, but funds required would be based on a 2 month stay. And if the airline cancels the return flights because not safe, they still have the full 6 months in the U.K. as legal visitors.

LoremIpsumCici · 07/12/2024 22:04

GellerYeller · 07/12/2024 21:52

Applying for a ‘6 month tourist visa’ isn’t as straightforward as it sounds. They would need their own funds or sponsorship, whether they plan to stay for 6 days or 6 months. They and your partner would be checked out and the authorities would potentially conclude this isn’t a ‘visit’. As there is family here and no safe prospect of returning home afterwards. The process won’t be quick either.
Once a visa has been refused it’s even harder to reapply in future.
Do seek legal advice or contact the Red Cross as they may be able to suggest other quicker avenues. Sending very best wishes. 💐

Yes, they’d need proof of funds to support their stay. But once the application is in with the British consulate, the decision only takes a few days. If their accomodation is with family, that reduces the funds required.

LoremIpsumCici · 07/12/2024 22:01

They can apply for a tourist visa and honestly say they are visiting your partner on a 6 month tourist visa. This could all be over in 6 months and they’d be safe to go back to Syria. If it isn’t then, you have 6 months to build a case with an immigration lawyer and have them file for asylum- you have to file for it from inside the U.K. anyway.
https://visalist.io/united-kingdom/visa-requirements/syria

this gets them here very quickly.

Notjustabrunette · 07/12/2024 21:56

Jc2001 · 07/12/2024 21:34

Malaysia? That's on a different continent 😉

Malaysia and Syria are both in Asia. Although, not particularly close to each other.

Hairyfairy01 · 07/12/2024 21:54

I fully admit i don't fully understand what is going on in Syria but I'm sorry for your partners family and I hope they get to a place of safety. I cannot even begin to imagine what they are going through.

GellerYeller · 07/12/2024 21:52

Applying for a ‘6 month tourist visa’ isn’t as straightforward as it sounds. They would need their own funds or sponsorship, whether they plan to stay for 6 days or 6 months. They and your partner would be checked out and the authorities would potentially conclude this isn’t a ‘visit’. As there is family here and no safe prospect of returning home afterwards. The process won’t be quick either.
Once a visa has been refused it’s even harder to reapply in future.
Do seek legal advice or contact the Red Cross as they may be able to suggest other quicker avenues. Sending very best wishes. 💐

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 07/12/2024 21:51

@Julia34 are you high? Your posts are painful to read.

SpanThatWorld · 07/12/2024 21:50

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Did you just pull random words out of a dictionary to construct that sentence?

Not all Syrians are Muslim.
Not all Muslims want sharia law.

SuperfluousHen · 07/12/2024 21:49

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  1. They may not be Muslims.
  2. The family member is in the UK and wants to bring his / her mother and sisters to be safe here.
SpanThatWorld · 07/12/2024 21:48

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There are millions of people threatened by murderous religious extremists and you finish your message with a 😅
What is wrong with you?

Lifestooshort71 · 07/12/2024 21:47

LetThereBeLove · 07/12/2024 21:10

Reported. Just go away and stop hassling the OP.

Reported for what?

Julia34 · 07/12/2024 21:46

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SpanThatWorld · 07/12/2024 21:44

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Because lots of Syrians are secular and don't want to live under sharia law. The rebels are extremist Muslims and most people in Syria have no appetite for that kind of life. Why on earth would they want to go to live in Saudi Arabia?

Also the family in question has a member of their family living in the UK which possibly explains why they'd rather be here than 1000s of miles in the other direction in Malaysia.

If a rebel militia rose up in the UK threatening to bring in the Inquisition, would you rather live (a) with a family member in Turkey or (b) on your own in Zambia or the Phillipines?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 07/12/2024 21:42

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SuperfluousHen · 07/12/2024 21:42

NasiDagang · 07/12/2024 21:40

Malaysia is a Muslim country.

We are discussing Syrians.
Read the title of the thread.

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