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...to report a manager for sleeping with someone on his team?

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OutofIdeas86 · 07/12/2024 10:44

A male colleague recently received a significant, and IMO, undeserved promotion.
For context, I work in the beer industry and around 90% of all staff are male.
99% of all leaders are male.

This colleague, with no managerial experience, no has a large team of about 10 people covering large area of UK.

I spotted during an event on his first week, he seemed very 'close' to a female sales person, who has recently moved in the UK, and reports into him.

I've since found out they are sleeping together.

It's totally inappropriate, immature and an abuse of power - his is older than her, and her manager.

Shall I report it on whistleblowing number?

OP posts:
p1l1l · 07/12/2024 10:46

I’d keep out of it personally. If she’s an internationally mobile adult, presumably she’s capable of taking her own decisions/not vulnerable?

Hankunamatata · 07/12/2024 10:46

How do you know they haven't reported their relationship to management?

Tink3rbell30 · 07/12/2024 10:45

Yes that's gross.