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To report this receptionist?

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Ezlo · 06/12/2024 18:26

Today I had to call in at my surgery to get blood bags.

I had to queue for a while to get seen to and when I did, the receptionist didn't smile, she didn't apologise for the long wait and then couldn't find on the system why I needed the blood to be taken. Her colleague eventually helped and after more faffing, I got my blood bag. She had a sour face throughout.

There were two other staff members Sat who were only taking prescription requests or arriving people in for their appointments but were mostly sat without any patients.

By that point I had just missed the hourly bus to where the bloods where being taken and had to walk about a mile all up hill whilst severly anaemic.

This is the same clinic where you can only book an appointment by going in to surgery at 8am each weekday or by using the online triage which is accessible from 8am to around 9.15am each weekday. If you work those times then you don't get an appointment. They refuse to give appointments by phone.

OP posts:
Oftenaddled · 06/12/2024 20:13

Your interpretation of her facial expression just isn't something you can complain about. It's subjective, people look different, and it's easy to miss a quick smile on some people.

I wouldn't normally expect an apology for waiting in a queue at a reception.

She had trouble finding your information. That's not necessarily her fault. Someone came to help her. Why call that faffing around - do you know the system they were working with?

You're judging that the delay was her fault without evidence here. Why complain and worry and upset someone on low pay in a hard job without solid facts to go on. You don't know what her manager is like and whether she will get a fair hearing. Save complaints for definite problems.

It's a miserable world with people constantly jumping to pull each other down. What would you get out of doing this?

Make it a request to improve the system instead.

AliceS1994 · 06/12/2024 20:13

It's a flawed system (understatement), it would have been nice to get better customer service, and it's unfortunate you missed your bus. However, complaining is unlikely to resolve any of this.

TroysMammy · 06/12/2024 20:09

Most of the above posters don't have a clue what the job entails. I'd like to see you giving it a go but no you won't.

Perhaps if you smiled at the Receptionist you would get a smile in return. It's a stressful job dealing with the rude, entitled, demanding and self absorbed of society who feel they are owed something and who always blame others for their shortcomings.

@Frenzi 💐 to you from a fellow Receptionist. If my colleague was to read what you went through I expect she wouldn't complain about being peed on by a child and having to go home and get changed or the shit she had to clean up off the toilet floor. She wasn't smiling either.

Nikitaspearlearring · 06/12/2024 20:05

Being customer facing demands some acting skills, IMO. When a new person appears in front of you, you should be able to put aside everything else, pin a smile on and ask how you can help them.
In your situation I'd probably put some feedback on their website without being specific about which receptionist it was.

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 06/12/2024 20:04

Cableknitdreams · 06/12/2024 19:21

Tbh, if I were in a queue at the GP surgery and needed something important within a set time frame, I would say, "excuse me, I need to get the X am bus to the clinic for my bloods and need the required bags immediately, so please give them to me now."

If there isn't the required response, repeat, louder, as many times as necessary.

Yes, shout at her. That’ll make her smile.

Gettingbysomehow · 06/12/2024 20:03

Marblesbackagain · 06/12/2024 18:55

I don't see anything negative in her actions. She isn't commercial customer service.

Nobody owes people a fake smile and cheery disposition. She did her job.

Your schedule and bus issue isn't in her control. She isn't in control of how many people come for service at the same time.

Why not. I'm in medical and I never greet any patient with a cats bum face. I have no idea what they are going through.

needsomewarmsunshine · 06/12/2024 20:01

Not surprised front facing staff don't smile, they have so many people moaning at them for things they have no control over in their capacity.

GranPepper · 06/12/2024 19:59

Diomi · 06/12/2024 19:47

She has to deal with the crappy system every working day. You would have a sour face if you were her.

Who are you going to report it to? No one is going to care that you think the receptionist is grumpy.

I had a crappy system in a customer facing role (not medical) and still had to treat customers with kindness and concern, identify someone who may be vulnerable and provide appropriate service/care. I never had a sour face on. I mitigated the crappy systems to do the best I could for the customer. Why shouldn't someone do that in a medical role? It's worrying people think it's ok if they are more concerned about their own job issues than helping the people they are paid to help/be concerned for

supersonicginandtonic · 06/12/2024 19:52

You can walk a mile when several anaemic it's not that far. Sounds like you're making a mountain out of a mole hill.

Diomi · 06/12/2024 19:47

She has to deal with the crappy system every working day. You would have a sour face if you were her.

Who are you going to report it to? No one is going to care that you think the receptionist is grumpy.

SunnieShine · 06/12/2024 19:47

PureBoggin · 06/12/2024 18:58

I am always stressed and busy at work but as I work in a customer facing role with vulnerable, anxious and scared people part of my role is putting a smile on my face, being kind and reassuring. It is an essential skill for my job and it should be for medical receptionists. If they can't handle stress whilst also carrying out their basic duties and also providing an appropriate service they should not be working at a doctor's surgery.

Agree

Cableknitdreams · 06/12/2024 19:45

TotallyTwisted · 06/12/2024 19:35

And if I were in front of you in that queue, I'd tell you to wait your turn!

There will always be selfish people who won't let someone who obviously needs something urgently go ahead. It's still worth asking, because, presumably, the receptionists will be able to see that it's more important that OP gets the blood bags in time than that the prescriptions that aren't time-dependent go first. (Obviously, there might be more urgent cases in the queue, in which case it's hard luck for OP, but I'm going on the basis that there weren't, as OP suggests she was able to know that.)

GranPepper · 06/12/2024 19:40

Marblesbackagain · 06/12/2024 18:55

I don't see anything negative in her actions. She isn't commercial customer service.

Nobody owes people a fake smile and cheery disposition. She did her job.

Your schedule and bus issue isn't in her control. She isn't in control of how many people come for service at the same time.

She isn't a commercial customer service role, yes, correct. She is in a more important role actually to do with someone's health. Quite a lot of surgeries have patient forums or similiar. I'd maybe try checking that. I don't think we are helping the health service improve unless patients are encouraged to be honest about their experiences

ChristmasCarnage · 06/12/2024 19:40

Why didn’t you go earlier, or the previous day if you knew there was only one bus an hour? A lack of planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on her part.

my surgery outsources blood tests too, and you have to pick up the paperwork from the practice, so I always make sure I go in advance.

And no, of course you can’t report someone because you didn’t like their face!

SoupDragon · 06/12/2024 19:39

Report her for what exactly??

TinklySnail · 06/12/2024 19:38

If you’re wanting to report someone for a resting bitch face I would say your life is going pretty well.
Let’s be honest, the shit doctor’s receptionists go through on a daily basis would probably warrant a sour face. They do what they are told to do, it’s not personal, it’s just life at the moment.

HeddaGarbled · 06/12/2024 19:37

I wouldn’t bother. We all know they’re staggering on with inadequate funding and staffing levels. Push another one off the end of their tether and that’s another one gone.

Whaleandsnail6 · 06/12/2024 19:36

I dont think its worthy of a complaint.

I dont think you can complain about there being a queue that you didn't allow enough time for

Ok so she could have done better at finding what you needed quicker, but she might be new? everyone has to learn.

TotallyTwisted · 06/12/2024 19:35

Cableknitdreams · 06/12/2024 19:21

Tbh, if I were in a queue at the GP surgery and needed something important within a set time frame, I would say, "excuse me, I need to get the X am bus to the clinic for my bloods and need the required bags immediately, so please give them to me now."

If there isn't the required response, repeat, louder, as many times as necessary.

And if I were in front of you in that queue, I'd tell you to wait your turn!

worriedworker121 · 06/12/2024 19:33

Ggmores · 06/12/2024 19:29

Why didn’t you just tell her to smile? It always goes down with me when random people tell me to cheer up.

😂😂😂😂

Sunshine1500 · 06/12/2024 19:32

No I don’t think you can complain, you could’ve got the bags earlier, they aren’t responsible for your time and the bus timetable.
They were busy they have a system in place, that wasn’t efficient for you but it’s the system that works for them.

AlexaSetATimer · 06/12/2024 19:31

I'd be complaining about the utterly shit "system" they have with not taking bloods but that's not her fault.

I don't think I've ever in my entire life seen a medical receptionist smile. They have one of the worst jobs IMO. Dealing with the public who are unwell, stressed, snappy and blaming them for things way beyond their control.

Ggmores · 06/12/2024 19:29

Why didn’t you just tell her to smile? It always goes down with me when random people tell me to cheer up.

Iwanttoliveonamountain · 06/12/2024 19:27

You knew the bus comes every hour you should’ve got in the queue earlier you’re angry with yourself not the woman or her face

PureBoggin · 06/12/2024 19:26

MajorCarolDanvers · 06/12/2024 19:19

She’s a receptionist in a GP surgery - very busy and under pressure

she’s not working the front customer service desk at the Ritz

so yes go ahead and report her for failure
to wear a pleasant expression 😳

But that's even more reason for her to be warm, empathetic and to be able to handle high pressure situations. Not less. People at the Ritz aren't terrified that they have cancer, or worried their child has meningitis, or their Mum is having a heart attack. Nobody expects a receptionist to be like a circus clown, but they should absolutely be approachable and warm and welcoming. All customer service roles involve being complained at, if you can't do that calmly and humanly then maybe you should get a job somewhere else.

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