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CF Stole my hedge

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12FreeRangeEggs · 06/12/2024 18:09

We live in a naice part of London which thinks it’s the countryside but is actually just a green suburb. To the side and front of my property is our hedge. It’s a mix hedge; Holly, Ivy and other trees. Our Holly has been very good this autumn and we have lots of red berries. I make a door wreath for my front door each Christmas, and I usually forage from my own hedge to make my wreath. So far this year I haven’t gotten around to it but was hoping to make my wreath this weekend.

Well, I returned this afternoon and there was a lady stood on my driveway with a large blue IKEA bag in one hand and a pair of pruners in the other, helping herself to my holly.

I politely challenged her, but she didn’t seem to think that she was doing anything wrong helping herself to my Holly in my hedge. Infact when I protested that I was going to make my own wreath with my own Holly she told me she had a business making Christmas wreaths and usually only made 10 a season despite huge demand because she simply doesn’t have the time but was willing to make a professional wreath for me using my own Holly and charge me £85. I, less politely this time, declined her offer for a professional wreath and asked for my Holly back. She refused and accused me of being bitter and uncharitable.

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Nanny0gg · 07/12/2024 18:33

MaisieMacabe · 07/12/2024 09:49

Dear lord, I thought it was just me. Talk about a crazy over reaction! 😂

So what would you have a problem with being stolen or damaged?

Dad2003 · 07/12/2024 18:24

Cheeky fecker?

YourAzureScroller · 07/12/2024 18:23

Message her on instagram and say thanks for bringing the Holly back 😆

Merrymess · 07/12/2024 18:22

Dad2003 · 07/12/2024 18:20

This may have been asked before, but is CF an acronym for cunt fuck?

No.

Dad2003 · 07/12/2024 18:20

This may have been asked before, but is CF an acronym for cunt fuck?

Merrymess · 07/12/2024 18:19

averylongtimeago · 07/12/2024 18:14

If this doesn't get into classics then there's something wrong!!

If it does get into Classics there's something very wrong.

pictoosh · 07/12/2024 18:19

Sure.

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pictoosh · 07/12/2024 18:16

"You could actually swing this another way - Tell the police you grow it for your own wreath making business and this has meant a loss of trade and profit. She's stolen business material."

I really wouldn't recommend telling the police a pack of lies in order to escalate the drama.
What is wrong with you?

MustWeDoThis · 07/12/2024 18:15

Bernardo1 · 07/12/2024 18:13

You seriously think the police would attend?

Yes. Regardless of what the police personally think (Not that their personal opinion is of concern to OP) - They abide by the law and must do their job.

averylongtimeago · 07/12/2024 18:14

If this doesn't get into classics then there's something wrong!!

MustWeDoThis · 07/12/2024 18:14

12FreeRangeEggs · 06/12/2024 23:22

Errr I’ve just got my Holly back.

Watching Netflix together and DH received a security camera notification. Thinking it could only be a car thief at this time of night he checked the footage and we saw a man in a baseball cap walk on the driveway, empty a bag of Holly onto the driveway then swiftly retreat 😲

The plot bush thickens.

I am intrigued. Bet it was a mortified son. It's still damage and then fly-tipping on your property. You could actually swing this another way - Tell the police you grow it for your own wreath making business and this has meant a loss of trade and profit. She's stolen business material.

Also, can we all have the insta link? Some of us MN's have steam to let off.

Bernardo1 · 07/12/2024 18:13

OldJohn · 06/12/2024 18:17

An imediate 999 call and get the police to deal with the thief.

You seriously think the police would attend?

MustWeDoThis · 07/12/2024 18:08

12FreeRangeEggs · 06/12/2024 18:09

We live in a naice part of London which thinks it’s the countryside but is actually just a green suburb. To the side and front of my property is our hedge. It’s a mix hedge; Holly, Ivy and other trees. Our Holly has been very good this autumn and we have lots of red berries. I make a door wreath for my front door each Christmas, and I usually forage from my own hedge to make my wreath. So far this year I haven’t gotten around to it but was hoping to make my wreath this weekend.

Well, I returned this afternoon and there was a lady stood on my driveway with a large blue IKEA bag in one hand and a pair of pruners in the other, helping herself to my holly.

I politely challenged her, but she didn’t seem to think that she was doing anything wrong helping herself to my Holly in my hedge. Infact when I protested that I was going to make my own wreath with my own Holly she told me she had a business making Christmas wreaths and usually only made 10 a season despite huge demand because she simply doesn’t have the time but was willing to make a professional wreath for me using my own Holly and charge me £85. I, less politely this time, declined her offer for a professional wreath and asked for my Holly back. She refused and accused me of being bitter and uncharitable.

Report her to the police for trespass, damage to property, and theft. It doesn't matter what she took - She could have picked up a penny from your drive. The moral and the law - It's your property, your land, your foliage, your money spent to keep it maintained. Tell the police the damage to your bush will not see it grow back healthy. This is also fraud to steal foliage from someone else's land and then sell it on.

She may as well have gone into Tesco and stole their real, living wreaths and then sold them on for £85. There us no difference.

Jesus! I am seething for you. Cheeky *itch.

Lilywc · 07/12/2024 17:48

I don’t know wha CF means but what a cheeky fecker!!!

VegTrug · 07/12/2024 17:44

@Toastandbutterand Put a big sign in front of your veg patch saying ‘CCTV in operation’ and another one saying ‘Private Property’
Are you able to put a small/low down metal fence around your garden with a gate with a lock on?

VegTrug · 07/12/2024 17:41

@OldJohn999 is for EMERGENCIES ONLY FFS! Life or death situations

Minc · 07/12/2024 17:34

Name and shame — 😳 idve run her over

Merrymess · 07/12/2024 17:27

Peony15 · 07/12/2024 16:50

Usually people like her commit other crimes, this could be tip
the iceberg. It would simply not occur to any law abiding person to go
onto
a private property to take something away , even plants.
Then sell the stolen goods to
others , who have no clue, for cash.
Would you want a wreath on your door made from
stolen plants ?
Doubt tax will be paid on her business.
They will do other things like that in their life , am
now guessing involving similar actions of small scale fraud/benefit fraud etc.
100% would I report this, 101 or speak to PCO because oftem small things like this lead to
the discovery of more.
This could well be the tip of an iceberg.
Only worry for OP is revenge e.g the dropped holly on drive/knowing where OP lives
in a don't mess with us manner.

That's quite the leap.

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Oh i don't know, if I lived there I definitely persuade myself i lived in the countryside! 😉

Peony15 · 07/12/2024 16:50

Usually people like her commit other crimes, this could be tip
the iceberg. It would simply not occur to any law abiding person to go
onto
a private property to take something away , even plants.
Then sell the stolen goods to
others , who have no clue, for cash.
Would you want a wreath on your door made from
stolen plants ?
Doubt tax will be paid on her business.
They will do other things like that in their life , am
now guessing involving similar actions of small scale fraud/benefit fraud etc.
100% would I report this, 101 or speak to PCO because oftem small things like this lead to
the discovery of more.
This could well be the tip of an iceberg.
Only worry for OP is revenge e.g the dropped holly on drive/knowing where OP lives
in a don't mess with us manner.

HazelTiger · 07/12/2024 16:30

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TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 07/12/2024 16:28

I’m staggered at the people who would be fine with this. Yes if it was one or two bits accessible from the pavement but not with her actually on the drive.

miliop · 07/12/2024 16:23

Not quite the point but saw someone asking on FB earlier where they could go on a walk and cut some holly. Maybe just go to any florist? Instead of going off to ransack nature and take the berries from the birds.

If everyone just went out to grab what they wanted from paths and hedgerows, there'd be little left.