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DH weed habit

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Anxiiousaf · 06/12/2024 17:27

DH smokes weed daily. It has went from the odd one with his friends to all day long in the last 10 years. He will drive and work after smoking then complains about not getting promoted. Complains he has no money for things but spends 100s a month on this I'm sure . I've been reading old posts and naively didn't realise how big an issue it is. I am sick of thinking I smell of weed or worrying my clothes do, I have to wash my hair at the work showers every morning so I can go in feeling clean. Asked him to cut down, not to do it in the house etc but it doesn't change. I think he has mood swings due to this habit/addiction whatever you want to call it. WWYD.

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TomatoSandwiches · 06/12/2024 17:30

Just leave him, he won't change, his whole world is about his habit, he doesn't care about anything or anyone else.

MiraculousLadybug · 06/12/2024 17:29

That's a one way ticket to dumpsville. Sorry OP. 💐

Starlight7080 · 06/12/2024 17:29

Do you have kids ? I would ask him to seriously quit. Cutting down won't work .
It sounds like you have put up with it long enough

MJMJMJMJ · 06/12/2024 17:28

He’s a drug addict. What do you expect from this thread? Most people would not stay with a drug addict. I hope you don’t have kids. Drug driving is despicable. You are condoning it too.

LividBauble · 06/12/2024 17:28

YABU for still being with him. He’s a drug driver.