We have my aunt staying over with us at the moment. She is 60 and part retired.
It's tough enough having her live here but she also keeps texting me when I am out. Other family members too, but mostly me.
For example, yesterday I was out in the afternoon and she sent me three messages of which were just things she saw out and about and which could definitely have waited until she got home. I get she may feel a bit lonely but I am also not responsible for her as harsh as that sounds. It is massively winding me up and just wondered how to deal with it.
Normally I sometimes ignore the message or wait a while and just heart it but she still isn't getting the hint and a normal conversation wouldn't go down well.