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Feeling stupid for not wanting to be pushed out my home by bullying neighbours and missed out on a new build house

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waad · 06/12/2024 01:41

My neighbours have endlessly harassed me since I moved her nearly 3 years ago

We are the top flat with them below us. They cannot stand the kids noise like walking between rooms and singing and playing. They complain if I hoover, if I close a door etc. they've been labled extremely sensitive tenants

To teach me a lesson they've stolen from me, harassed me, threatened to beat me up and broken my property. I've never retailed just reported them to the police. I've made maybe 10 police call outs and it stopped them for maybe a month.

My children are mixed and as soon as they seen the kids dad that's when it started getting so much worse

They've now gotten a new build because they've endlessly complained to get a move. I was offered a potential move last year but they said don't get pushed out your house so I decided to try and stay and put up with it. My oldest daughter is autistic and wouldn't cope moving school etc and I couldn't be guaranteed to be at the same school. But I feel I've been pig headed and missed out on a new build.

How can such horrible people get a new build

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waad · 06/12/2024 02:04

@FetchezLaVache housing officers suggested to not be pushed out of my house

Yeah much more suitable and it's not too far from the kids school. It's a whole house rather than a 4 in the block in a much safer area.

I can only think they got the new build from endlessly complaining whereas I'd not do that.

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FetchezLaVache · 06/12/2024 02:00

Don't understand.

You were offered a move but "they" said you should stay put, so now your neighbours have been offered a new build and you regret not accepting your offer?

Who are "they" whose advice to stay you took?

What kind of property were you offered? Would it have been more suitable to your needs than your current accommodation?

waad · 06/12/2024 01:42

Never retaliated*

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