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fireworksinthesky3 · 06/12/2024 00:57

Hey

name changed but longtime poster

really hoping this post resonates with someone and I can get some advice or help 🤞

bit of an embarrassing problem but I smell really badly and don’t know what to do. I’ve tried everything I can possibly think of to fix it and it’s not helped. I’ve heard of things like fish odour syndrome but I don’t think it’s that because I don’t smell of fish- I just smell really musty/BO. It’s genuinely making me so depressed- I’m only 26 and I’m so embarrassed and miserable about it. I’ll post below everything I’ve tried

  • I shower every single day without fail, I tried showering twice a day but it made no difference whatsoever. At first I smell fine, then after a few hours I smell musty/BO/as if I haven’t even showered in days
  • I’ve tried every single combination of deoderant/antipersperant I could access. Mitchum was highly recommended but wasn’t any help disappointingly, in fact I think I smelled worse with it. Right now I’m using dove stick which is bearable but not great either. As I said above- fine at first, then after a few hours I smell again , badly enough to be noticeable by other people
  • I’ve tried every shower gel, scrub, body wash, lotion, soap (bar and liquid), even tried using dettol soap- no difference. I shave every 2nd day.
  • i wash my hair every 2-3 days, I change my bedding every week without fail
  • i wondered if it was possibly my clothes which smelled rather than me so I got rid of EVERYTHING, and started all over again (new underwear, new pjs, completely new clothes etc) but same problem literally no difference

the only thing I can think of that I haven’t tried is the Driclor range which I’m going to try and I’m praying it works. I’ve always had this problem- I remember being so embarrassed about it as a teenager. It’s definitely not something I’m just paranoid about either- I’ve asked my friends / family to be completely honest with me and they’ve agreed with me. I don’t have any hormonal problems and sweat like a normal person as far as I’m aware but for some reason I just smell so much quicker than the average person

does anyone have any tips or product recommendations I could try (in case driclor doesn’t work)?

sorry for the long post, I’m just so down about it x

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Ruby0707 · 06/12/2024 11:14

Vanillabourbon · 06/12/2024 05:22

Try Fussy deodorant. It's a natural deodorant with prebiotics. It doesn't stop you sweating but it does stop any smell. I stress sweat and it's the only thing that has ever worked for me. I've used it for over a year now and never had an issue since.

Came here just to say this. I've always been a bit of a 'smeller' under the arms as Fussy has changed my life.

Really rate and recommend it. I just don't have to worry about the smell anymore.

TreadSoftlyOnMyDreams · 06/12/2024 11:03

Fabrics make a huge difference. Any sort of poly fabric and I reek within a couple of hours. I put garments that are not a) washable and b) mostly natural fibres straight back on the rack these days.

Lots of good advice about washing and drying and I think working through them in a process of elimination might be useful. You can buy 100% cotton t-shirt from Amazon for very little cash. Wear it for a day and see if any difference.

Natural fabrics, cotton linen etc are more expensive but often stand up to hot laundering better in the case of cotton so you save more cash long term though your style might change a bit.

Runnersparadise · 06/12/2024 11:00

Drink two litres of water a day or more - the body’s natural purifier.

Avoid eating pungent foods like cheese and tuna.

Drink good quality green tea, it’s a natural deodoriser.

Scrub with soap all over 4 times, paying particularly close attention to behind the ears, underarms, privates front and back, and feet in between the toes and underside, too. Finish off with a wet wipe soaked in surgical spirit and wipe your underarms with that. Wash hair daily, at least 3 rinses.

Once you’re back to a neutral odour, y and you’ve reset your body, it may be possible to lightly ease off on some of those things.

Good luck, it’s going to be okay, you will find a solution for this, leave no stone unturned.

Most importantly, ask for a referral to a specialist. Also look into alternative remedies - colloidal silver water for example.

Offcom · 06/12/2024 10:59

I was trying to find zinc oxide-based deodorants after reading a rave review and came across sprays which are marketed as being useful for dealing with incontinence smells but would work to suppress any kind of bacterial odour.

remaininghopeful23 · 06/12/2024 10:51

How upsetting for you OP. That's really tough. I'm not sure if it's been mentioned or explored already, but could it be some sort of bacteria overgrowth on your skin? I wonder would a regime of washing in Chlorhexidine help? It's a medical grade antibacterial soap.
Could your GP take some skin microbiology swabs from the areas that smell the worst? See are you colonised with a stubborn bacteria that might need treatment? Other than all the good suggestions in this thread that's all I can think of. Would suggest a dedicated GP visit to address. Hope you get a solution ASAP!

Plastictrees · 06/12/2024 10:51

I agree with a previous posters point, has anyone else said they have noticed the smell OP? Close family members/friends/partner?

It does sound like it is something you are very focused on and an outside perspective could be helpful.

buybuysellsell · 06/12/2024 10:50

I definitely agree that synthetic fibres can cause this. Try wearing cotton - 100% cotton pants, bras and t shirts, no polyester.

Are you washing your clothes after every single wear?

Sleepysleepycoffeecoffee · 06/12/2024 10:45

WaneyEdge · 06/12/2024 01:03

Could it be how you wash/dry your clothes? I’ve worked with a few people in the past who either haven’t washed on a high enough temperature and/or left clothes to dry naturally which has made them smell of damp, especially at this time of year. I tumble dry pretty much everything as it just takes too long and gets a horrible damp smell with UK weather!

This was my first thought too. If it’s a musty smell then it’s probably clothes not being washed or dried and aired properly

k1233 · 06/12/2024 10:42

If you think it might be your clothes, I wash all of my washing with a good dollop of disinfectant (plus normal washing powder etc). Stops towels smelling musty, so might help your clothes too.

HootyMcBooby · 06/12/2024 10:42

I've not seen if OP has confirmed that OTHER people can also detect the odour?
OP I really think you need an outside source that you trust, if you can, to agree with you that there is actually a problem and it's not something that you are just hyper focused on for whatever reason.

If there IS a problem, I second what everyone has said about drying/washing your clothes.

Can you pinpoint the source? Is it worse around your armpits? Could it be a genital issue like bacterial vaginosis?

Could it be a fungal scalp/foot infection?

Could it be a dental issue?

This is a weird one but you don't happen to have a nose piercing by any chance do you? It may be that the smell is actually coming from inside your own nose from a funky piercing.

Could there be a problem with your water supply? Is the smell the same when you shower at someone else's house and wash your clothes in a different washing machine?

Hope you find the culprit OP.

HPandthelastwish · 06/12/2024 10:34

Random one...is your belly button closed? Sometimes it doesn't seal shut properly and funky body smells can escape from it, if you have a particularly deep belly button it's worth getting a doctor to look at it.

In fact I'd get the doctor involved anyway if you've ruled out all obvious solutions.

kaela100 · 06/12/2024 10:33

Check if there's mould in your washing machine as that can often cause a smell. You tend to develop mould when you don't wash at high temps - so it might be worthwhile to do that every so often

New2024newname · 06/12/2024 10:29

Solidarity OP! Definitely try Driclor, I had terrible BO as a teenager and finally did driclor and it sorted it out. It was such a weight lifted. I remember it being quite harsh on the skin so you might have to persist through unpleasantly sensitive/sore skin. It was 15 years ago so I can’t recall how long I used the driclor for before switching back to normal deodorant (maybe a few weeks or months?) but after that I just had to be careful about regular showering and non synthetic clothes, and I am just a slightly sweatier than normal person. Good luck!

BobbyBiscuits · 06/12/2024 10:27

Hand sanitiser in the pits! PP mentioned that. That's my trick. But I got that from being on an ortho ward with a broken shoulder and hip for 5 weeks. Could only shower on week 2. It was getting pretty scary, lol.

Magnesium I think is good. Loads of magnesium salts in bath and a magnesium shower gel. Use those gloves you get that are kind of rough, like loofah. And scrub pits like mad. I have to wash mine like three times in the shower!

I think I've very bad BO sometimes but my family claim I don't. So a lot of it is probably not as bad as you think. I eat a lot of onions and drink alcohol which apparently makes your sweat pongier! 😐

Dollybantree · 06/12/2024 10:27

Look at your diet. I find I always smell of BH when I've had spicy, strong tasting food.

When I was younger I had excessive sweating and used Driclor which cured it, but you say your problem is just the smell?

TowerBallroom · 06/12/2024 10:26

fireworksinthesky3 · 06/12/2024 01:11

Yeah good shout it possibly could be that! I usually dry outside or the tumble drier but have been guilty of drying inside on a heated drying rack especially this time of year, wondering if that’s possibly been contributing to it! x

Could your clothes have cooking smells?
DH loves doing 1970s style bean casseroles
They make my whole house stink

fgsistwbotp · 06/12/2024 10:19
  1. I think you need to go back to the GP about this specifically (ie. not as an add-on to discussion about another issue)
  2. Make sure you wash your clothes on 40 degrees. These eco washes and 30 degree washes don't get clothes clean enough and I find if I've washed something on 30 I start to smell not long after putting the supposedly clean clothes on.
  3. Put the washer on at 90 degrees with vinegar in it at least once or twice a fortnight because they can get musty and stinky and pass the smell on to clothes.

If it's not a medical condition it's most likely to be the clothes because your hygiene routines sound fine.

AegonT · 06/12/2024 10:18

I sometimes sweat alot from my armpits and it smells quickly, can be an hour after a shower if I get hot or stressed. I can sweat through Mitchum easily. Driclor, Sweat Block wipes and similar products work for me; I don't sweat for days after an application. The downside is it they sting to put on (some more than others, sometimes I can tolerate it). You can't have shaved in the 1-2 days before application and it needs to put on freshly washed, thoroughly dried armpits at bedtime.

Other things that make me smell sometime is when we don't take clothes out the washing machine quick enough after a wash and putting clothes away slightly damp. Fleeces are the worst for this!

ItGhoul · 06/12/2024 10:09

If you have a medical condition that causes this, all the washing and deodorant in the world isn't going to make a difference. You need to go back to the doctor. And you need to see the doctor while you actually smell, too. Not when you've just washed.

OssieShowman · 06/12/2024 10:06

Another thought, a medical grade anti bacterial body wash.
From pharmacy

KimberleyClark · 06/12/2024 10:05

bowlingalleyblues · 06/12/2024 10:03

There’s quite a few medical conditions that can cause musty smell, have they been ruled out: www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/what-does-disease-smell-like

Also, the smell from fish odour syndrome is not always fishy, it varies from individual to individual.

bowlingalleyblues · 06/12/2024 10:03

There’s quite a few medical conditions that can cause musty smell, have they been ruled out: www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/what-does-disease-smell-like

Marmite27 · 06/12/2024 09:56

Our washing machine was leaving everything smelling mildly musty at one point, but then my husband got caught in the rain and his clothes smelled terrible when wet. All were dried outside or tumbled so not put away damp or left wet for any length of time.

Our current washer is the culprit. It needs cleaning once a fortnight on a 90 degree wash with white vinegar and bicarb. We can’t use cheap laundry stuff, it has to be fairy and comfort (lenor is ok, but someone is sensitive to it).

Definitely give your washer a clean, it’s worth a shot and won’t cost as much as another new wardrobe.

Good luck OP.

MyStylish40s · 06/12/2024 09:55

saltinesandcoffeecups · 06/12/2024 01:32

There’s no delicate way to ask this (and I don’t expect a public answer!)

Are you really washing all of your nooks and cranny’s? I mean, not just a swipe with a loofah but really getting into the places where things may get a little funky…

In the spirit of of solidarity I once started to notice a musty odor.. did the normal things… laundry, real soap, extra scrubbing, etc. one day I noticed it as I was drying off from the shower. Turns out after a little investigation my belly button was grungy. 🤢. Not sure what caused it but I thoroughly cleaned it out. Smell gone and hasn’t happened again. But yeah it taught me a lesson that all the bits need soap, water, and scrubbing.

I was going to say this too. It might be your belly button. It also happened to me once Blush it might be that you haven’t been drying properly.
Sudocream sorted it out in a few days

Elizo · 06/12/2024 09:49

There isn't an issue where you live is there? Damp or other smell? This happened with a relative - the house was damp and all the clothes smelt musty