Very long story short , he keeps giving and withholding affection. This time last year he was all over me for 3 months. Like literally was making love to me twice a day. Fast forward a year, the last time we had sex was about two months ago, it was rubbish, and nothing since. have started to sleep in the spare room. Tonight is a bit different because we have a new bed, so on the one hand, I’m eager to try it out, for sleeping only obviously, but another part of me just wants to go into the spare room again. What would you do?