Page 24 | Need a hand hold part 4

Imbluedalale · 2024-12-05T17:02:12+00:00

Hi spoonies . Welcome to season 4 xxx

BeNavyCrab · 08/12/2024 14:02

nornironlady · 08/12/2024 07:02

Good morning Spoonies. I can still hear wind this morning but not wheelie bins blowing everywhere!
The use of the toilet is my number one reason for never owning an all in one of any type. I'm not keen on looking like an adult baby 😂
A good friend got me a hot pink one with Betty Boop who I liked in my teens but I was in my 20's by then. If you knew me this would be the last thing you would think I would wear so not sure what she was thinking.

@Imbluedalale I'm a little worried for your son. That the people he lives with are abusers and need a victim. Now you are no longer there they are turning to him.
@BeNavyCrab can probably put this in much better wording with regards to the behaviour at play. She writes so beautifully. So descriptive and even if I didn't understand half the boat terms, I still love reading about it! The crafting descriptions are amazing. It makes me want my own huge craft box full of amazing pens. I am particular about a good biro for my diary keeping.
I agree with not allowing the grandma near your home. She was complicit in your abuse. No question.
Again I wake up another morning in total awe at the wonderful, inspiring human being you are.
I think I can hear a cock crowing......I know someone used to have one not too far away but I'm sure he's been going a good 5 minutes here 😂 lucky I'm awake!
Here's to another lazy day at home with the heating on.

@nornironlady It's lovely of you to give me such a nice comment and I'm glad you enjoyed the crafting information. I'm never sure if people are interested or not. I'm with you about being particular about pens. Especially with something precious that you want to be able to keep forever, like your diary, you want it to look good. My husband was a bit mystified why I would like different pens. Then when I explained that some ink bleeds through the page, or smudges, makes blobs, leaves train lines where the rollerball goes or looks scratchy, he sort of understood. Those are the major considerations of defects before you get to line weight, consistency of line or the colour of the ink. So yes, I like different pens too. 😜

I've been gifted a box of acrylic paint pens by a friend and I haven't been brave enough to use them until now. I have problems with shaking arms and/or lack of sensation in them at times, which can make it challenging. I'm not one of those people who can pick up a drawing implement and create something amazing. So I rely on stamping, due cutting or stencils to get the shapes I want and then use colouring products.

Just be warned that once you start down the crafting rabbit hole, there's no turning back. For me not only do I get the enjoyment of making something. I like the ability to make something with a person in mind and feel more connected to them. Not being able to get out much or visit can make you feel a bit lonely and isolated, so in a way it combat it.

@Apolloneuro By living in Cornwall I'm automatically supposed to disagree with you about the order of cream and jam on scones but we are friends and that trumps all other gastronomic considerations! 😜 In my book, as long as there's plenty of cream and jam, there's no issues in how you have your scones and I'd happily help you to consume them.

spoonfulofmustard · 08/12/2024 09:42

Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:20

Hi @spoonfulofmustard , how are you?
I hope everything is ok and you get the work stuff sorted out. Sending you a big hug.
How was your afternoon with your friend?
The wind is still howling here I’ve just checked and it says it’s going to stop around tomorrow lunchtime. They are still building on the street and all the barrier things have blown all into the road.
I heard Liverpool Christmas market had to close for the day . That’s a shame 😂
I hope your all wrapped up warm at home , I’ve just put my heating on for a few hours as can’t get warm tonight xx

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it was lovely thank you, presents and mulled wine, what more do you need! counteracted by a trip to the dentist this morning for a hygeniest appointment 😁. when the rain finally stops here i need to go and rescue some of my plants that have fallen over.. hope everyone has more exciting plans then me for today! x

nornironlady · 08/12/2024 07:30

@Apolloneuro I know the order of scone toppings can be quite controversial!
I got up and put heat on at 6.30 and the cat came up to bed for about 20mins. He can't wait to get out. I've got my tea and the tree lights on watching Rueben Owen. Anyone watch Our Yorkshire Farm? I just love Amanda, Clive and the brood. Proper feel good watching. It never gets old!

Apolloneuro · 08/12/2024 07:20

nornironlady · 08/12/2024 07:05

@Apolloneuro the scones did look lovely. I bought a bag of homemade ones in Spar and they are actually very good.
Did yours taste as good as did you have anything on them? It's butter then jam for me in that order!

Morning lovelies.

Hope everyone had a lovely sleep. I’m awake and dying for a cuppa but everyone (including the cat as a person here 😂) is still asleep.

@nornironlady as I live in Devon, the only way is cream, then jam, so your way of butter and then jam is correct (although butter, not clotted cream 🤷🏻‍♀️)

nornironlady · 08/12/2024 07:05

@Apolloneuro the scones did look lovely. I bought a bag of homemade ones in Spar and they are actually very good.
Did yours taste as good as did you have anything on them? It's butter then jam for me in that order!

nornironlady · 08/12/2024 07:02

Good morning Spoonies. I can still hear wind this morning but not wheelie bins blowing everywhere!
The use of the toilet is my number one reason for never owning an all in one of any type. I'm not keen on looking like an adult baby 😂
A good friend got me a hot pink one with Betty Boop who I liked in my teens but I was in my 20's by then. If you knew me this would be the last thing you would think I would wear so not sure what she was thinking.

@Imbluedalale I'm a little worried for your son. That the people he lives with are abusers and need a victim. Now you are no longer there they are turning to him.
@BeNavyCrab can probably put this in much better wording with regards to the behaviour at play. She writes so beautifully. So descriptive and even if I didn't understand half the boat terms, I still love reading about it! The crafting descriptions are amazing. It makes me want my own huge craft box full of amazing pens. I am particular about a good biro for my diary keeping.
I agree with not allowing the grandma near your home. She was complicit in your abuse. No question.
Again I wake up another morning in total awe at the wonderful, inspiring human being you are.
I think I can hear a cock crowing......I know someone used to have one not too far away but I'm sure he's been going a good 5 minutes here 😂 lucky I'm awake!
Here's to another lazy day at home with the heating on.

BeNavyCrab · 07/12/2024 23:49

Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:02

🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹Thank you so much @BeNavyCrab . What you wrote there is absolutely lovely.
I actually don’t mind the memories or flashbacks because they do help me in a way. Not only do they remind me of how evil ex is but also they reassure me that my version of the event was the truth and I wasn’t going crazy nor was I making things up or as ex put it ‘making a silly story up in my messed up head’ . I didn’t realise that me double checking everything now is an impact from that. Whenever I go outside to the bins and come back in and lock the door I always have to check 2/3 times that I’ve locked it even though I know I have and last night for example I had to get up around 2am to make sure I’d turned the bath tap off. I’m always questioning myself .
Ex used to always say I’m a ‘wrong un’ and the most hurtful one that ‘I’m a bad egg’. He also said after around a year of being together that my dad pulled him aside when we got together and said ‘be very careful of her she’s not right in the head’ and for 15 years I believed that my dad had said that because I had no reason to think that he’d lie to me about something like that. But my dad never said it, when we had a heart to heart that first time we met to talk my dad promised me he never said it or that he would even think it.
I really hope that one day I’ll be able to look in a mirror and like what I see but I think I’m a long way off that . My mum keeps telling me I need a bathroom mirror but I like not having one in there that way I can brush my teeth or wash my hands/face and not have to worry about catching a glimpse of myself. When your told your ugly inside and out on a daily basis you do start to believe it .
One positive thing I have noticed is I’m a lot more positive and calmer. Before I was constantly on edge and jittery but now I feel so much calmer and when bad things happen like what ex is doing I do have a good cry but then I try and dust myself down and work through it xx

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I can understand why you don't want a mirror. When I first became disabled and for a number of years after, I didn't want to talk about or think about my past or the sailing that was a massive part of my life. It was just too painful, so for my own sanity I shut it all down. Whatever you need to do to get through it, do that and don't feel bad or let others judge you for it. It's totally up to you if and when you want to tackle being able to look in the mirror. My gut says that you eventually will and it probably won't feel that hard, once you truly believe that you aren't all the things everyone has told you that you were.

I know that it's hurting you to get short one word texts from your youngest. Don't forget that he might be being observed or monitored and not free to text what he wants to. Trust in his love for you and try not to react badly. Being the positive loving voice in his life and being there for him is so important. Remember he's a victim of control too and will be under pressure to conform.

Eek the sharp knife in the sink. I'm a bit paranoid about them after my husband forgot about it once and my daughter was washing up and unaware that there was something underneath the plates. Luckily she always wears gloves like you get in a chemist lab because of her sensory sensitivities. They have a small amount of cut resistance and our knives are very rarely that sharp, so it wasn't too bad. We have a designated place to put them so we know they need a wash but my husband still forgets sometimes. The "Mum guilt" of it possibly happening again makes me always check out what's in the sink first now.

@Apolloneuro Your baking looks brilliant. I bet it was rather tasty too. My husband made some flapjacks this afternoon and I loved the smell of it cooking. You could smell the sweet treacle and butter, the best Christmasy smell ever. I'm glad you are feeling better bladder wise and keeping my fingers crossed for your appointment on the 17th.

@AdmittowearingCrocs and @Zippedydodah
Love all the inside stories, my kids love wearing because they keep out the draughts but they are awkward in the loo. My daughter feels the cold and she will double wear or even triple wear furry things like onesies or those hoody/blankets. She will grab mine to go over the top of it all and resembles a massive teddy with a bright red face. 😂

@Munchyseeds2 I really like Outlander too, the series is just as good as the books are. It's lovely to be able to spend time together with family. It's the thing I am most excited about this Christmas.

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 22:20

Apolloneuro · 07/12/2024 22:04

I think my wee is behaving itself, that’s for asking @Munchyseeds2 Have a check in with specialist nurse on 17th.

Glad your wee is being good @Apolloneuro . Hope all goes well at your appointment on 17th xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 22:20

Apolloneuro · 07/12/2024 22:02

If you weren’t 300 miles from me @Imbluedalale I’d bring a scone over to share with a cuppa.

Haven’t had a scone yet, but had a piece of coffee and walnut cake. It was nice.

I haven’t forgotten about doing a spoonie zoom. Perhaps before Christmas?

Awww that’s lovely @Apolloneuro , I’ll just imagine how nice they taste instead.
You’ve got more willpower than me I would have had both 😂
A spoonie zoom sounds wonderful, I can’t wait .
My mum is going to kill me! Last week when she came she told me off about putting this knife in the sink. Basically my dad whenever he buys knives he always sharpens them on a machine at the butchers so this one had been freshly sharpened. Anyway I put in sink last week and my mum started flapping saying it’s super sharp and to never put it in the sink . She said to wipe it and put it away straight away. Did I listen?noooooo
Now I’ve just nearly sliced my thumb off 😭😭just trying to stem the bleeding fgs 😱xx

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Apolloneuro · 07/12/2024 22:04

I think my wee is behaving itself, that’s for asking @Munchyseeds2 Have a check in with specialist nurse on 17th.

Apolloneuro · 07/12/2024 22:02

If you weren’t 300 miles from me @Imbluedalale I’d bring a scone over to share with a cuppa.

Haven’t had a scone yet, but had a piece of coffee and walnut cake. It was nice.

I haven’t forgotten about doing a spoonie zoom. Perhaps before Christmas?

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:36

AdmittowearingCrocs · 07/12/2024 21:21

Hi Laura and all the Spoonies, what a windy day, my wheelie bins have all blown over. Probably not quite as bad as some others though.
I have one of those really fluffy onesies, looks like a rabbit with long ears on the hood. It’s so warm, combined with a hot flush, I end up feeling like I am going to pass out. Needless to say I don’t wear it anymore 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry to hear you are feeling lonely tonight Laura, it can be tough being alone at times. I know you really want to see your son but your ex’s mum was also very abusive to you, and the only reason she is saying she will bring him round is to be nosy about your new home so she can report back to ex, not because she wants to be kind to you. A kind person doesn’t bang saucepans in the ear of someone being treated for cancer when they are trying to rest. Please keep her away and not let her through your door. Hopefully your son will soon be able to get to see you. Enjoy your hot bath 💐💐

Hi @AdmittowearingCrocs , how are you today?
I hope you’re all warm and cosy at home.
I can’t believe how windy it is and how noisy the wind is . My nephew is in the Royal Navy and they had an event today which they had to cancel and there’s been terrible flooding at York Christmas market. I saw a video of a waterfall actually flowing the opposite way due to the wind!
I do feel lonely but I’ll be ok at least I’m lonely in my house and not in a hotel room. I’m very lucky compared to others.
I know that’s exactly why Ex’s mum wants to bring my youngest , she still wants to be in control. I don’t want her in my home and I don’t want her dictating to me when I can see my son or for how long. and I don’t want to be alone with her incase she makes up more lies. One time she came into mine whilst ex was at work and she was shouting at me and got right in my face whilst I was sat down . Ex pulled up into the yard and she started crying and clutching her face saying I’d hit her. An hour later she came back in asking me if I was putting the kettle on!xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:23

Zippedydodah · 07/12/2024 20:07

@Imbluedalale you really are an inspiration, honestly 🤗
I’ve been quietly following you and you have made so much progress it’s amazing!
Re the onesies do any f you remember wearing a body suit thingy with poppers at the crotch? I thought one was was brilliant idea until it came to going to the loo….. I undid the poppers, the front and back pinged up under my top and there was absolutely no way I could manoeuvre the ruddy thing back down without completely undressing.
By the time I emerged from the toilet I was red, sweating and very flustered and 30 minutes later I wanted to go again.
Needless to say I never wore one again.
It’s blowing a hoolie here again, I thought that the storm had passed 🙄
I hope you’re all warm and safe x

Hi @Zippedydodah , thank you so much for following my threads . That’s so nice.
I love your name by the way.
Thank you for your lovely words they really truly mean a lot.
Omg I remember the bodysuits with poppers! They was a right pain to fasten back up 😂
I hope your having a nice cosy evening @Zippedydodah xx

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AdmittowearingCrocs · 07/12/2024 21:21

Hi Laura and all the Spoonies, what a windy day, my wheelie bins have all blown over. Probably not quite as bad as some others though.
I have one of those really fluffy onesies, looks like a rabbit with long ears on the hood. It’s so warm, combined with a hot flush, I end up feeling like I am going to pass out. Needless to say I don’t wear it anymore 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry to hear you are feeling lonely tonight Laura, it can be tough being alone at times. I know you really want to see your son but your ex’s mum was also very abusive to you, and the only reason she is saying she will bring him round is to be nosy about your new home so she can report back to ex, not because she wants to be kind to you. A kind person doesn’t bang saucepans in the ear of someone being treated for cancer when they are trying to rest. Please keep her away and not let her through your door. Hopefully your son will soon be able to get to see you. Enjoy your hot bath 💐💐

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:20

spoonfulofmustard · 07/12/2024 19:05

hi spoonies, sorry ive been absent a few days, some work stuff going on. just on the way home from some drinks with a friend, hope everyone is keeping nice and cosy from the winds, its all calmed downed in london know (not that we had it as bad as anywhere else) xx

Hi @spoonfulofmustard , how are you?
I hope everything is ok and you get the work stuff sorted out. Sending you a big hug.
How was your afternoon with your friend?
The wind is still howling here I’ve just checked and it says it’s going to stop around tomorrow lunchtime. They are still building on the street and all the barrier things have blown all into the road.
I heard Liverpool Christmas market had to close for the day . That’s a shame 😂
I hope your all wrapped up warm at home , I’ve just put my heating on for a few hours as can’t get warm tonight xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:11

Munchyseeds2 · 07/12/2024 18:59

@BeNavyCrab another beautiful card! , hopefully the wind had died down a little for you

@Apolloneuro a day of baking, nothing better.

How are you feeling?

We have had a lovely day and have been out for lunch with my whole family ( apart from my son and one nephew). It was great to see each other, my brother and family came up from the SW yesterday....I. ad he wasn't driving today
Just watched the latest episode of Outlander with a glass of wine so I'm a happy bunny.
Tomorrow butter chicken is on the menu and we need to get a Xmas tree

@Imbluedalale you made me laugh with the onesie....a few years ago I was looking for an outfit for a night out, ordered a jumpsuit from M & S, it looked fab and I really liked it, then I realised that the only way I could get it down was with DHs help... I mean?? How could I ever go for a pee?? 😂
I sent it back
Hope you are ok lovely xxx

Hi @Munchyseeds2 , I’m so pleased to hear you’ve had a lovely day . It does sound perfect.
Where did you go for lunch and what did you have?
Im looking forward to you making butter chicken what are you having with it?
Are you getting a real tree or a fake one?
What is this 101 questions 🤣
Whenever I see anyone wearing a jumpsuit or playsuit from now on all I’m going to think is ‘good luck when you need a pee’😂xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:07

Apolloneuro · 07/12/2024 18:23

Lovely posts from everyone 🥰

This has been my creative pleasure today. I think the scones are going to crumble. Think mixture was a bit dry maybe.

Hi @Apolloneuro , wow 😮 they look absolutely delicious. Is that coffee and walnut cake? have you tried them yet? Those scones look lovely too I crave a scone now 😂xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:05

BeNavyCrab · 07/12/2024 15:47

We are in beautiful Cornwall. One of the previous storms blew my parents fence down too. Hopefully when it's calmed down, you will be able to get it back into place. At least you will have all the bits of it, as it's in one piece. My husband had a bit of fun with my parents one as it was more like an IKEA jigsaw with half the bits missing. He works with wood so he was able to find some leftover wood to fix it for them and now you wouldn't know.

Here's today's card for everyone to enjoy. I used the plastic packaging a die set came in as an extra layer on the card front. It's thicker than normal acetate, so it wouldn't bend nicely, so I attached it with a card strip on the top. I stenciled with a white acrylic paint pen and coloured from the opposite side. The black card has gold gel pen with the same stencils to fill the background in. I also found u could use the round dotting end of the acrylic paint pens to ink up the sentiment before stamping. My inspiration was stained glass windows. I love the way light seems to glow through them and gives you all those rich colours. Forgive me for still being in my nighty, it's one of those days where you feel like hibernating. 🤣

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Oh what a beautiful card . You’re so talented @BeNavyCrab . The colours on it are just beautiful. Whoever gets that card given to them is very lucky indeed xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 21:02

BeNavyCrab · 07/12/2024 15:27

@Imbluedalale Raspberry is absolutely spot on. It's your mind decompressing and trying to process. That's why it's so damaging and evil to make someone not be able to trust their experience of the world. You never know which way is up and that trickles through into every aspect of life. Even stupid things like, "Did I put the milk back in the fridge" etc, you can't trust anything you think is true, actually happened. The more unsure of yourself, the more you rely on others to tell you what is what. That gave them the ability to force you into being locked in to their reality and making you unable to believe yourself.

It's all ok to not be there yet. Be kind and patient with yourself. They spent years taking you apart.
You've learnt the first lesson is to not accept whatever shit anyone wants to serve you. You've learnt that reaching out to wholesome supportive people can help you to regain your equilibrium. You know that you aren't "less" because you have a mental health condition and you aren't crazy.

Now you are at the start of recovery. The more you are free of the poison, you will see that you are not what they said you are, you never were! You're going to see that you are making sensible decisions, overcome challenges, learning to like yourself again and that will slowly sink in. Soon you'll realise that you have confidence and be immensely proud of yourself. At the moment your feeling it from the people who are supporting you, like your MH team and your Spoonies. Imagine how it's going to feel to carry that feeling inside your heart and head and feel it's true. You're not going to wonder why people are saying they see all these lovely qualities in you because you are going to KNOW that they are just describing what you are. It's going to take time and confronting difficult memories. You might "relapse" or have days where you want to hide under a rock and never come out. One day it will be normal to think of yourself as the strong, clever, emotionally intelligent, compassionate and fierce warrior you are.

Until then we are here for you to remind you of the truth, to help you cope with the shenanigans and emotional manipulation from your ex etc. Remember that we are helping but it's You who is managing and doing it. That doesn't happen by magic, it happens because of you and your strength. Even when you don't feel it or quite believe it, it's still there!!

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🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹Thank you so much @BeNavyCrab . What you wrote there is absolutely lovely.
I actually don’t mind the memories or flashbacks because they do help me in a way. Not only do they remind me of how evil ex is but also they reassure me that my version of the event was the truth and I wasn’t going crazy nor was I making things up or as ex put it ‘making a silly story up in my messed up head’ . I didn’t realise that me double checking everything now is an impact from that. Whenever I go outside to the bins and come back in and lock the door I always have to check 2/3 times that I’ve locked it even though I know I have and last night for example I had to get up around 2am to make sure I’d turned the bath tap off. I’m always questioning myself .
Ex used to always say I’m a ‘wrong un’ and the most hurtful one that ‘I’m a bad egg’. He also said after around a year of being together that my dad pulled him aside when we got together and said ‘be very careful of her she’s not right in the head’ and for 15 years I believed that my dad had said that because I had no reason to think that he’d lie to me about something like that. But my dad never said it, when we had a heart to heart that first time we met to talk my dad promised me he never said it or that he would even think it.
I really hope that one day I’ll be able to look in a mirror and like what I see but I think I’m a long way off that . My mum keeps telling me I need a bathroom mirror but I like not having one in there that way I can brush my teeth or wash my hands/face and not have to worry about catching a glimpse of myself. When your told your ugly inside and out on a daily basis you do start to believe it .
One positive thing I have noticed is I’m a lot more positive and calmer. Before I was constantly on edge and jittery but now I feel so much calmer and when bad things happen like what ex is doing I do have a good cry but then I try and dust myself down and work through it xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 20:41

nornironlady · 07/12/2024 14:43

@Imbluedalale I've have the heating on and my decisions on whether to watch tv or do a puzzle are just as taxing as yours!
@RaspberryBeretxx the cat was in and out as usual between showers. He will sleep all day now and head back out after 6pm. What a life!

@nornironlady , your cat sounds just like me when I was younger 🤣xx

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Imbluedalale · 07/12/2024 20:40

RaspberryBeretxx · 07/12/2024 14:35

Ooh, I didn’t see your posts when I posted mine 🤦🏻‍♀️🤪.

🤣🤣 at the giant babygro! I remember onesies being in when I was in my teens but they sort of got stuck right up your crack 🙈🤣. Sounds like you had a very hot night (in the temperature sense!).

ah, yeah I can imagine super romantic bridgerton not quite what you need right now. The Lindsey lohan film was good but not quite as good as last years when she was a spoilt brat who then lost her memory and turned good. I can’t remember what it was called. Both very easy watching! I haven’t seen miracles from heaven, I’ll add to my list 😁. I like virgin river on Netflix that has a new series coming out soon. It’s a bit romantic but has various story lines running through. Sweet magnolias is quite a nice gentle watch with lovely female friendships at the heart of it 🥰.

With your ex and the van number plate, I definitely think people put onto other people what they are so I think that’s why your ex tried to get you to believe you’re evil. Because he knows he is. I think maybe it’s a good sign that memories are popping up randomly and that it’s your mind/body’s way of dealing with them fully. I think just keep talking to us or your support worker or family and hopefully processing things gradually will help and having people remind you that you’re amazing, a great mum and basically the exact opposite of all the things your ex said. Big hug!

Soup sounds lovely and perfect for today. I’m not sure what to do for later. Something that involves very little mess now the kitchen is all clean 🤣.

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Evening @RaspberryBeretxx , how’s your day been? I’ve had a very lazy day watching Netflix, ITVX and reading my book in my bed. I’m going to do some cleaning now then get a hot bath.
My sister was meant to be coming for tea with my niece and her family but my sisters full of cold and she doesn’t want to pass it onto me before my op on Monday. I’ve had a nice relaxing day but I have been feeling lonely today.
My youngest still being really off with me and has started texting back one word answers and when I say I love or miss him he doesn’t reply. He did say that his grandma (exs mum) said she’ll fetch him for an hour if he wants to see me but I don’t want to see her nor do I want her in my home, my safe space. Heartbreaking really but I’m just hoping he will come round and will come and see me on his own. I don’t want to say too much to my family about it as I don’t want my mum getting stressed because I’m upset again but I will just carry on texting to him and letting him know that I miss and love him.
Onesie had to come off once and for all when I went to toilet for a pee and dropped the arm into the toilet . I don’t think I’ll be rushing to put that back on any time soon.
I watched the Lindsey Lohan film that came out last year . I enjoyed it although it was super cheesy.
Miracles from heaven is one of my favourite films, it’s based on a true story but make sure you have a box of tissues handy. Oh I’ll add those two to my watch list too. Thank you .
What did you end up having for your dinner?xx

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RaspberryBeretxx · 07/12/2024 20:30

What a beautiful card @BeNavyCrab 💕. And very sage words 🥰.

@Apolloneuro amazing baking! They look gorgeous, i love coffee cake. I’m just going to look up what cake I can make for tomorrow.

@Munchyseeds2 that sounds a perfect day (or perfect weekend!). Enjoy outlander. 🤣 at the jumpsuit, everyone would have thought you were taking him to the loo for something dodgy rather than just to help you out of the jumpsuit!

👋 @Zippedydodah amd welcome! I do remember those bodysuits, we called them a body 🤔. They were so popular but desperately didn’t suit me as a teen with a short body and not much waist 😣. 😳🤣 at your bodysuit loo incident.

Zippedydodah · 07/12/2024 20:07

@Imbluedalale you really are an inspiration, honestly 🤗
I’ve been quietly following you and you have made so much progress it’s amazing!
Re the onesies do any f you remember wearing a body suit thingy with poppers at the crotch? I thought one was was brilliant idea until it came to going to the loo….. I undid the poppers, the front and back pinged up under my top and there was absolutely no way I could manoeuvre the ruddy thing back down without completely undressing.
By the time I emerged from the toilet I was red, sweating and very flustered and 30 minutes later I wanted to go again.
Needless to say I never wore one again.
It’s blowing a hoolie here again, I thought that the storm had passed 🙄
I hope you’re all warm and safe x

spoonfulofmustard · 07/12/2024 19:05

hi spoonies, sorry ive been absent a few days, some work stuff going on. just on the way home from some drinks with a friend, hope everyone is keeping nice and cosy from the winds, its all calmed downed in london know (not that we had it as bad as anywhere else) xx

Munchyseeds2 · 07/12/2024 18:59

@BeNavyCrab another beautiful card! , hopefully the wind had died down a little for you

@Apolloneuro a day of baking, nothing better.

How are you feeling?

We have had a lovely day and have been out for lunch with my whole family ( apart from my son and one nephew). It was great to see each other, my brother and family came up from the SW yesterday....I. ad he wasn't driving today
Just watched the latest episode of Outlander with a glass of wine so I'm a happy bunny.
Tomorrow butter chicken is on the menu and we need to get a Xmas tree

@Imbluedalale you made me laugh with the onesie....a few years ago I was looking for an outfit for a night out, ordered a jumpsuit from M & S, it looked fab and I really liked it, then I realised that the only way I could get it down was with DHs help... I mean?? How could I ever go for a pee?? 😂
I sent it back
Hope you are ok lovely xxx