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Need a hand hold part 4

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Imbluedalale · 05/12/2024 17:02

Hi spoonies .
Welcome to season 4 xxx

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Imbluedalale · 16/12/2024 16:51

BeNavyCrab · 16/12/2024 10:50

Oh I love Strike, he's such a complex character but with a strong core of humanity. Haven't watched Yellowstone yet, so I will watch out for that.

I bet your son is going to be so happy with his scooter. In some ways it's easier when kids are old enough to know what they want for Christmas, as long as it's affordable. We just did a declutter and took some old toys to the food bank, so hopefully they will go to people who can't afford a present.

@Apolloneuro Your panto experience sounds hilarious. It reminds me of the time I went to see a Batman movie in the 90s. It was in this tiny hall of a very tiny village, the sort of place that has one of everything but no more. It wasn't a great film and had had bad reviews. There was this one scene where Batman was running over pews in a church and they were all tipping over backwards. It was really quiet ludicrous and we both burst out laughing and obviously leaned back in the seat, because the next thing we knew was us and the whole row tipped over backwards! We couldn't stop laughing and nobody was hurt thank goodness.
@Munchyseeds2
Those are some great picks for Christmas TV and I would happily join you to watch them.

@nornironlady I was also in the camp of people thinking your name was something to do with ironing but now you have explained it, I can hear it. I can't believe how expensive the TV mags are now. It's many years ago when we stopped buying them because they are too expensive, now it's astronomical at £5.50.

I also use ginger shots and fell in love with ginger when I was pregnant. We were sailing at the time and I suffered from bad morning sickness mixed with seasickness. We made our own version of gingernuts and they really helped to settle my tummy. Have you tried the Rochester non alcoholic ginger wine that you can get from Holland and Barrett? It's lovely and fiery, my daughter's favourite "wine" for Christmas when she was growing up.

@AdmittowearingCrocs Sorry to make you crave smoked mackerel, it was so tasty. Lidl do some smoked fish in a vacuum pack, that's not super expensive. There's different varieties, some with chilli, pepper or lemon and something herby.

@Imbluedalale Really happy to hear you are feeling better from the cold. It's hard to feel festive when you're by yourself but it does mean you get to eat all the treats yourself. I'm a bit boring when it comes to cheese. I do love it but I'm not very adventurous. I love cheddar cheese the best, preferably an extra strong or vintage one. I also like a nice pickled onion with it. We found this massive tin of Balsamic vinegar pickled onions and they are so tasty without a strong acidic burn that some of the jars of pickled onions have.

Afternoon @BeNavyCrab , how are you feeling today? ❤️
That’s so lovely that you took some toys to the food bank. I remember when I worked at the bank every year at Christmas you’d get a day off to volunteer at the radio station to help pick and pack presents for children who were in care or who’s family were struggling. There was different sections like 1-2 year olds , 5-8 year olds and they was split into gender. There was never hardly any gifts for teen boys which made me feel really sad so since then I always make sure to get a gift for a teen boy and donate although I haven’t managed to do that this year but I will donate through the website instead. It was heartwarming though to see people arriving with presents and donating them.
Im laughing at your row tipping over backwards at the Batman movie 😂
I’m quite boring with cheese Aswell I only like mature cheese or I like cheese with chilli in it even though I’m not a big fan of spice. Oh and I love pickled onions especially Garners pickled onions. I’m also prone to a nice posh biscuit I love grandma Wilds biscuits xx

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Imbluedalale · 16/12/2024 16:39

nornironlady · 16/12/2024 09:54

@Imbluedalale I went upstairs yesterday to wrap the one gift I have for my son. He's getting an expensive electric scooter on the understanding that would be it. I got a PS4 headset but he has a PS5! I've got to get that sent back to Amazon today. Another one ordered asap hoping it comes this week!
I've a good friend who is down with this bug. He's on his own so I've offered to go with honey and lemon and pick up a prescription if he needs one. I've never known it so bad.
@Munchyseeds2 My son got into Outnumbered on Netflix or IPlayer a while back. We will all be sitting down to watch over the holidays. Coronation Street will also be on being my sons favourite show! There's a new Strike out today on BBC and I just finished Yellowstone, jaw dropping tv. The best characters I've ever watched. Beth Dutton is a force!

Hi @nornironlady , how’s your day going so far?
I’m interested to know how you managed to wrap the scooter? I always get my youngest a football for Christmas and I’ve never known how to wrap it because , well it would be so obvious once wrapped. Last year I got inspiration from tic tok and wrapped it in gold wrapping paper and put a gold bow on top so it looked like a huge Ferraro rocher.
I done that with the Playstaion before I bought a wrong game I got the years before 🤦‍♀️.
Amazon has been quite good here for deliveries fingers crossed it arrives in time. I’m sure it will.
Awww that’s so lovely that you’re helping your friend like that, he’ll really appreciate that. I’ve found this year that a lot of people are either poorly or going through a hard time right now. When you read what some people are going through on MN it breaks your heart xx

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Imbluedalale · 16/12/2024 16:28

Munchyseeds2 · 16/12/2024 09:10

@Imbluedalale glad you are feeling a little better lovely xxx

Mackerel pate is hard to describe but I love it, its nice on crusty bread...m & s will probably have some if you want to give it a go
Have you got the Christmas day viewing sorted yet?
We are looking forward to Wallace & Gromit, Gavin & Stacy and Outnumbered

Afternoon @Munchyseeds2 , how’s your monday going?
Ohhh I’ll definitely give Mackerel paste a go, I love anything on crusty bread. Thank you .
I haven't decided what to watch on Christmas Day I might get stuck into a series on Netflix . I saw that there was a new Gavin & Stacy. I think I’ll watch that too. It’s going to be a strange one this year but I’m not going to be Scrooge and I’ll try and enjoy jt and know that my children will be having a lovely day xx

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RaspberryBeretxx · 16/12/2024 14:05

Glad you’re feeling a little better this morning @Imbluedalale . I have some of those sachets of ginger tea from a Chinese shop too. A bit spicy for me too but works if you put a little bit in with lemon juice and honey. Sone sort of snacking platter for Christmas Day sounds a good plan, I bet M&S will have something nice. Maybe some canapé type things to go in the oven too? I know you aren’t drinking but I’d go for some alcohol free Buck’s Fizz or a posh bottle of fizzy drink. And maybe some nice Mini cakes or donuts or something for pudding 🤔.

i had a lovely roast thanks. I think we are going to my parents (just up the road) for Christmas with my brother and his family but I haven’t confirmed with DP yet for various reasons 🤦🏻‍♀️. I’m a bit stressed about it all 🙈🙈.

I so hope you get to do your roast chicken and homemade stuffing balls for all your children together soon. Sending a big hug 🤗.

@BeNavyCrab the smoked mackerel sounds amazing. I love smoked mackerel pate too. And pickled onions 💕💕.

wow, @nornironlady £5.50 for the radio times! I guess most people just buy it once a year so they’ve got to make all their profit in December 🤣. Yellowstone is on my list to watch so glad to know your enjoyed it! That’s so sweet that your son’s favourite is coronation street 😍. What an amazing present for your ds, I bet he will be thrilled!

BeNavyCrab · 16/12/2024 10:50

Oh I love Strike, he's such a complex character but with a strong core of humanity. Haven't watched Yellowstone yet, so I will watch out for that.

I bet your son is going to be so happy with his scooter. In some ways it's easier when kids are old enough to know what they want for Christmas, as long as it's affordable. We just did a declutter and took some old toys to the food bank, so hopefully they will go to people who can't afford a present.

@Apolloneuro Your panto experience sounds hilarious. It reminds me of the time I went to see a Batman movie in the 90s. It was in this tiny hall of a very tiny village, the sort of place that has one of everything but no more. It wasn't a great film and had had bad reviews. There was this one scene where Batman was running over pews in a church and they were all tipping over backwards. It was really quiet ludicrous and we both burst out laughing and obviously leaned back in the seat, because the next thing we knew was us and the whole row tipped over backwards! We couldn't stop laughing and nobody was hurt thank goodness.
@Munchyseeds2
Those are some great picks for Christmas TV and I would happily join you to watch them.

@nornironlady I was also in the camp of people thinking your name was something to do with ironing but now you have explained it, I can hear it. I can't believe how expensive the TV mags are now. It's many years ago when we stopped buying them because they are too expensive, now it's astronomical at £5.50.

I also use ginger shots and fell in love with ginger when I was pregnant. We were sailing at the time and I suffered from bad morning sickness mixed with seasickness. We made our own version of gingernuts and they really helped to settle my tummy. Have you tried the Rochester non alcoholic ginger wine that you can get from Holland and Barrett? It's lovely and fiery, my daughter's favourite "wine" for Christmas when she was growing up.

@AdmittowearingCrocs Sorry to make you crave smoked mackerel, it was so tasty. Lidl do some smoked fish in a vacuum pack, that's not super expensive. There's different varieties, some with chilli, pepper or lemon and something herby.

@Imbluedalale Really happy to hear you are feeling better from the cold. It's hard to feel festive when you're by yourself but it does mean you get to eat all the treats yourself. I'm a bit boring when it comes to cheese. I do love it but I'm not very adventurous. I love cheddar cheese the best, preferably an extra strong or vintage one. I also like a nice pickled onion with it. We found this massive tin of Balsamic vinegar pickled onions and they are so tasty without a strong acidic burn that some of the jars of pickled onions have.

nornironlady · 16/12/2024 09:54

@Imbluedalale I went upstairs yesterday to wrap the one gift I have for my son. He's getting an expensive electric scooter on the understanding that would be it. I got a PS4 headset but he has a PS5! I've got to get that sent back to Amazon today. Another one ordered asap hoping it comes this week!
I've a good friend who is down with this bug. He's on his own so I've offered to go with honey and lemon and pick up a prescription if he needs one. I've never known it so bad.
@Munchyseeds2 My son got into Outnumbered on Netflix or IPlayer a while back. We will all be sitting down to watch over the holidays. Coronation Street will also be on being my sons favourite show! There's a new Strike out today on BBC and I just finished Yellowstone, jaw dropping tv. The best characters I've ever watched. Beth Dutton is a force!

Munchyseeds2 · 16/12/2024 09:10

@Imbluedalale glad you are feeling a little better lovely xxx

Mackerel pate is hard to describe but I love it, its nice on crusty bread...m & s will probably have some if you want to give it a go
Have you got the Christmas day viewing sorted yet?
We are looking forward to Wallace & Gromit, Gavin & Stacy and Outnumbered

Munchyseeds2 · 16/12/2024 09:02

£5.50??....I'll give it a miss 😂

Imbluedalale · 16/12/2024 08:31

nornironlady · 16/12/2024 06:54

Good morning Spoonies. Welcome to Monday and my last full week of work before I have some time off for Christmas.
@Apolloneuro I have to say I loved the sound of your panto. I used to go but I end up bored and fed up like my son so I didn't get any tickets this year. Pretty sure last years weren't used as he didn't fancy it so lesson learned. There's a person here who is in panto every year for over 30 years and he must be well in his 70s. It's time for someone fresher 😂
@Imbluedalale I would love that ginger tea. Stronger the better but I make my own ginger shots so I'm used to it. I love bringing them to work and seeing steam flying out of a workmates ears if they've never had it before.
I hope you feel better soon. This is the first day I've felt properly myself. Head is clear.
I bought TV Times last week out of pure habit since childhood. When I have TV guides at my finger tips! £5.50 it was...... when did that happen!!!!

Good morning lovely, well I eat my cake because I’ve woken up and feel loads better so the potato skins must have worked.
Ohhh your last week at work how exciting. Are you in the festive mood yet?
I’m feeling as festive as Miss Trunchbull would be at a 5 year olds Christmas party.
I’ll send you some of this ginger tea , it’s not my cup of tea at all . It tastes spicy .
Im glad you’re feeling better. Just in time for chrimbo.
£5.50! That’s daylight robbery. Didn’t it used to be a couple of quid?xx

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nornironlady · 16/12/2024 06:54

Good morning Spoonies. Welcome to Monday and my last full week of work before I have some time off for Christmas.
@Apolloneuro I have to say I loved the sound of your panto. I used to go but I end up bored and fed up like my son so I didn't get any tickets this year. Pretty sure last years weren't used as he didn't fancy it so lesson learned. There's a person here who is in panto every year for over 30 years and he must be well in his 70s. It's time for someone fresher 😂
@Imbluedalale I would love that ginger tea. Stronger the better but I make my own ginger shots so I'm used to it. I love bringing them to work and seeing steam flying out of a workmates ears if they've never had it before.
I hope you feel better soon. This is the first day I've felt properly myself. Head is clear.
I bought TV Times last week out of pure habit since childhood. When I have TV guides at my finger tips! £5.50 it was...... when did that happen!!!!

Imbluedalale · 16/12/2024 00:53

RaspberryBeretxx · 15/12/2024 21:56

I’m here too! Dd and I spent the day with DP at work so been a busy one but managed to do roast pork and bought a chocolate cheesecake.

sorry you’re all coldy @Imbluedalale . Hope you’ve feel better after a detox with the potato skins.

The panto sounds hilarious @Apolloneuro . glad the girls enjoyed it and didn’t notice your giggling too much.

hello all the other spoonies 👋.

Hi @RaspberryBeretxx , how are you? Oh I’m really craving a roast dinner now! Sounds delicious. I love cheesecake too. Did you enjoy it?
Potato skins are removed now I’m not feeling any better though 😂
My mum got me some ginger tea bags , pure ones from a Chinese shop she goes to but they are a-bit too gingerly for me .
Ive had absolutely no energy whatsoever this week felt lethargic all week.
Are you having Christmas at home this year?xx

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Imbluedalale · 16/12/2024 00:47

BeNavyCrab · 15/12/2024 21:30

I'm here too, I had a nice restful day reading some crafting magazines. My husband got a lift to a local race in the morning so I had a snooze. He came back happy after having a good race and picked up an age category prize. It's a handmade prize,a gold sprayed seashell stuck to a wall tile and the words written on it. Unfortunately it must have been some sort of marker that wasn't waterproof because by the time he got home most of the words had been rubbed off in his pocket but we soon fixed that with one of my pens. He really enjoyed the battle for first in ages between another runner from another club and they were only a few seconds apart at the end.

I love lemon drizzle cake too and definitely look at a menu before we go. Partly so there's no unexpected expensive costs but also so I can dilly dally with my choices, without annoying others. It's really good to have a treat to look forward to and cake is up there with my favourite treats.

We got an unexpected one last night when one of my husband's customers dropped in a package with some smoked mackerel in it, that he'd caught and smoked himself. It's so flavoursome and really nice to be thought about and given something special.

Hi @BeNavyCrab , I’m glad to hear you’ve had a restful day . Did you get any inspiration from your crafting mags? Have you ever been on Etsy? They have some lovely crafting things on there.
Well done to your hubby for winning a prize!
Because I haven't been out much properly in months little things like going to a cafe I really look forward to. And then having a browse around M&S is my guilty pleasure.
Im unsure what treats to get for Christmas Day as I’ll be on my own so I’m going to make a platter to last me all day and watch films. I love cheese and biscuits and I adore cheese and pineapple on sticks. I just love cheese 😂.
That’s so low my that one of your hubbys customers did that . How thoughtful. I’ve never had mackerel what does it taste like?xx

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Imbluedalale · 16/12/2024 00:41

Munchyseeds2 · 15/12/2024 19:55

I'm here!!
Not been up to much really, xmas tree is in and decorated, DH has started to re decorate the bathroom ( after just a little bit of moaning from me😂)
Roast chicken for dinner, just 2 days at work this week so all good.

Hope the ladies who aren't feeling fab are starting to feel a bit better xxx

Just want to add that the best panto I've ever seen was Captain Hook with Lesley Grantham and Joe pasquale, they were just bouncing off each other and there were lots of gags that just went over the kids heads

The worst was a few years later with Danny la Rou....honestly it was sad and the rest of the cast were trying to carry him

Hi @Munchyseeds2 , I thought I’d reply before I go to bed. Your day sounds lovely . What colour scheme are you going for in your bathroom? I have gone for dark green, I’m going to try and get some floating shelves and have plants on them, the nice dangly ones and I need to find a green mirror although I keep putting that off.
I’m absolutely craving a chicken dinner. I’m hoping I can see all my children together after Christmas and make them one. My daughter loves my homemade stuffing balls.
I’ve never been to a panto but would like to. I saw a funny video on tik tok it was Disney on ice and Olaf tripped and his head come off bless xx

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RaspberryBeretxx · 15/12/2024 21:56

I’m here too! Dd and I spent the day with DP at work so been a busy one but managed to do roast pork and bought a chocolate cheesecake.

sorry you’re all coldy @Imbluedalale . Hope you’ve feel better after a detox with the potato skins.

The panto sounds hilarious @Apolloneuro . glad the girls enjoyed it and didn’t notice your giggling too much.

hello all the other spoonies 👋.

AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 21:45

@BeNavyCrab glad you have been able to rest today. How good is that for your husband to win the prize.
Oh I love smoked mackerel so quite jealous. 😁

BeNavyCrab · 15/12/2024 21:30

I'm here too, I had a nice restful day reading some crafting magazines. My husband got a lift to a local race in the morning so I had a snooze. He came back happy after having a good race and picked up an age category prize. It's a handmade prize,a gold sprayed seashell stuck to a wall tile and the words written on it. Unfortunately it must have been some sort of marker that wasn't waterproof because by the time he got home most of the words had been rubbed off in his pocket but we soon fixed that with one of my pens. He really enjoyed the battle for first in ages between another runner from another club and they were only a few seconds apart at the end.

I love lemon drizzle cake too and definitely look at a menu before we go. Partly so there's no unexpected expensive costs but also so I can dilly dally with my choices, without annoying others. It's really good to have a treat to look forward to and cake is up there with my favourite treats.

We got an unexpected one last night when one of my husband's customers dropped in a package with some smoked mackerel in it, that he'd caught and smoked himself. It's so flavoursome and really nice to be thought about and given something special.

Munchyseeds2 · 15/12/2024 19:55

I'm here!!
Not been up to much really, xmas tree is in and decorated, DH has started to re decorate the bathroom ( after just a little bit of moaning from me😂)
Roast chicken for dinner, just 2 days at work this week so all good.

Hope the ladies who aren't feeling fab are starting to feel a bit better xxx

Just want to add that the best panto I've ever seen was Captain Hook with Lesley Grantham and Joe pasquale, they were just bouncing off each other and there were lots of gags that just went over the kids heads

The worst was a few years later with Danny la Rou....honestly it was sad and the rest of the cast were trying to carry him

Imbluedalale · 15/12/2024 19:04

AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 19:02

Ooooh that sounds delicious, I don’t blame you looking at the menu. Always good to be prepared and it’s something to look forward to. Thanks for the tip about the iced Madeira cake, I shall keep an eye out for it.

This is the one @AdmittowearingCrocs . I promise you won’t be disappointed xx

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AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 19:02

Ooooh that sounds delicious, I don’t blame you looking at the menu. Always good to be prepared and it’s something to look forward to. Thanks for the tip about the iced Madeira cake, I shall keep an eye out for it.

Imbluedalale · 15/12/2024 18:57

AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 18:51

I love an M&S cafe. I recently went with my best friend during a birthday shopping trip. The cakes were so good looking I couldn’t make up my mind what to have 🤣🤣 Finally went for a lemon drizzle as it’s one of my favourite 🍰

I love the Christmas menu I’m so sad and like to look at menus before I go . I’m going to have a s’mores hot chocolate and banana bread . Yummy. I love lemon drizzle cake too, my absolute favourite cake of all time is the iced M&S Madeira cake but they always sell out everywhere so quickly xx

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AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 18:51

I love an M&S cafe. I recently went with my best friend during a birthday shopping trip. The cakes were so good looking I couldn’t make up my mind what to have 🤣🤣 Finally went for a lemon drizzle as it’s one of my favourite 🍰

Imbluedalale · 15/12/2024 18:44

AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 18:39

@Apolloneuro thank you, I have had a quiet day as next week is really busy and then next Monday I am driving to my DS and DIL to spend Christmas with them. So still lots to organise and packing to do.
You are right, it has been unusually quiet on here today.
@Imbluedalale Laura I’m sorry you have a rotten cold. So many people have it. I spoke with my oldest DS today and he is unwell with it too. Hope you feel better very soon. What day is your doctors appointment regarding your throat. Hopefully you will be on the mend by then. 🤗🎄🎄🎄

Awww your Christmas sounds like it’s going to be lovely @AdmittowearingCrocs . I can’t wait to hear all about it.
Im currently sat with potato skins in my socks to soak up the toxins so hopefully I’ll start feeling better soon. My appointment is on Wednesday and then I’m going to M&S cafe which I’m so excited about (I know I know , I need to get a life) xx

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AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 18:39

@Apolloneuro thank you, I have had a quiet day as next week is really busy and then next Monday I am driving to my DS and DIL to spend Christmas with them. So still lots to organise and packing to do.
You are right, it has been unusually quiet on here today.
@Imbluedalale Laura I’m sorry you have a rotten cold. So many people have it. I spoke with my oldest DS today and he is unwell with it too. Hope you feel better very soon. What day is your doctors appointment regarding your throat. Hopefully you will be on the mend by then. 🤗🎄🎄🎄

Imbluedalale · 15/12/2024 18:29

AdmittowearingCrocs · 15/12/2024 17:31

@Apolloneuro I bet people are out doing Christmasy things. As for the Panto being dire, surely that is par for the course and part of the fun. Glad your girly enjoyed it, disaster’s and all 😂😂😂
Laura, hope you are good and having a restful day. Sending you a Sunday hug 🤗🎄

Hi @AdmittowearingCrocs , how are you today? Where has everybody gone to? I’ve had an ok day thank you , full of cold but so is everyone else bless them. Have you been upto much today?xx

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Imbluedalale · 15/12/2024 18:27

Apolloneuro · 15/12/2024 17:14

Hellooooooo. Have you all gone off and started a thread without me? 🤣

Hi @Apolloneuro , so sorry I am only just replying the days just gone today. Full of cold and have zero energy and then my sister came to see me as she’s going to Tenerife for Christmas to see her daughter.
You do make me laugh @Apolloneuro sorry but the panto sounds hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
I was reading a thread last night that had me in stitches my belly hurt from laughing. It was the spornful section. Somebody had a boil on a not so pleasant place , their arse hole actually and right there on the thread there was a picture , of her arse hole! I spent a good 20 mins wondering how she managed to get such a good picture of it , her camera must be a very good one. FYI I’m sorry if it was a spoonies bottom it’s just well that took some balls to post that xx

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