Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Not able to contact plumber - he has £3000

134 replies

Hello113 · 05/12/2024 14:29

Plumber was meant to start my bathroom this week but I can't reach him. I've been trying for 2.5 weeks. I've WhatsApp, text, email and call - nothing. Phone goes straight to voicemail. As of yesterday my WhatsApp messages are on one tick. He has £3000 of mine which I paid for materials. What to do now???

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Hello113 · 25/01/2025 14:55

TheHateIsNotGood · 13/01/2025 20:35

I agree with visiting the address, but, he could actually genuinely be ill and can't really do much and has turned all of his work 'communications' off. The fact that the supplier offered this information makes it seem more genuine to me. So, don't go in 'guns blazing'.

If he is genuinely long-term ill, then play nice and ask for his 'plans' and a recommendation for someone who could do the job based on them, retaining the supplies you have paid for. Maybe consider losing £50+ on this transaction as 'goodwill'. It will keep you in good stead with the other plumbers that use the same local supplier.

Think of the supplier as a 'venue' where all the local plumbers meet up and have a bloody good gossip about their jobs/customers and other plumbers.

There's no chance I'm giving him 50 quid why should I!!?

OP posts:
PotaytoPotahhto · 14/01/2025 07:07

I’m sceptical about him being unwell. I’ve had a couple family members scammed and both times the builder was ill or had a broken leg. Really, they were scammers.

Hello113 · 14/01/2025 05:21

TheHateIsNotGood · 13/01/2025 22:13

@Hello113 I completely agree with you, but when you're a self-employed sole trader and very ill the reality is there's not much you can do. A huge pita for you but people get sick and you just need to get your money back and get your job done.

He has been in touch with the bathroom supplier and he has family who have been in touch with other customers. He can use a phone.

OP posts:
TheHateIsNotGood · 13/01/2025 22:13

@Hello113 I completely agree with you, but when you're a self-employed sole trader and very ill the reality is there's not much you can do. A huge pita for you but people get sick and you just need to get your money back and get your job done.

Modernfamily2011 · 13/01/2025 21:22

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 20:06

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through something similar. It's awful. I hope you get your money back. I don't know how people sleep at night who do things like this. It's been such a stressful process already and I'm no closer to getting my money back.

Thank you and I hope the same for you too….. unfortunately this whole process has taken over a year and unless the bailiffs are successful then i’m not sure what else we can do and I bet he knows that
Some people are just rotten to the core!
we have invoices and also paid via bank transfer, when I called the bank, they refused to help! I hope you get your money back, please keep us updated 🤞🤞

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 21:12

TheHateIsNotGood · 13/01/2025 20:35

I agree with visiting the address, but, he could actually genuinely be ill and can't really do much and has turned all of his work 'communications' off. The fact that the supplier offered this information makes it seem more genuine to me. So, don't go in 'guns blazing'.

If he is genuinely long-term ill, then play nice and ask for his 'plans' and a recommendation for someone who could do the job based on them, retaining the supplies you have paid for. Maybe consider losing £50+ on this transaction as 'goodwill'. It will keep you in good stead with the other plumbers that use the same local supplier.

Think of the supplier as a 'venue' where all the local plumbers meet up and have a bloody good gossip about their jobs/customers and other plumbers.

No I wouldn't go in guns blazing and I understand he's ill but I'm still 3 grand down. I'll have a civilised conversation with him but it's not fair to keep people in the lurch like this with absolutely zero communication.

OP posts:
TheHateIsNotGood · 13/01/2025 20:35

I agree with visiting the address, but, he could actually genuinely be ill and can't really do much and has turned all of his work 'communications' off. The fact that the supplier offered this information makes it seem more genuine to me. So, don't go in 'guns blazing'.

If he is genuinely long-term ill, then play nice and ask for his 'plans' and a recommendation for someone who could do the job based on them, retaining the supplies you have paid for. Maybe consider losing £50+ on this transaction as 'goodwill'. It will keep you in good stead with the other plumbers that use the same local supplier.

Think of the supplier as a 'venue' where all the local plumbers meet up and have a bloody good gossip about their jobs/customers and other plumbers.

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 20:21

BlueSky2024 · 13/01/2025 13:19

Can you and your partner ( or someone else) go to his address?….. don’t go alone

Yeah, that's the next thing I'm going to do

OP posts:
Zinglenibber · 13/01/2025 20:20

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 20:04

No I paid via bank transfer. I have an invoice and a receipt.

My mother was scammed and had paid by bank transfer. She phoned her bank and someone in a fraud team had her money refunded quite quickly.

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 20:06

Modernfamily2011 · 13/01/2025 14:55

@RunningJo - Small claims is an easy process but it takes forever!! I'm currently going through this process myself as our builder also stole £2K off of us, he then agreed to pay it back (via small claims) monthly but didn't make a single payment. Now i'm having to go through small claims again to send bailiffs, the letter alone took 3 months to send and it could take another 2 months for bailiffs to do anything. It's such a tedious task :-(

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through something similar. It's awful. I hope you get your money back. I don't know how people sleep at night who do things like this. It's been such a stressful process already and I'm no closer to getting my money back.

OP posts:
Hello113 · 13/01/2025 20:04

JustMyView13 · 13/01/2025 13:34

Do also speak to trading standards.

Have you paid for any of this on a credit card or using a loan which you said was for home improvements? Credit comes with section 75 protection, and when we were in this position we were able to recover all of our money from the CC provider. This is likely to be more successful than small claims, because small claims still depends on the individual having those funds and paying them over to you.

No I paid via bank transfer. I have an invoice and a receipt.

OP posts:
Modernfamily2011 · 13/01/2025 15:33

RunningJo · 13/01/2025 14:58

It’s definitely not a quick fix for sure. The whole court system itself is in crisis with cases taking months / years.

I hope you manage to get the money!

Thank you......... I really hope we get it back too, It's such a shame there are such awful people around who will happily steal your hard earned money

RunningJo · 13/01/2025 14:58

Modernfamily2011 · 13/01/2025 14:55

@RunningJo - Small claims is an easy process but it takes forever!! I'm currently going through this process myself as our builder also stole £2K off of us, he then agreed to pay it back (via small claims) monthly but didn't make a single payment. Now i'm having to go through small claims again to send bailiffs, the letter alone took 3 months to send and it could take another 2 months for bailiffs to do anything. It's such a tedious task :-(

It’s definitely not a quick fix for sure. The whole court system itself is in crisis with cases taking months / years.

I hope you manage to get the money!

Modernfamily2011 · 13/01/2025 14:55

@RunningJo - Small claims is an easy process but it takes forever!! I'm currently going through this process myself as our builder also stole £2K off of us, he then agreed to pay it back (via small claims) monthly but didn't make a single payment. Now i'm having to go through small claims again to send bailiffs, the letter alone took 3 months to send and it could take another 2 months for bailiffs to do anything. It's such a tedious task :-(

JustMyView13 · 13/01/2025 13:34

Do also speak to trading standards.

Have you paid for any of this on a credit card or using a loan which you said was for home improvements? Credit comes with section 75 protection, and when we were in this position we were able to recover all of our money from the CC provider. This is likely to be more successful than small claims, because small claims still depends on the individual having those funds and paying them over to you.

BlueSky2024 · 13/01/2025 13:19

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 12:58

So I'm still out by 3 grand. I've been told by bathroom showroom plumber is ill and now signed off work long term so order has been cancelled, I've asked Showroom twice if plumber has been refunded and they have not responded. I've sent a letter to plumber asking for a refund and given him 14 days to respond and said if not received I will be seeking legal advice. Does anyone have any experience with mediation or small claims court? Thinking that's my next step.

Can you and your partner ( or someone else) go to his address?….. don’t go alone

Dotto · 13/01/2025 13:07

Yes I sent a letter via signed for delivery telling him I would be lodging a claim via Moneyclaim online on x date (the gov small claims process). The cash was posted through my door 2 days later as he knew I was serious.

RunningJo · 13/01/2025 13:04

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 12:58

So I'm still out by 3 grand. I've been told by bathroom showroom plumber is ill and now signed off work long term so order has been cancelled, I've asked Showroom twice if plumber has been refunded and they have not responded. I've sent a letter to plumber asking for a refund and given him 14 days to respond and said if not received I will be seeking legal advice. Does anyone have any experience with mediation or small claims court? Thinking that's my next step.

Small claims court is a very easy process. You can follow it step by step online. It will cost you to do it, just a nominal fee, which you can also claim back for. You would of course lose this if the Plumber won the case.
Keep every bit of correspondence you have sent to him, and from him to you. Make notes of any conversations you have had with the plumber merchant too. You have to show you have tried to contact and be fair to the Plumber before taking it to small claims (which it seems you have been more than fair!). Good luck, I would be doing the small claims as soon as the 14 days is up.

Hello113 · 13/01/2025 12:58

So I'm still out by 3 grand. I've been told by bathroom showroom plumber is ill and now signed off work long term so order has been cancelled, I've asked Showroom twice if plumber has been refunded and they have not responded. I've sent a letter to plumber asking for a refund and given him 14 days to respond and said if not received I will be seeking legal advice. Does anyone have any experience with mediation or small claims court? Thinking that's my next step.

OP posts:
endsnewyearsday · 01/01/2025 10:59

Definitely collect the materials - it's madness to just write it off and start again!

Butterfly292828 · 01/01/2025 02:14

Order my own materials & get them delivered to the house, pay them their day rate- I would not dream of paying up front.only our plasterer is fab & totally 💯 honest.

TheCompactPussycat · 12/12/2024 16:07

IMustDoMoreExercise · 11/12/2024 20:09

I wonder if he is ill or something as he hasn't made a financial gain by not contacting you as the materials are still with the supplier.

This.

It doesn't actually sound like a scam. More like something has happened that has put him out of action.

Either collect the materials yourself, or ask the store not to release them to him until you give them the go-ahead because he needs to contact you first.

Have you tried calling on his home address? I would try that and also ask on local Facebook pages if anyone knows why he isn't able to answer messages at the moment.

Aria999 · 12/12/2024 15:57

@Hello113 in that case maybe find another plumber, explain the situation and ask if they can use the materials.

Agree you would be crazy to start again, presumably you chose these materials so at least the huge majority of them are what you wanted?

TwinklyAmberOrca · 11/12/2024 21:47

Hello113 · 11/12/2024 20:01

I'm worried another plumber wouldn't be happy to, for example one of the parts the plumber had made a special plan for how it was going to fit. I think it's wiser just to start again because I'm worried I'll just be left with materials I can't use. He spent all the money on the materials, I haven't paid him any labour costs.

I'd collect the materials if you can. Another plumber will be able to sort it.

We started doing our own bathroom then just couldn't find time so hired a plumber who just used the stuff we already bought.

Jinglesomeoftheway · 11/12/2024 20:55

Hello113 · 11/12/2024 20:01

I'm worried another plumber wouldn't be happy to, for example one of the parts the plumber had made a special plan for how it was going to fit. I think it's wiser just to start again because I'm worried I'll just be left with materials I can't use. He spent all the money on the materials, I haven't paid him any labour costs.

If the materials get refunded back to him then I'd assume you can kiss your £3k goodbye. I'd rather at least have the materials to use for another job, any decent plumber would be able to use them as planned surely?

What do the materials cost in total?

Swipe left for the next trending thread