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Work sustainability policy dictating crap food

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ThisBrickOtter · 05/12/2024 10:02

So, my employer has gone on a sustainability bender (don't look at this happening at the same time as the expensive and resource consuming rebrand). This now means for our dept get together, which usually has food, only vegan or vegetarian options are available. This is really annoying me.

I'm a pro thought for the environment type but my choices don't extend to meat (I don't find the vegan argument convincing, I do the vegetarian one, but got ill when tried that). I consume what meat I can afford, thoughtfully.

I do have an unusual relationship with food. Part neurodiversity (this extends to authority at times, something I keep an eye on!), part poor childhood. I think this might be contributing to my reaction.

But yep, I feel angry that my food choices are being taken away. Last meeting I was at where they did this, only the sweet food got completely finished. The savory vege sandwiches and fallafel was picked at. Same with the fake chicken. The policy is resulting in more food waste, not less. So that annoys me too.

I have no issue with people's personal choices, but this feels like being lectured to about drinking but a very drunk uncle.

AIBU feeling this way?

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ElaborateCushion · 05/12/2024 10:42

"at the same time as the expensive and resource consuming rebrand"

Jaguar??

50shadesofnay · 05/12/2024 10:39

As a vegetarian who has attended work conferences for 2 decades where only 1 veggie option is offered amongst a sea of meaty ones, I would say YABU. It's the meat eaters turn to not like the options, we veggies have served our time!

AhBiscuits · 05/12/2024 10:30

DoreenonTill8 · 05/12/2024 10:16

What no ones said the usual 'it's ooonnly one meal! Surely you can eat vegan for one meal?????!!!' thing that always gets posted on threads like this yet?! 😆

Then allow me 😂
How often are these meetings happening? I'd just suck it up and eat later.

blackcatsarethebestcats · 05/12/2024 10:26

Lentilweaver · 05/12/2024 10:13

I dont know why people think veggies want food that mimics meat.

Some do!

DoreenonTill8 · 05/12/2024 10:16

What no ones said the usual 'it's ooonnly one meal! Surely you can eat vegan for one meal?????!!!' thing that always gets posted on threads like this yet?! 😆

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 05/12/2024 10:14

If it isn't part of your contractual agreement, they can provide whatever they like. If you think the policy will result in greater food waste, then point out that it might not be as sustainable as they think, and perhaps suggest some better alternatives that will be eaten. Good vegetable samosas always disappear in no time, for example.

Nobody is taking away your choice about what you eat, though. You can eat what you like, but that doesn't mean that the company is obliged to provide your chosen menu.

Lentilweaver · 05/12/2024 10:13

I dont know why people think veggies want food that mimics meat.

Dotjones · 05/12/2024 10:11

It's a way of saving money - give the staff food they don't want to eat so lots gets wasted, then use this as an excuse not to provide food in future because the staff don't eat it.

Lentilweaver · 05/12/2024 10:09

I am veggie and dont believe in forcing food choices onto people. I also dont eat any fake meat. But most canteens wont know how to cook decent veggie or vegan food.

CyranoDeBergerQuack · 05/12/2024 10:07

Using fake chicken - indeed, any fake meat/dairy - is more expensive. The processes the original product goes through to make it taste like a bit of tandoori chicken/cheese is worse environmentally than meat/dairy production.
Trouble is, caterers are lazy and think the vegetarians want the crap the vegans want - so yit's almost impossible to get a veggie dish with realy dairy products, or one that isn't made to look and taste like a piece of fucking meat (which is what most veggies are trying to avoid!)