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To think we shouldn't have to work the day before Christmas Eve?

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blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:33

I work in a bathroom shop.
We are closed over Christmas and were lead to believe we broke up on the 22nd
Turns out now we don't
On the 23rd we have to travel to Manchester (3 hours each way ) to have a buffet and games with the company owner.
We have to listen to a presentation on how the company's done this year.
If we don't go we will have a day deducted from our salary.
It's the day before Christmas Eve and we have to drive to Manchester to have picky food with the owner and play Christmas games.
Aibu to think it's ridiculous?
And we have been repeatedly told if we don't go we won't get paid and it will halt any progression in the company !

OP posts:
malificent7 · 06/12/2024 05:22

The 24th is also a working day. I do think it's a pain but add it to the list of totally pointless things we need to do to earn a living.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 06/12/2024 04:09

Holldstock1 · 05/12/2024 22:37

I get that it may seem alot of effort but you are getting paid for it, are getting updated about the company you work for and having some down time with colleagues. And, you get to have time off over Christmas.

I work as a private self employed carer in the community and if I dont work I dont get paid. I also dont get paid for time taken or the cost of any training courses I have to take.

Dont get me wrong, I love my job and the people I work with - otherwise I wouldnt have done this for last 13 years. They really make it worthwhile, and I have to say its the most fulfilling job Ive ever done.

But, I will be working Christmas Eve, Christmas Day (8.00 am - 7 pm & believe me there have been years when its 6.45 am - 10.30 pm so Im counting myself lucky), Boxing Day, New Years etc etc. I work every day through the year unless Im on holiday.

Even my 'weekends off' are just ones where Im working in the mornings & have the afternoons & evenings free.

I get it that in the lead up to Christmas its nice to have abit of give to get everything ready, but at the end of the day its your job & you are getting paid to go. Why is it a problem?

The 6 plus hours (minimum) of travelling that is outside work hours that she isn’t paid for or reimbursed for and the short notice

justasking111 · 06/12/2024 01:18

You could be really sneaky. Text someone to say that the taxi didn't turn up and you'll be on a later train. Dang that train was cancelled.

I'd check the cost of train tickets on train line add in any other expenses and deduct it from a days net salary. Still looking good?

Holldstock1 · 05/12/2024 22:37

I get that it may seem alot of effort but you are getting paid for it, are getting updated about the company you work for and having some down time with colleagues. And, you get to have time off over Christmas.

I work as a private self employed carer in the community and if I dont work I dont get paid. I also dont get paid for time taken or the cost of any training courses I have to take.

Dont get me wrong, I love my job and the people I work with - otherwise I wouldnt have done this for last 13 years. They really make it worthwhile, and I have to say its the most fulfilling job Ive ever done.

But, I will be working Christmas Eve, Christmas Day (8.00 am - 7 pm & believe me there have been years when its 6.45 am - 10.30 pm so Im counting myself lucky), Boxing Day, New Years etc etc. I work every day through the year unless Im on holiday.

Even my 'weekends off' are just ones where Im working in the mornings & have the afternoons & evenings free.

I get it that in the lead up to Christmas its nice to have abit of give to get everything ready, but at the end of the day its your job & you are getting paid to go. Why is it a problem?

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 05/12/2024 22:01

Itsafunione · 05/12/2024 20:18

It’s not a treat or Op probably wouldn’t be here complaining about it. The employers know it’s not a treat either and that’s why they’ve essentially forced employees to attend by threatening them with no career profession if they take the day off.

Her usual workplace location is a 15 minute drive. On the 23rd she has to leave about 5 or 6am to get there for 9am then the same trip back while probably fighting Christmas traffic AND she’s not getting the travel expenses reimbursed. She’ll likely be exhausted and out of pocket.

How is that a treat?

Edited

Clearly OP is not experiencing this as a treat! But I doubt that the employer arranged it just to piss everyone off and ruin their Christmas. The intention was probably to provide a way for colleagues to celebrate together and get to know each other a bit better, and being up for it would be taken as a sign of a team player who wanted to do well in the company and likely to advance.
I guess that being asked to travel in non-working hours is unusual in this company, since it has come as a shock that only 2 hours TOIL will be given for a 6 hour journey. In the jobs I've had, travelling time has rarely been paid so I wouldn't be particularly surprised. But there's no doubt that it's a long way to go for a day trip and hopefully it will only happen once a year.

jannier · 05/12/2024 20:32

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 05/12/2024 09:49

Off the topic, but interesting to see what people in different areas call the last Friday before Xmas.

Here it's Factory Friday 🤣

Friday like any other

BlueMum16 · 05/12/2024 20:31

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:57

We aren't getting any travel expenses
We have been told we get 2 hours to use in January as a early finish

Just book a date leave?

jannier · 05/12/2024 20:30

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

What's Black eye Friday?

OnTheBoardwalk · 05/12/2024 20:28

Agree you’re getting a hard time because of the title of your thread it's not the real issue

i live in greater Manchester and my aim is not going anywhere near town until January. Travelling anywhere by road or public transport is an absolute nightmare

my job involves travel, it's in my contract. There is no way I'd agree to be somewhere that far away for 9am and expect to travel back to get in late that wasn’t anything business critical especially just before Christmas Eve (and yes I know that’s not the issue but it does factor into the discussions)

Itsafunione · 05/12/2024 20:18

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 05/12/2024 12:27

Unless you were specifically told 23rd is a holiday, it isn't. Same with the 24th.
It sounds that your employer wants to give you a bit of a pre-Christmas treat in Manchester.

It’s not a treat or Op probably wouldn’t be here complaining about it. The employers know it’s not a treat either and that’s why they’ve essentially forced employees to attend by threatening them with no career profession if they take the day off.

Her usual workplace location is a 15 minute drive. On the 23rd she has to leave about 5 or 6am to get there for 9am then the same trip back while probably fighting Christmas traffic AND she’s not getting the travel expenses reimbursed. She’ll likely be exhausted and out of pocket.

How is that a treat?

Itsafunione · 05/12/2024 20:11

Alondra · 05/12/2024 14:36

The government in the UK fudges numbers of employment, with people employed on zero contracts working for no rights at all but still showing as working.

In Spain and many European countries, zero contracts are illegal. Employees always need to have a working contract.

It breaks my heart reading posts like yours. It's not a tough market, it's a political policy.

I’ll never forget the year I had 3 zero hour contracts where I really did get zero hours. Awful.

Sushu · 05/12/2024 20:06

Jellybeanz456 · 05/12/2024 17:08

Thank ya lucky stars you get a Xmas break unlike some off us!!

Swings and roundabouts, innit?!
I think teacher friends are lucky to have the long summer holidays but on the flip side, I know I am lucky I can book leave during most of the year, whenever I want but within reason.
My work place is under pressure at Christmas so we don’t always get the time off, as requested, but I’m fortunate enough to receive a decent salary which compensates.

mathanxiety · 05/12/2024 20:04

FestiveFruitloop · 05/12/2024 19:32

On your marks and get set for the race to the bottom...

Yes indeed.

mathanxiety · 05/12/2024 20:03

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

That's really shitty, and so is the vanity project shindig on the 23rd.

If I were you I'd be looking for another job.

FestiveFruitloop · 05/12/2024 19:32

Jellybeanz456 · 05/12/2024 17:08

Thank ya lucky stars you get a Xmas break unlike some off us!!

On your marks and get set for the race to the bottom...

AlohaRose · 05/12/2024 17:45

I think you have to tell us what awful company this is! It's very late to be only introducing this company day if you were originally told you were finishing on Friday 20th. What if people have unmovable plans by now? Fine to declare Mon 23rd as a normal working day which it is for many people but not if you have been told differently until now.

If it's going to take you three hours to get there and this is a nationwide company there must be people coming from even further away who will have no option but to stay overnight or drive all night - and you say there are no travel expenses! That's pretty outrageous.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 05/12/2024 17:28

Just ask them for expenses, and say that you can’t afford to pay the extra travel and overnight ( so you can get there in time in the morning.). Because you are really looking forward to it, but you just can’t manage the extra unexpected expense, especially so near Christmas.

PoppyRoseBucky · 05/12/2024 17:15

Jellybeanz456 · 05/12/2024 17:08

Thank ya lucky stars you get a Xmas break unlike some off us!!

Don't work a job where you have to work Xmas if you're bitter about it.

Donttellempike · 05/12/2024 17:13

Jellybeanz456 · 05/12/2024 17:08

Thank ya lucky stars you get a Xmas break unlike some off us!!

Quite. She should be paying for the privilege 😳

Jellybeanz456 · 05/12/2024 17:08

Thank ya lucky stars you get a Xmas break unlike some off us!!

Boomer55 · 05/12/2024 16:49

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:33

I work in a bathroom shop.
We are closed over Christmas and were lead to believe we broke up on the 22nd
Turns out now we don't
On the 23rd we have to travel to Manchester (3 hours each way ) to have a buffet and games with the company owner.
We have to listen to a presentation on how the company's done this year.
If we don't go we will have a day deducted from our salary.
It's the day before Christmas Eve and we have to drive to Manchester to have picky food with the owner and play Christmas games.
Aibu to think it's ridiculous?
And we have been repeatedly told if we don't go we won't get paid and it will halt any progression in the company !

Why do you think you need to be off the day before Xmas Eve? It’s not a holiday, so just take it as annual leave 🤷‍♀️

PoppyRoseBucky · 05/12/2024 16:47

TheFormidableMrsC · 05/12/2024 15:29

It's because it's not them having to do it 🤣

Exactly.

These types of threads always have the same types crawling out their manager's arseholes to witter on about how they would do this with no questions asked and how dare anyone else complain! People just don't want to work nowadays!

It's easy to tell others to do it when you're not the one being told to.

PoppyRoseBucky · 05/12/2024 16:42

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:57

We aren't getting any travel expenses
We have been told we get 2 hours to use in January as a early finish

Whilst it's not a legal requirement for a company to pay travel expenses, it's good practice to do so and the fact that they're not and expecting a 6-hour commute to have what amounts as forced fun so close to Christmas too (when it's going to be very busy) is very unreasonable of the employer.

They absolutely can make this request and aren't being unreasonable in expecting you to work on this day-however, from a morale standpoint-they're really not doing a lot to boost it, are they?

It would be one thing if they said they were covering the travel expenses for this day of delightful forced fun (can you tell I hate this type of shit?) and paying overtime/giving time back in lieu-then it would fall into a reasonable request.

But to expect employees to pay out of their own pocket to travel 6 hours to play games and "enjoy" snacks isn't reasonable at all. The issue isn't that it's so close to Christmas. That's a red herring, I think. Ultimately, the 23rd is a normal working day and yes, they can expect you to work it-but is it really reasonable to expect employees to do this with zero reimbursement from the company?

What I'd be doing is totting up how much it's going to cost me to get there and back in fuel and time and then how much I'd be expecting in pay for that day-and then making my decision from there whether I can afford to lose the day's pay or not.

But your employer doesn't sound all that good, if I'm honest.

justasking111 · 05/12/2024 16:40

26YearOldFailure · 05/12/2024 16:03

At my previous job, driving was part of the role. Any driving/work outside of normal hours was given back as TOIL and travel expenses were covered.

Tbh, I get the feeling that the company you work for probably describes themselves as "family". I'd be looking for a new job.

We always had TOIL offered.

BustyLaRoux · 05/12/2024 16:24

holju · 05/12/2024 14:44

Black eye Friday is a term for the last Friday before Christmas, where people tradionally used to go out straight after work, get hammered by 8:30 and have fights in the street.

Ahhhh Ok that makes sense. Well that’s a new one on me 😃

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