One of my close-ish friends has ghosted me for the past year for no reason, other than going off on a bizarre Chamanic career change (literally) and getting back with her ex (who she cheated on). She wrote to me last night out of the blue with a generic, hi how are you, let's meet up soon etc. This is the second time in our 10-year friendship that this has happened and I am certain that I haven't offended her - rather her off on a bizarre life choice trip. Yes she is quite unstable, doesn't have kids and probably has no clue that this isn't a normal way to be.
AIBU to either tell that I don't feel like meeting up after such a long time with no news, or even ignore the messages? I have never got involved in any type of drama, or do this to my other friends - not my style at all and certainly no time for that with two young kids and full time work.
Trying to work out the kindest but fair way to deal with it!