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To think work Xmas parties should start in work hours?

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ByTidyHelper · 04/12/2024 10:12

Just as the title says really. Our work Xmas party doesn't start til 6:30pm this year in London which is a 1hr commute for me each way. I really think work Xmas parties should start in work hours e.g. 3 or 4pm as this would be so much better for those with families who could attend at the start for a couple of hours and then go home.

I'm probably not going to mine this year just due to the fact it starts in the evening and I cannot be bothered to get back home late and have to figure out what we do with my kids bedtime etc (they are in a phase of meltdown mode unless mummy is putting them to bed so would be tough on my husband to have to deal with this solo).

What do you think? AIBU to expect work Xmas parties to start in work hours?

OP posts:
MidnightPatrol · 04/12/2024 10:18

Why don’t you suggest this for next year.

Dearg · 04/12/2024 10:18

Ablondiebutagoody · 04/12/2024 10:16

Hell no. I think that they should start with hard drinking immediately after work and continue into the early hours. It's a party not a family day.

Well that accurately describes many I have attended.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 04/12/2024 10:17

It's an evening out which can choose to attend or not. Personally as I get on well enough with most of my colleagues to spend an evening with them once a year I would go and expect my DH to manage bedtime.

LittleRedRidingHoody · 04/12/2024 10:16

I think lots do.

My company doesn't have a Christmas party in the UK (not many of us based here!) but the last company I worked at was:

After 3pm - no meetings or calls scheduled so people could start getting ready
4pm - pizza/pre drinks and games
6pm - head to the pub

So people could just join the 4-6pm part if they wanted to get home, which was quite nice.

Ablondiebutagoody · 04/12/2024 10:16

Hell no. I think that they should start with hard drinking immediately after work and continue into the early hours. It's a party not a family day.