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To think adolescents should be taught more about childbirth in school?

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magicalmama · 03/12/2024 18:07

The point of sex education is to stop children being left ignorant of something that can affect them so deeply, so shouldn't we be giving adolescents, and especially girls, more information in school about what giving birth, something dangerous, life changing and also incredibly common, could be like?

So many women post about childbirth and wondering what it's like and how it feels, and many are afraid and ignorant. In a similar vein, lots of people post about trying to get pregnant where all we teach kids in school is how not to get pregnant, with little or not concern about what happens when you do want to get pregnant or if you leave it too late and things like that. It seems a bit counterproductive to leave such a big blindspot in education.

AIBU to think pregnancy and childbirth and what it's like, its consequences, something a lot of women worry about, should be taught about in a lot more detail in school along with sex ed?

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MrsSchrute · 03/12/2024 18:28

When I taught year 6 we watched a video of a woman giving birth. V informative!

magicalmama · 03/12/2024 18:27

@HPandthelastwish

I think my concern is not that they don't mention pregnancy and childbirth, but that they don't give the details that women really care about and want to know when it comes to making decisions about their own family planning and childbirth:

first second third and fourth degree tears, incontinence, the effects of forceps and a vacuum, haemorrhoids, prolapse, rates of these things, rates of recovery and the possible corrective surgeries and effects of such surgeries.

Many are simply left in fear and ignorance. How much detail does KS3 science go into on this?

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menopausalmare · 03/12/2024 18:24

Namechangeobviously2024 · 03/12/2024 18:15

Does KS3 science include the word 'episiotomy'?

No. We teach sex, pregnancy and childbirth to year 7. I'm holding back the gore for the 11-12 year olds. You can read up on this yourself or join an NCT /NHS group when you decide to try for a baby.

Namechangeobviously2024 · 03/12/2024 18:15

Does KS3 science include the word 'episiotomy'?

HPandthelastwish · 03/12/2024 18:10

This is literally taught in schools in KS3 science.
The facts have to be taught, and often multiple births and IVF are also taught.

How much is retained and useful when in 10-20 years time they actually want to have a child is debatable.

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