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How to ask whether DD has been invites to the party?

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VhhiIg · 03/12/2024 15:59

A school mum's just sent a message inviting DD to her DDs party. The only thing is I wonder whether she meant to send it to me. Her DD is in the other class, coincidentally DD's name was on the other class list at the start of the year though they aren't actually in the same class. We've never had a playdate in the past. Her child is really lovely and our kids occasionally play together at school but it's not like they are best mates. Any advice on how best to phrase it to check whether she actually meant to send the message to me or not? Please help...

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purpleme12 · 03/12/2024 16:10

VhhiIg · 03/12/2024 16:07

Yeah but for some reason I think they invited her as part of inviting all the girls in the class....from the class list. It wasn't a personal invite just a message to say 'Hi, 'Sara' would like yo invite you to her party'. Classes were mixed up over the summer so people are still unclear about who is where.but fair enough maybe am over thinking it.

I'd still just accept it for what it is!

Jagoda · 03/12/2024 16:07

Can you strike up a conversation with her in playground and get guidance from that?

Is there a child with your DDs name in the other class?

VhhiIg · 03/12/2024 16:07

Yeah but for some reason I think they invited her as part of inviting all the girls in the class....from the class list. It wasn't a personal invite just a message to say 'Hi, 'Sara' would like yo invite you to her party'. Classes were mixed up over the summer so people are still unclear about who is where.but fair enough maybe am over thinking it.

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purpleme12 · 03/12/2024 16:01

Well I wouldn't check really

If someone's invited my child to their party I'd take my child!

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