To wonder is it better to meet parents at home or out for the first time?

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EvieR · 03/12/2024 15:42

The caveat is my boyfriend of a year has met my mum but not my dad yet. So really it's meeting him for the first time.

Either we:

Have dinner out and see the Xmas lights etc in local area. Less focus on conversation/each other maybe
Have food here and watch a favourite Xmas movie. More relaxed?

Would you have any preference?

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NeedToChangeName · 03/12/2024 15:50

I'd suggest pub meal and Christmas lights. Informal and plenty to talk about. Good luck

Bankholidayhelp · 03/12/2024 15:48

I like no 1 - neutral ground.

RavenT · 03/12/2024 15:48

1 personally as it takes the focus off the individuals and, like you say, the conversation. I would choose an informal dining option though. Always think it's easier meeting new people whilst actually doing something iyswim.

Panicatthegarden · 03/12/2024 15:48

I would prefer to meet out for a meal, it can sometimes feel awkward and there's no set end point doing it at someone's house

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EvieR · 03/12/2024 15:44

Also I'm very nervous because my dad is hard to please with my boyfriends!

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