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"Trans people should not be allowed to use women’s showers and changing rooms, proposed NHS guidance says" - Darlington Nurses draft new guidance.

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MrBungle · 03/12/2024 13:47

Is this a reasonable response to the Darlington Nurses issue? (males in female changing spaces)

Wes Streeting requested the Darlington Nurses drafter the guidance.

https://archive.ph/BNTtH (Link to Telegraph article discussing details)

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LlynTegid · 03/12/2024 17:30

Llttledrummergirl · 03/12/2024 14:05

A third space would be the most sensible and reasonable approach.

I argue that is the main but not the sole reason for a third space. Some people should have additional privacy.

oakleaffy · 03/12/2024 17:30

MyrtleStrumpet · 03/12/2024 14:34

They get off on women being uncomfortable because it's subversive. And they get of on "passing" and being treated as a woman, even if the women are just rolling their eyes and letting it go because they don't want to get into a fight.

I too have seen the delusion that TW think that they ''pass''.
They don't, the size of them, the build, women instinctively recognise an XY, probably as a survival mechanism -even an XY in a dress and full wig and fake boobs still gives ''uncanny valley'' dissonance.

Blaire White is probably one of the best ''passing'' but I haven't seen Blaire in person, but at least Blaire White respects women.

Livinginaclock · 03/12/2024 17:29

Keep men out of women's spaces.
I'll never stop saying it.

StandingSideBySide · 03/12/2024 17:28

allthatfalafel · 03/12/2024 17:26

I personally think that young boys using male changing rooms are a major risk often overlooked. But women seem to be fine with it despite saying that men are more likely to be predators (which is true, but being applied selectively).

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Parents with children that need support either literally or for their sons safety because they don’t want them in the mens as it’s mainly used by adult males should use the mixed toilet / accessible facilities.

Circumferences · 03/12/2024 17:28

allthatfalafel · 03/12/2024 17:26

I personally think that young boys using male changing rooms are a major risk often overlooked. But women seem to be fine with it despite saying that men are more likely to be predators (which is true, but being applied selectively).

Edited

Young boys usually use facilities with their parents

Circumferences · 03/12/2024 17:27

Socksandperfume · 03/12/2024 17:25

To you and I perhaps.
But this will be the argument.

It's more "outing" for a TW to use a women only space because everyone looks around thinking why the f is there a bloke in here

allthatfalafel · 03/12/2024 17:26

I personally think that young boys using male changing rooms are a major risk often overlooked. But women seem to be fine with it despite saying that men are more likely to be predators (which is true, but being applied selectively).

DadJoke · 03/12/2024 17:26

Circumferences · 03/12/2024 16:55

Have you actually followed the case?

Yes, clearly. The only voices we haven't heard are those of transgender people, just the usual transphobic media outlets, and Labour taking the easy route of punching down.

Circumferences · 03/12/2024 17:25

Tvp123 · 03/12/2024 17:22

For those people saying changing room by sex, how will women feel when a transman is using their space?

If they've been on testosterone for a decade or whatever so they look like a small man, they can use the mixed or neutral space.
Not the women's. They certainly can't compete in women's sport given the drug induced sporting advantages.

Thankfully the EA2010 already addresses this and states in the exemptions that transmen can be lawfully excluded from women only spaces along with transwomen.

MyrtleStrumpet · 03/12/2024 17:25

Runningupthecurtains · 03/12/2024 17:09

But one man should be allowed to rewrite the definition of the women's changing room/ shower?
Nope, single sex spaces are for the sex they designated for, not for whoever wants to barge in.

Even more, if alternative facilities were available they should have been offered to the small number of trans identifying men to use, not force women out of their own facilities.

Socksandperfume · 03/12/2024 17:25

Circumferences · 03/12/2024 17:22

Trans people will not want to be publicly ‘outed’ by using the mixed toilet / space.

There's nothing "outing" about using a mixed sex space that both sexes are able to use

To you and I perhaps.
But this will be the argument.

StandingSideBySide · 03/12/2024 17:24

ARealitycheck · 03/12/2024 17:15

I'd suspect a lot of these hidden camera's are actually installed by employees of wherever they are. Single or mixed sex spaces wouldn't stop that. If the numbers were easily found, I'd bet the majority are found in single sex places.

😫 now that’s even more to worry about but agree

Dutch1e · 03/12/2024 17:24

KimberleyClark · 03/12/2024 15:11

It’s always seemed to me that the view on here is that people with penises should not use female changing rooms and I fully concur with that. Has the view changed?

I would be interested to know what proportion of the crimes committed by males identifying as women have been committed by fully transitioned transwomen.

Edited

That data would be irrelevant, and wondering about it is somewhere between bait and a strawman.

Edit: sorry, the above sounded like I'm having a go at you. I'm not, I'm having a go at the usual counter-argument.

What would be relevant is the general data on male violence against women. Because that is what happens when you say "sure, blokes can go shower with women as long as all the blokes pinky-swear that they are really truly women."

username299 · 03/12/2024 17:24

Tvp123 · 03/12/2024 17:22

For those people saying changing room by sex, how will women feel when a transman is using their space?

I don't care if a woman is using a female space. They're not generally a danger to women.

Circumferences · 03/12/2024 17:22

Trans people will not want to be publicly ‘outed’ by using the mixed toilet / space.

There's nothing "outing" about using a mixed sex space that both sexes are able to use

Tvp123 · 03/12/2024 17:22

For those people saying changing room by sex, how will women feel when a transman is using their space?

username299 · 03/12/2024 17:21

IfIHadAHeart · 03/12/2024 17:17

Unfortunately that’s exactly what my employer has decided to do. We’ve had male/female locker rooms since forever. They have now decided we need one locker room for everyone, with a couple of “pods” at the far end where all changing must take place. Everyone, male and female, needs to change at the start and end of every shift due to the nature of the job. Everyone has complained but it’s going ahead anyway.

Have you used the Equality Act? Single sex spaces are permitted under the EA.

menopausalmare · 03/12/2024 17:19

We need a National resetting of language starting with the Equality act. Public toilets have a range of random names and symbols as to who can use them and are open to abuse. I'd like to see MALES, FEMALES and UNISEX. Anyone using the wrong facility should have the police called on them.

Socksandperfume · 03/12/2024 17:18

It won’t happen . We will all eventually have shared facilities, because this is the only way to please all parties.
Trans people will not want to be publicly ‘outed’ by using the mixed toilet / space.
In some countries lots of facilities are mixed anyway , where adults of both sexes and children too get changed all together, eg for swimming. I imagine this will be the future here.

IfIHadAHeart · 03/12/2024 17:17

GrumpyPanda · 03/12/2024 16:56

Now that sounds like the ultimate claustrophobic, dystopian nightmare. Most women actually enjoy the camaraderie in single-sex spaces, which also happen to be more space-efficient and far less cramped. I don't see why you'd force everybody into fucking cubicles, including shlepping around things cubicle to locker, all for the sake of a tiny minority?

Unfortunately that’s exactly what my employer has decided to do. We’ve had male/female locker rooms since forever. They have now decided we need one locker room for everyone, with a couple of “pods” at the far end where all changing must take place. Everyone, male and female, needs to change at the start and end of every shift due to the nature of the job. Everyone has complained but it’s going ahead anyway.

OrwellianTimes · 03/12/2024 17:17

NordicwithTeen · 03/12/2024 14:30

Everything will have to be able to have a 3rd option - sports, loos, showers, changing rooms. How much do we want to bet the space is taken from female areas of the above?

or the disabled

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 03/12/2024 17:16

Men should not be using women's facilities under any circumstances. Two men I know who have had all the surgeries will not use women's loos because they know it will cause distress to the women there.

One man who intrudes into women's spaces is enough to create anxiety and discomfort in the women there regardless of his gender identity. They hardly ever pass however they want to con themselves.

Catza · 03/12/2024 17:16

Thepurplepig · 03/12/2024 16:53

When are we going to call it what it is. Men, women, mentally ill. Somebody tried to tell me that sex is a fluid concept last week. Just fuck off!

It may surprise you but "mentally ill" people also have rights. Or should we ban people with depression from using "healthy people's" toilets?

ARealitycheck · 03/12/2024 17:15

StandingSideBySide · 03/12/2024 17:12

Plus if they have access to spaces used by women they can put cameras in. We ve already seen cases of cameras being found in mixed facilities.
Cameras that have been found to have been there for long periods of time. Many of us could have personal images of ourselves on some dark perverts web
We’re looking to get a device ( app ) that checks for surveillance devices.
How stressful to even have to think about this.

I'd suspect a lot of these hidden camera's are actually installed by employees of wherever they are. Single or mixed sex spaces wouldn't stop that. If the numbers were easily found, I'd bet the majority are found in single sex places.

StandingSideBySide · 03/12/2024 17:12

username299 · 03/12/2024 17:08

Single cubicles aren't the answer for me. I don't want men in women's spaces. Women have been dragged into cubicles and raped. Men have been caught masturbating in women's changing rooms. No thanks.

Plus if they have access to spaces used by women they can put cameras in. We ve already seen cases of cameras being found in mixed facilities.
Cameras that have been found to have been there for long periods of time. Many of us could have personal images of ourselves on some dark perverts web
We’re looking to get a device ( app ) that checks for surveillance devices.
How stressful to even have to think about this.