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To keep my toddler off with chickenpox going round nursery- 38 weeks pregnant

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trees146 · 03/12/2024 11:10

I'm 38 weeks pregnant. Due to be induced in 12 days. Been informed that chicken pox is going round my toddlers nursery who's never had it before. 5 children in his class. I just don't know what to do for the best. People are looking at me like I have 2 heads at the mere mention of keeping him off. I get he might have already been exposed to it and get it regardless. But when you google chicken pox newborn baby the most awful stuff comes up. Basically if baby catches it as a newborn it sounds horrifically dangerous. I'm so upset and don't know what to do for the best. Filled with guilt as toddler will also be so upset he'll miss his Christmas nativity, pantomime and party etc...

God I genuinely feel like I can't cope anymore I am worried sick. My midwife is rubbish and won't even get back to me, she never does. What would you do in my situation?

OP posts:
Ifitistobesaid · 03/12/2024 11:13

Thing is it can take a long time for the symptoms to appear if they’ve caught it. It can take up to three weeks from exposure for the spots to appear so that’s a long time to keep them home. Can you get them vaccinated? Might not be too late for that?

ParkAndRider · 03/12/2024 11:12

Keep him off and get him vaccinated at boots.

romdowa · 03/12/2024 11:12

In your case I'd keep him off. Not worth the risk of him being in the height of it with your new born baby.

EvilMama · 03/12/2024 11:11

I'd keep him off.