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Hazelnutmist · 02/12/2024 22:10

Can anyone advise me. I literally panicked and left the country because I was told I would be sent to prison and have my kids taken away from me. Now after a few months I've managed to calm down, maybe i overreacted (a lot?) and did not need to.
I was told by fraud investigation officers that I had £25,000.00 in undeclared stocks. This account was set up years before I claimed benefits. I didn't even know this money existed so I was shocked. Putting 2 and 2 together, I realised it was almost definitely my parent who opened this account for me but our relationship broke down and we haven't been on speaking terms for many years. I was honest and told the officers I didn't know this account existed and the money that was put in it did not come from my account (which is easily proven). I was told that I would most likely go to prison and I completely freaked out! I'm a single parent with small children and the thought of being taken away from my kids terrifies me. I am all they have and they are all i have left in this world. So I moved abroad soon after my interview (I was already planning this for a long time as I've been struggling with the cost of living and mental health being alone in uk).
I've been considering coming back to uk, now that i've managed to calm down, and hoping it will be OK. I have been truthful and been cooperating with dwp till now even while abroad. Does anyone with experience here think that I could be prosecuted? Thank you for reading and please be kind, I don't have any adult family members to go to for advise.

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colesr · 02/12/2024 22:22

creamsnugjumper · 02/12/2024 22:19

So you have this money in your name? I mean I'd say lawyer but I can't even understand the issue?

No need to reply I'll look it up, but how is it fraud?

Claiming benefits and not declaring £25k?

creamsnugjumper · 02/12/2024 22:19

So you have this money in your name? I mean I'd say lawyer but I can't even understand the issue?

No need to reply I'll look it up, but how is it fraud?

MrsToothyBitch · 02/12/2024 22:15

You absolutely need to talk to a lawyer.

GridlockonMain · 02/12/2024 22:12

You need legal advice, not advice from mumsnet. Find yourself a reputable criminal solicitor who has experience dealing with fraud cases and get their advice on the specifics of your situation. It would be well worth the money for you to us he certainty over this.

Guest100 · 02/12/2024 22:12

You really need to speak to a lawyer.

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