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Should everyone be forced to show they aren’t able to rescue a dog before they can buy a puppy?

332 replies

Coffeealwayshot · 01/12/2024 19:54

Just that really

I see my local shelter is full again and saying they will need to euthanise if they can’t find homes.

Everyone I know (bar 2 or 3) who has a dog has bought from a breeder.

Im not rude enough to ask people if they considered a rescue. I know some say they were turned down but some that they just wanted a puppy or a specific breed.

So my question is as above?
I get we can’t say no breeding at all but should taking on a rescue be the only option for those who are suitable and reduce the breeding to just cater for those who can’t have a rescue dog?

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1apenny2apenny · 02/12/2024 08:40

No. I understand why the rescue places have strict parameters however imo they are ridiculous and it's nigh on impossible to rehome a dog from one. Staff always seem to be determined to find a reason to not let you rather than work through stuff to make it happen.

Most rescues come with some baggage, some people want a puppy they can train from scratch etc, it's understandable. They also want to know background.

DanielaDressen · 02/12/2024 08:40

andydidnt · 02/12/2024 08:07

Are you suggesting a lurcher is a dangerous breed?

My cats would think so.

DanielaDressen · 02/12/2024 08:39

I've had 2 rescues in the past. My 2nd and last one was a nightmare.

First one was from the RGT and 2nd was an older rescue dog from the breeder which was probably a mistake as no support with the immediate problems (dog bit dh within 5 mins of being home). Breeder ignored all emails and calls. Dog carried on attacking and biting and probably bit about 6 different people (and bit dh over 100x) in the next 2 years.

Would I have a rescue/older dog again? No. I'd have a puppy from a rescue but not a dog.

Aberentian · 02/12/2024 08:38

@wexone social services have been stripped to the extent that as a society we don't even take that good care of children. It's not going to happen for dogs.

leia24 · 02/12/2024 08:29

I wouldn't have a dog that's history I didn't know because I wouldn't want it to bite me/my child/anyone else

KnickerlessParsons · 02/12/2024 08:26

Dogs aside, perhaps everyone should have to buy "pre-loved" for everything they buy, rather than buying new:washing machines, TVs, cars, clothes, house decor, mobile phones...... you name it. It would save the planet, although it would trash world economy.

Iheartmysmart · 02/12/2024 08:26

I looked at rescuing when I lost my old spaniel last year. I work from home, have several huge parks within a five minute drive and a forest/lake within a 10 minute walk. My ex husband and mum are on hand to cover any time I want to go out for more than a few hours. Experienced dog owner with no other pets or children at home.

But I was turned down for every dog I applied for. Why - because I live in a flat with no garden. Was never an issue with my old boy, we just went out several times a day for a walk. He had far more walks than most dogs who get a quick whizz round the block twice a day then are let out in the garden for a wee the rest of the day.

One rescue turned me down for a lovely little mongrel but offered me a huge crossbreed instead. When I pointed out that there was no way I had the space or experience for a dog of that size, they simply shrugged and said it was that or nothing. Needless to say I still don’t have a dog.

Barney16 · 02/12/2024 08:25

I want a dog and will probably get a puppy so I know it's complete history. I read the entries for rescue dogs and most of them are unsuitable for an average family home ( and I have had a dog previously). It's very sad that many dogs are unwanted but if you take a dog on you really don't know how it has been treated in the past and how it will react in particular situations. That's quite risky.

Abi86 · 02/12/2024 08:20

I agree with your proposition OP. The large majority of objections on here are just poorly veiled excuses. Of course there’ll be exceptions.

Aberentian · 02/12/2024 08:17

@sashh do you really think it plausible that that would be effectively administrated and enforced in this country? Seems desperately naive to me.

Nolegusta · 02/12/2024 08:17

Moonlightstars · 02/12/2024 08:12

I mean thats not even equal. It's not like you are genetically connected to a bred dog or were pregnant with them.

It's about trying to exert control over a person so they take responsibility gor someone else's (sometimes poor) choices. It us a step but the link is there.

twistandshoutloud · 02/12/2024 08:15

BIossomtoes · 01/12/2024 19:58

You obviously haven’t seen how picky rescue charities are about who’s permitted to adopt a dog.

Exactly! We were on a waiting list for a year, we had no kids either at the time so should’ve been easier to get a rescue.

At the end they didn’t let us rescue any dog because we both worked full time.

After a year we went to a breeder.

Aberentian · 02/12/2024 08:15

@Killingoffmyflowersonebyone

And that’s what responsible pet ownership is - making your dog happy. Not ‘fine.’ Not ‘managing’ but happy.

Sigh. Most humans do not have this. Sometimes fine is fine.

Coffeealwayshot · 02/12/2024 08:13

sashh · 02/12/2024 05:36

I think we should bring back dog licences but they should be more expensive and priced according to the breed and whether they are 'done'.

A rescue dog could be given a lower category or a discount.

Working dogs could also get a different category.

So a rescue lab that is neutered might have a licence charge of £50 a year. A lab that is a trained guide dog might be £0 a year and a show lab puppy that is going to used to breed would be £200 a year.

Numbers picked at almost random.

This sounds good

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Moonlightstars · 02/12/2024 08:12

sequin2000 · 01/12/2024 20:02

Should anyone trying for a baby also be asked to explain why they won't adopt?

I mean thats not even equal. It's not like you are genetically connected to a bred dog or were pregnant with them.

Nolegusta · 02/12/2024 08:09

andydidnt · 02/12/2024 08:07

Are you suggesting a lurcher is a dangerous breed?

Any breed can be dangerous, especially if it's had a hard life.

Nolegusta · 02/12/2024 08:08

andydidnt · 02/12/2024 07:59

I agree I had my beautiful boy put to sleep a month ago. It was a peaceful, calm death.

Sorry for your loss. 💐

andydidnt · 02/12/2024 08:07

Stretchedresources · 02/12/2024 07:37

Looking at the available dogs at Battersea, there are a lot who are potentially unsuitable / risky. Who is going to re-home an American bulldog / cane corso / lurcher of unknown origin.

Are you suggesting a lurcher is a dangerous breed?

Aberentian · 02/12/2024 08:02

(My dog is a rescue btw. I still think this post is stupid.)

AloneLike · 02/12/2024 08:02

Rescue dogs that can live with cats are rare - rarer than those that can live with children. A puppy of a suitable breed (one without a strong prey drive/chase instinct) can easily be trained to live with cats - the cats will help by putting it firmly in its place while it's young enough to accept this,

SunQueen24 · 02/12/2024 08:02

andydidnt · 02/12/2024 07:59

I agree I had my beautiful boy put to sleep a month ago. It was a peaceful, calm death.

Agree. Dogs spending years of a relatively short life in an outdoor kennel with just minutes each day of exercise and interaction is no life.

Aberentian · 02/12/2024 08:01

Yes this is definitely what the state should be spending money on.
FFS.

PointsSouth · 02/12/2024 08:00

I don’t think it’s a good idea to compel people to take a dog that they don’t really want, however laudable your motives for doing so.

You may say, ‘Well, if they can’t find a dog they love at a rescue, then they should consider whether they really want a dog at all.’

And you may be right. But most won’t consider that until they’ve had the dog awhile. And when they return it to the rescue, they’ll say, with some justification, ‘You made us take him. This was never the dog we wanted.’

And then they’ll go and get one from a breeder.

Of course, some will love the rescue dog, so the overall number of breeder sales might drop. But the number of rescue re-admissions would rise.

Also, how will you enforce it? When people go to a breeder, will they have present letters from all rescues within fifty miles of where they live? If they don’t, who’s breaking the law - the breeder? The buyer?

I think your concern is reasonable, but your proposition is unreasonable.

andydidnt · 02/12/2024 07:59

Nolegusta · 01/12/2024 20:07

Also, and this is probably unpopular, but euthanasia isn't a cruel process in terms of how it's carried out, and might actually be a kinder option for some dogs, instead a potential unhapoy lifetime in kennels. Some dogs are just not re-homeable.

I agree I had my beautiful boy put to sleep a month ago. It was a peaceful, calm death.

wastingtimeonhere · 02/12/2024 07:55

Yep, the type of people blindly getting a puppy from breeders is probably greater. The huge numbers in shelters predominantly come from owners getting dogs they can't look after. A much smaller number are from people who pass away etc.