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To spend £30 a month on ALL food and drink?

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Jumell · 01/12/2024 12:38

I’m single and live alone. I want to set myself a good budget and admit I’ve overspent /been wasteful in the past.

As a single adult female living alone - is £30 per month on food doable do you think ? Includes eating out etc

OP posts:
ChaosHol1 · 01/12/2024 14:27

So your post is utterly pointless because you spend over 30 pounds in less than a month and you spent it on complete and utter junk. Anyone with half a brain would buy porridge oats, eggs, veg and lentils to make a big pot of soup to last around 5 days and get some veg in you, some fruit, milk and bread.

WoolySnail · 01/12/2024 14:26

Of course you can....50 years ago 😂

SleepingStandingUp · 01/12/2024 14:26

Jumell · 01/12/2024 12:43

No - no fully stocked cupboard - just teabags /small jar of instant coffee.

Eating out for me is Greggs 🤣 maybe this gets it into perspective!

So one day you'd plan only to eat a Greggs pizza slice? Because that's essentially more than a days budget?

I think you need to look at your diet bad attitude to food, rather than money if this is typical

BMW6 · 01/12/2024 14:25

Oh and you haven't bought any loo roll, toiletries or household cleaning products.

So you'll be filthy, stinky, rotting teeth, greasy hair, shitty arse and zero clean clothes.......

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 01/12/2024 14:24

Jumell · 01/12/2024 12:41

No. Not week. Month

Absolutely not. And even if you would somehow manage to meet your calorie requirements, you absolutely won’t manage to eat enough protein and fruits / vegetables. Which means that you won’t manage to consume the required amount of essential mineral and vitamins.

or in other words: you’ll make yourself sick. Don’t do this.

INeedAnotherName · 01/12/2024 14:23

Placemarking so I can see the meals for the 19 days already done (and for the other helpful links).

*goes off to read the rest of the thread

SummerSnowstorm · 01/12/2024 14:22

You could maybe manage to survive for a couple of weeks on that, but it wouldn't be at all healthy.
Weekly shop of -
Bread 75p for toast each breakfast, butter 25p per week, banana £1
Lunch pasta and pesto £2.50, apple £1
Dinner seperate and freeze bolognese for 2 or 3 meals £2.50. Tuna jacket potato £2.50
That would be about £9 a week. But it's not a very balanced diet and you'd likely need a new top ups like nuts/cheese/crisps/biscuits to help with calories and hunger.

WiddlinDiddlin · 01/12/2024 14:22

So what has this proven?

You are bloody minded enough to make yourself pretty hungry and miserable for 3 weeks (because it hasn't actually been a month yet!) by spending £35 on snacks and crap...

slow clap

I have had to live on horribly tiny amounts of money.

Between two households (so five adults, 3 in mine, two next door, my best friends at the time)...

We'd buy:

Sack of rice (12kg? ish)
Sack of spuds
Sack of porridge oats
Sack of flour of some sort (often gram)
Cheap bread on discount/whoopsies, to freeze and use slice by slice (so it didn't matter if it was on the verge of going off/stale), two or three loaves
Big tub of cheap spread (then we'd split it into two smaller tubs one per household)
Block of cheese (strong, a luxury, but it meant you could use a lot less)
Box of (nasty caged hen) eggs (15)
End of the day veg off the market - whatever there was, would usually get a couple of carrier bags for £2, stuff that would otherwise have gone in the bin.
Milk
Bag of 30 frozen sausages
Whatever other meat - sometimes a chicken, sometimes next door would get a couple of rabbits for free.
Bacon offcuts
Dry beans/pulses/lentils

We already had a stash of spices.

That would cost us around £30, and last us two or three weeks.

From that we could make big vats of chilli, stew (We called it 'slopdop' a sort of curry/stew thing), and soup, which would be served with rice, baked spud, mash or chips.
Whatever meat would be stripped off the carcass and the frame used for the soup or stock.
We'd use the bread for cheese on toast for lunches, and when that ran out, make chapattis or some sort of flatbread.
Porridge with watered down milk or just water for breakfasts, occasionally overnight oats if there was any interesting/suitable fruit in the market 'end of the day' bags.
Sometimes we would be given free stuff by one persons work place and also occasionally by the corner shop owner - things like bags of sugar that had split or just past use by date jars/packets so we might make cakes if that happened.

It wasn't a lot of fun, but none of us starved. There was zero snacking though!

SamPoodle123 · 01/12/2024 14:22

Perhaps you could last two weeks on that? Buy a big bag of brown rice and beans, potatoes, bananas and apples.....those are cheap and healthy.

BMW6 · 01/12/2024 14:22

This is one of the most bizarre threads I've ever read in the 15 years I've been on MN!

Who, even with little or no experience in budgeting or food shopping, spends most of their money on biscuits, snacks and pre boiled eggs (I didn't even know such fuckwittery existed)

And does this for larks.......

Honestly. What. The. FUCK !!!!!!!!!!!

Rewis · 01/12/2024 14:20

Doable? Maybe. Depends how much you enjoy being hungry and miserable 😄

BenditlikeBridget · 01/12/2024 14:20

tothelefttotheleft · 01/12/2024 14:12

They have a lot more cheese on than a supermarket pizza.

Yes, cos the OP needed more cheese…

ObtuseMoose · 01/12/2024 14:19

Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:16

I now appreciate things far more than before

the only ‘meals’ I suppose are 2 tuna pastas from Sainsbury’s

no it’s not healthy to go without fruit or veg but it’s a learning curve for next month

What do you appreciate far more? Just admit this was an exercise in stupidity and go back to eating properly.

Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:18

winter8090 · 01/12/2024 14:17

This would be very tight. When I lived alone 25 years ago my budget was £50 a month. I ate at relatives twice a week and was out all weekend.

£30 a week would be tough. Why don't you look at what you've spent over the last 3 months and base it around that.

What do you like to eat?

I like anything and everything to eat admittedly!!

but I know I have to reign it in …
I like everything literally - apart from cauliflower cheese but love those 2 items separately!

OP posts:
winter8090 · 01/12/2024 14:17

This would be very tight. When I lived alone 25 years ago my budget was £50 a month. I ate at relatives twice a week and was out all weekend.

£30 a week would be tough. Why don't you look at what you've spent over the last 3 months and base it around that.

What do you like to eat?

CaptainRedbeardandbigbadbarry · 01/12/2024 14:17

That’s ridiculous

Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:16

Gazelda · 01/12/2024 14:11

OP, do you think this was a worthwhile exercise? Do you think you've proved anything? Do you think you've risked your health? Do you think that not eating a single veg or fruit portion for 19 days is wise? How many actual meals have you had in 19 days? 2? Out of the recommended 57?

Do you not see how this is insulting to people who are genuinely food-poor?

Are your finances tight at the moment? Would you like some budgeting tips which don't involve stupid experiments?

I now appreciate things far more than before

the only ‘meals’ I suppose are 2 tuna pastas from Sainsbury’s

no it’s not healthy to go without fruit or veg but it’s a learning curve for next month

OP posts:
MissPrickly · 01/12/2024 14:16

Jumell · 01/12/2024 12:38

I’m single and live alone. I want to set myself a good budget and admit I’ve overspent /been wasteful in the past.

As a single adult female living alone - is £30 per month on food doable do you think ? Includes eating out etc

Possible yes. Bulk buy rice or pasta. Yellow sticker food every day.

Differentstarts · 01/12/2024 14:15

HotSlippergirl · 01/12/2024 14:10

I don't think its possible without starving oneself.

I think its possible with pasta, potato's, loaf of bread, tinned soup. But it wouldn't be healthy or sustainable

ARichtGoodDram · 01/12/2024 14:14

There is a page on Facebook called Feed your Family for about £20 a week. They have an emergency monthly food plan/budget that includes shopping lists that comes in at about £30 for the month.

Not recommended long term as it's more focussed on filling tummies than really good nutrition, but it might be worth a look for you if you need that budget

AtmosAtmos · 01/12/2024 14:14

Poor taste and pointless if you have done this. Certainly not setting up longer term lower cost healthy eating. That would have set you up with sustainable weight loss and maintenance

I won’t pretend to know what that feels like to live in food or fuel poverty. PP have - please take notice.,

BunnyLake · 01/12/2024 14:13

Food budget and eating out for a month? Well only if you’re currently living in the 1950s.

MyLoftySwan · 01/12/2024 14:12

Jumell · 01/12/2024 14:08

I always wondered how 30p Lee was so called ! I honestly didn’t know !

Oh it was certainly a politer version than what some opposition (and some of his own colleagues) MP's called him....

Tisthesaizon · 01/12/2024 14:12

Jumell · 01/12/2024 13:54

Ideally yes I’m overweight

How overweight are you?

If you’re overweight and wanting to reduce weight - this is not the way to do it. It will likely lead to binge eating and establish a pattern of unhealthy and disordered eating.

I live alone and spend about £50-£60 on everything from Sainsburys but that includes cleaning stuff/toiletries etc so a bit less than that on food alone.

It actually used to be more but I cut out most snacks like crisps,biscuits and cakes etc which also helped with my weight loss as well as making me healthier.

tothelefttotheleft · 01/12/2024 14:12

NewDaye · 01/12/2024 13:30

those greggs pizza slices are terrible too, they literally taste the same as any supermarket oven pizza

They have a lot more cheese on than a supermarket pizza.