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Do you actually enjoy those Christmas songs from the 70s-90s?

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OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 27/11/2024 20:12

The only Christmas music I can listen to is classical/choral.

I find those 80s/90s childhood Christmas songs so painful. And it's because I had lovely Christmasses as a kid!

It was a time back when anything was possible for my future life. But here I am, late thirties, single, childless (or childfree? I don't know...), with no romantic relationship history at all, friends all married off playing their happy families all year.

Make sense?? They get increasingly difficult to listen to each year. 2016 was when I first got a knot hearing one in Tesco and panicked thinking "oh shit what if this is the status quo forever"

It's the end of another year I guess...always tricky. They're all over the bloody airwaves though

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lljkk · 28/11/2024 11:09

Gosh, when & where I was a kid (1970s) all we could hear on radio on Xmas day were the ancient choir type songs, carols. We went caroling many years so I like those carol songs, but they got very tired.

I LOVE modern Christmas songs for rescuing us from all those hyper traditional sometimes dirge like no variation too twee frozen in time tunes.

twentysevendresses · 28/11/2024 11:06

Love them! I know Christmas has arrived when I hear Slade on the radio 😂

"Are you hanging up your stocking on the wall?" 🎶 🎄

User135644 · 28/11/2024 11:04

DuesToTheDirt · 27/11/2024 23:06

I am just so so bored of them all. They have no good/bad associations for me, but after 50+ years of some of these songs, I just want them to stop.

The 70s and 80s ones would have felt fresh at the time. The only real 90s one is the Mariah Carey and that was 30 years ago.

Anything since then just feels flat. But then look at the state of the Christmas number 1 every year. It's no wonder people stick with the nostalgia given the state of popular music.

LazyArsedMagician · 28/11/2024 10:39

Yes I absolutely love them and genuinely listen to them on repeat round Christmas time.

You'll see me scowling at anything Christmas pre-December but after that it's a free for all, I love it.

user1498572889 · 28/11/2024 10:12

@LadyAmroth
Me too

RampantIvy · 28/11/2024 10:10

DrZaraCarmichael · 28/11/2024 09:24

No they are AWFUL. I am in my 50s and that awful, screechy "it's christmas" song has been played every december for my entire life.

Radio utterly un-listenable at this time of year, and it's starting earlier and earlier. Mariah Carey can fuck right off, as can the rest of the shite. Podcasts all the way.

I agree. I think us older mumsnetters have got sick and tired of hearing the same songs every December for over 50 years (in my case)

TheYearOfSmallThings · 28/11/2024 09:59

I quite like most of them - even the ones that make me maudlin, I don't mind. They trigger fond memories and I don't want to forget those things and feelings.

But there is one song that tormented me the year I worked in a shop over Christmas as a teen. If "Christmas Island" comes in the tannoy when I'm shopping, I get out ASAP. I spent days in those cold dusty dingy bright backroom passages ripping the plastic and packaging off stock while listening to that song on a loop. No fond memories 😤. Fuck you Guy Lombardo and your Royal Canadians, and The Andrews Sisters can fuck off too.

Jojoanna · 28/11/2024 09:44

I love them - not keen on the pogues one.

Funkyslippers · 28/11/2024 09:44

I hate all Christmas music until at least halfway through December. And even then it's only a selection few. I love Pipes of Peace, Winter's Tale, When a Child is Born & for some reason A Spaceman Came Travelling! Oh and the one by The Darkness

Funkyslippers · 28/11/2024 09:40

lavendarwillow · 27/11/2024 23:01

A Winters Tale by David Essex gets me every year. It's a lovely video.

This is one of the few I love. But only in December! It was one of my dad's favourite songs & we played it at his funeral

Norugratsatall · 28/11/2024 09:39

That's the thing about nostalgia, it's bittersweet. I do love that hit of nostalgia when I hear them but always with an underlying sense of deep sadness at the people I've lost.

But then Carols have the same effect on me. In The Deep Midwinter was my mum's favourite Carol, it's inevitably the first one of the season I hear and it cuts me like a knife! We lost her 9 years ago, it just never seems to get easier.

Funkyslippers · 28/11/2024 09:38

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 27/11/2024 20:52

"So this is Christmas....

....and what have you done??"

I'm sorry but John and Yoko can duck off on this one....

And the next line which makes no sense 'another year over, and a new one just begun'

PawPrintsInMyPansies · 28/11/2024 09:29

I don’t like the John and Yoko one and Silver Bells by Bing Crosby makes me cry as it reminds me of my dad.
other than that, I LOVE Christmas songs and listen to the constantly as soon as the calendar reaches 1/12!

DrZaraCarmichael · 28/11/2024 09:24

No they are AWFUL. I am in my 50s and that awful, screechy "it's christmas" song has been played every december for my entire life.

Radio utterly un-listenable at this time of year, and it's starting earlier and earlier. Mariah Carey can fuck right off, as can the rest of the shite. Podcasts all the way.

Pekkala · 28/11/2024 09:24

For pure nostalgia, can I add the theme tune to 'The Box of Delights'? I think music is like smell - can whizz you straight back to a time and place. As does the smell of the cold boxes of Christmas decorations brought down from the loft, and the gunpowder smell from a cracker snap

SingingSands · 28/11/2024 09:20

There's loads of alternative Christmas/winter playlists on Spotify now. There was a great thread last year where people were suggesting their favourite alternatives to the 70s/80s usuals.

I've just looked up 'December Will Be Magic Again' on Spotify and found a lovely playlist. Aaaaand now I'm going down a rabbit hole - see you on the other side!

Manchesterbythesea · 28/11/2024 09:18

MaroonyBalloony · 27/11/2024 20:33

Sorry to double post, but I was recently googling this very thing as I suddenly couldn't bring myself to watch a 90s Christmas film that some years makes me feel festive, and it's called Nostalgic Depression - lots of people get it from various triggers

Wow I didn’t know that was a thing. I definitely have nostalgic depression.

WillimNot · 28/11/2024 09:16

I absolutely love them.
Yes they're cheese but I find they're as much a part of Christmas as turkey and stuffing and gifts.

MorrisZapp · 28/11/2024 09:14

I Believe in Father Christmas was written by the late Pete Sinfield, his obituary is in today's Times.

He also wrote Land of Make Believe for Bucks Fizz and Think Twice for Celine Dion.

48wheaties · 28/11/2024 08:35

I hate them all. It's the time of year for me to avoid all pop stations like the plague and listen to absolutely anything else...and wear headphones in the supermarket!

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 28/11/2024 08:16

I don't like a lot of them but would happily listen to the Pogues, Last Christmas and Band Aid on a loop.

I know that Band Aid hasn't aged well but it was absolutely ground breaking at the time. It spearheaded a massive change in attitudes to charity and provided a lifeline for millions of desperate people. I think that outweighs some rubbish lyrics.

CandleStub · 28/11/2024 07:20

I don’t mind the occasional Fairytale of New York but other than that, I’m with you, OP. Hogwood Messiah ftw.

(Actually Ella Fitzgerald did some lovely Christmas albums. So I’m not all classical but maybe 95%)

PermanentTemporary · 28/11/2024 07:16

@spuddy4 awful. There needs to be a class action alleging a hostile work environment by retail workers imo. Is there any proof that they make people spend?? I usually turn round and walk out if the music is too much in a shop now.

spuddy4 · 28/11/2024 07:14

I work in retail so after a few days I've had enough. If you are unlucky enough to be in retail at Christmas you'll know how little Christmas songs there actually are, it's just an endless loop of the same ones all day.

PermanentTemporary · 28/11/2024 07:14

I don't mind them in general but I get what you mean OP. My current partner likes the Jona Lewie one, and so did my first husband who I last saw over 20 years ago, and it makes me feel simultaneously 100 years old and as if my sex life has telescoped into a few months.