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Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim

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Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 06:36

Conor has posted a few times, then deleted, check tatt.le.life thread for the screenshots...but this from Dee is crazy...he went out cheating on you at 8 months pregnant, he's had at least 5 sexual assault claims, he is linked to Irish gangster, he publicly cheated on you several times and poor Nikita was badly bruised and had to have a tampon removed via forceps....will Dee be warning her daughter of men like her father?

Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
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Glamis · 27/11/2024 09:21

That poor woman.

Honeycrisp · 27/11/2024 09:16

If Conor has coerced her, he's stupid. Would be in his best interests for all this to stop trending. Dee's messages won't convince anyone who didn't already believe him, and it gets people discussing whether he's abusing his wife or not. Silence would serve him better.

tuvamoodyson · 27/11/2024 09:08

She’s maybe been coerced into making that statement, either way, I’d hate to be in her shoes.

Happiestwhen · 27/11/2024 08:22

So she's trying to say that she knew about (his version of events) at the time? I don't believe that for a minute. He's the type to deny it to the ground until evidence smacks him in the face and he finally starts making up his little lies. As if he hadn't booked a hotel with the sole purpose of having an orgy. If he wasn't guilty why the need to intimidate the witnesses, absolute scum of a man. And she's welcome to him, let's hope they leave Ireland for good. I bet baby number 5 will be announced shortly too, they definitely want another girl to complete their perfect family.

Stretchedresources · 27/11/2024 08:22

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 08:17

It's never impossible. She's choosing to stay. I was in an abusive relationship so I'm not speaking from no experience and I didn't have half the money she's got.

He's already sent his cronies after Nikita / her partner. Do tell how you think Dee and the children can get away from him, for ever?

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 08:19

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 08:17

It's never impossible. She's choosing to stay. I was in an abusive relationship so I'm not speaking from no experience and I didn't have half the money she's got.

She could leave yes, and when he finds her? I'm sure there will be worse retribution for her 'stealing' his children than his victim got.

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 08:17

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 07:52

It's not because she's a woman, it's because he's horrific and if she wants to leave him it will seem impossible to her to do so being in the relationship, it seems impossible to me and I'm on the outside. I'd feel the same way if his partner was a man.

It's never impossible. She's choosing to stay. I was in an abusive relationship so I'm not speaking from no experience and I didn't have half the money she's got.

Honeycrisp · 27/11/2024 08:11

I should imagine any endorsements she might have had in her own right are shortly about to evaporate.

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 07:52

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 07:38

I don't feel sorry for her at all. We don't have to just because she's a woman. She's a horrible piece of work and Conor is scum.

It's not because she's a woman, it's because he's horrific and if she wants to leave him it will seem impossible to her to do so being in the relationship, it seems impossible to me and I'm on the outside. I'd feel the same way if his partner was a man.

Stretchedresources · 27/11/2024 07:42

I hope she has someone good in her life who can help, and hide her, when she needs it.

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 07:38

I don't feel sorry for her at all. We don't have to just because she's a woman. She's a horrible piece of work and Conor is scum.

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 07:25

Right so if you believe there's a strong possibility she's in an abusive relationship, why are you stirring by drawing attention to posts she may have been coerced into making?

Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 07:23

I think there's a real possibility that he abuses her too

Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
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CultureAlienationBoredomandDespair · 27/11/2024 07:22

I think it’s very damaging to blame men for all of the bad things that women do. CM is evil but it we have no evidence that Dee stays out of fear, she may love him and enjoy the status that being his partner brings. Her viewpoint about Nikita is hardly likely to be unique. In fact it’s possibly true that she’s a bad mum and behaved badly that weekend. Ultimately though it’s doesn’t matter, noting she did meant that she deserved to be raped.

I’ll be warning my DSs that they should always be receiving enthusiastic consent from any partners and to treat women with respect. If I had DDs I’d be teaching them not to be flattered by fame and to avoid men like CM.

Raffaelli · 27/11/2024 07:18

It's a horrible thing to write. Just awful. I do wonder what she's been subjected to also by Conor, though.

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 07:17

I don't think it's fair to put so much attention on his partner. We have no idea what goes on behind closed doors, and he would be a terrifying man to anger.

What we do know is that Conor McGregor is a rapist scumbag, and Nikita is incredibly brave. Let's just focus on those two rather than placing blame at a woman's door.

Pottedpalm · 27/11/2024 07:17

ignore it all.

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 07:10

I'm not condoning what she's said here but it's likely she's trying to convince herself more than anyone else because she can't leave.

Any woman who has been in an abusive relationship knows how difficult it is to leave. Now throw in his money and influence, his size, his violence, his personality, his attitude, his fans and followers and hangers on, the violent and shocking intimidation of his victim and her boyfriend and I think family and friends.

Where would she go? She would be recognised anywhere and even if he did nothing he has fans and supporters who still believe him, would they think we'll of a woman who 'stole' his children and left him? How would they express that?

PrincessHoneysuckle · 27/11/2024 07:06

He's just like Diddy

Snorlaxo · 27/11/2024 07:06

Considering the intimidation that the custom and her boyfriend endured, she can’t leave him for safety reasons. It doesn’t excuse the posts but it’s understandable why she has to kid herself that her h is the victim.

Motnight · 27/11/2024 07:05

I have the most awful feeling that something else really awful is going to happen in plain sight. I hope that I am wrong

romdowa · 27/11/2024 07:04

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 07:02

Nikita has already said that people intimidated her on conors behalf to shut her up.

For those that aren't aware, in this case "intimidated" means "set fire to her house and stabbed her partner".

Yes thank you I couldn't remember the specific incidents.

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 07:02

Nikita has already said that people intimidated her on conors behalf to shut her up.

For those that aren't aware, in this case "intimidated" means "set fire to her house and stabbed her partner".

Tiredandteasytoday · 27/11/2024 07:02

She sounds deluded

ChocolateTelephone · 27/11/2024 07:02

I hope one day she is able to escape him and attain safety herself. Her comments here are unacceptable, but I still hope that as another victim of that man she can one day be free of him.

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