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Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim

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Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 06:36

Conor has posted a few times, then deleted, check tatt.le.life thread for the screenshots...but this from Dee is crazy...he went out cheating on you at 8 months pregnant, he's had at least 5 sexual assault claims, he is linked to Irish gangster, he publicly cheated on you several times and poor Nikita was badly bruised and had to have a tampon removed via forceps....will Dee be warning her daughter of men like her father?

Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
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EdgeofSeventy · 28/11/2024 12:29

Does anyone know for sure that she wrote that? Or wasn't coerced?
Maybe she did write it, and maybe she believes those things.
Problem is, none of us know.
We know she is still in this relationship.
Most of us are thinking, fuck that.
We know he's a violent sex offender.
Without more provable information I can only feel very sorry for the children.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 28/11/2024 08:45

Who knows what goes on in someone else’s head.

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I often wonder that of men who rape

DublinFemale · 28/11/2024 08:06

I've said it before and I stand by it, if MMA had not have worked out he was well on the road to become a Kinahan enforcer.

Still would have had money and she still would stay with him.

DublinFemale · 28/11/2024 08:03

I feel she is too far in and loves the lifestyle, same as all the wife's & girlfriends of the people he associates with.

Dee funded him while he was training, he collected SW and she was working and paying for everything.

This lifestyle was what she funded at the start.

kkloo · 28/11/2024 06:09

CandidaAlbicans2 · 27/11/2024 09:40

But we simply do not know if Dee is in an abusive relationship. He's a scumbag but for all I know it could be a case of Madonna/whore, where Dee, as the mother of his children, is the Madonna here and any other woman who gives him sexual attention is a whore. Maybe he compartmentalises this and treats her well, and maybe her internalise misogyny means she thinks he can't help himself (so it's the other women's fault he had sex with them). She lives in her "happy family" bubble and sticks her fingers in her ears to his shitty ways outside. We can't assume she wants to leave but is too scared to.

I would bet my house on that not being the case. No way he treats her with respect

Tiredandteasytoday · 28/11/2024 05:33

ClareBlue · 28/11/2024 02:11

Google Romanian girl abducted and murdered in Dublin. She was an 18 year old Roma begging on OConnel bridge. The trial was a few years ago and the main guy got off. She rang Romania while held captive so we know what actually happened when she was held captive, not what we normally think, happens, because she told her dad, but didn't know where she was being held. You'll need a strong stomach to read the sanitised reporting. These are the guys CM was brought up with and drinks with on a night out. Fortunately they found her mutilated body and she was buried in Timisora her home town. Which is a lovely peaceful town on the Hungarian border that was very welcoming when I visited. She should have stayed there.

"Gangland crime: The forgotten murder of Marioara Rostas
The abduction and killing of a Romanian teen in Dublin was never seen as a ‘big’ story'

https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/gangland-crime-the-forgotten-murder-of-marioara-rostas-1.4526377

I added a link

Marioara Rostas was an 18-year-old Romanian immigrant and a member of the Roma community. She didn’t meet the ‘big murder’ criteria. Social media didn’t light up. There were no protests about reclaiming the streets for women

Gangland crime: The forgotten murder of Marioara Rostas

The abduction and killing of a Romanian teen in Dublin was never seen as a ‘big’ story

https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/gangland-crime-the-forgotten-murder-of-marioara-rostas-1.4526377

mathanxiety · 28/11/2024 02:53

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 07:10

I'm not condoning what she's said here but it's likely she's trying to convince herself more than anyone else because she can't leave.

Any woman who has been in an abusive relationship knows how difficult it is to leave. Now throw in his money and influence, his size, his violence, his personality, his attitude, his fans and followers and hangers on, the violent and shocking intimidation of his victim and her boyfriend and I think family and friends.

Where would she go? She would be recognised anywhere and even if he did nothing he has fans and supporters who still believe him, would they think we'll of a woman who 'stole' his children and left him? How would they express that?

Don't forget his gangland friends...

She's more to be pitied than despised imo.

Thiszebraiscrossing · 28/11/2024 02:39

I don’t want to comment on Dee as surely if she is trying to keep him sweet whilst working out an escape plan then loads of threads re this are not in her best interests

Thiszebraiscrossing · 28/11/2024 02:36

If Nikita ends up having to pay the costs and I hope not then surely a crowdfund is the answer

ClareBlue · 28/11/2024 02:11

CKN · 27/11/2024 10:58

Can you confirm your evidence of this or is it just hearsay?

Not saying that I don’t believe you but I don’t remember reading about this.

Google Romanian girl abducted and murdered in Dublin. She was an 18 year old Roma begging on OConnel bridge. The trial was a few years ago and the main guy got off. She rang Romania while held captive so we know what actually happened when she was held captive, not what we normally think, happens, because she told her dad, but didn't know where she was being held. You'll need a strong stomach to read the sanitised reporting. These are the guys CM was brought up with and drinks with on a night out. Fortunately they found her mutilated body and she was buried in Timisora her home town. Which is a lovely peaceful town on the Hungarian border that was very welcoming when I visited. She should have stayed there.

Nanny0gg · 27/11/2024 15:12

Tiredandteasytoday · 27/11/2024 07:02

She sounds deluded

Might have been forced to do it

Meltedchocolateteapot · 27/11/2024 14:58

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 08:17

It's never impossible. She's choosing to stay. I was in an abusive relationship so I'm not speaking from no experience and I didn't have half the money she's got.

His associates are literally murderers, look up the Kinahan gang. Leaving a domestic violence situation is always dangerous for the Woman, but knowing who his cronies are and what they are capable of I’m sure she’d be worried for her life if she left him. Nikita’s partner was stabbed, another of his accusers had bricks thrown through her window and her car burned out. He’s capable of anything.

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:32

OK, I see that the jury was guided by the judge re the settlement.

Rowen32 · 27/11/2024 14:24

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

The judge spoke to them about that. Said its €500000 for someone who becomes paraplegic and a few other examples as a basis for where to start so it was going to have to be lower than that

Honeycrisp · 27/11/2024 14:22

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

I read that the damage caps in Ireland are quite low. Not sure if that's accurate, but there will be a framework for awards quantum.

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 14:15

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

I think that the jury found he raped her and not much else matters.

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

VictoriaSpungecake · 27/11/2024 14:10

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Okay...what you are saying is that no woman, child, or man should go anywhere near this man because he is so out of control that if you go anywhere near him it is a given that you are going to be battered and/or raped? So, that means that we need to do something about this "wild animal" doesn't it?

NonPlayerCharacter · 27/11/2024 13:48

SerafinasGoose · 27/11/2024 13:42

But won't be.

This site is saturated with incels and their pathetic enablers. It's been this way now for quite a while.

They're absolutely terrified and infuriated by a predominantly female site. It is truly pathetic.

He thinks he's a brave truth teller who will blow our minds because we've never heard this before.

SerafinasGoose · 27/11/2024 13:42

whathaveiforgotten · 27/11/2024 13:27

What a fucking disgusting post.

Should be ashamed of yourself.

But won't be.

This site is saturated with incels and their pathetic enablers. It's been this way now for quite a while.

SerafinasGoose · 27/11/2024 13:40

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 06:43

Is it helpful to keep sharing this stuff?

Yes. It's very necessary to draw repeated attention to the way in which male behaviour is routinely blamed upon women.

Theoriginalmrscillianmurphy · 27/11/2024 13:38

@Beezknees I find your comment disgraceful to be honest

SleepPrettyDarling · 27/11/2024 13:37

I am also wondering if perjury applies in civil cases, and if a criminal charge can be made for that. There was none of JL’s DNA found in Nikita’s rape exam.

NonPlayerCharacter · 27/11/2024 13:37

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According to here, a woman is always beyond reproach, a perpetual victim, without any agency and never capable of doing anything wrong. Any and every woman.

You haven't spent thirty seconds reading here if you think women are never criticised. This paragraph alone is a lie borne of an agenda I can guess at, and the rest of the post is a pile of absolutely disgusting, woman-hating, rape apologist drivel that doesn't surprise me in the least since you outed yourself in the first four lines.

You really think you're the first one we've ever seen, don't you?