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Flute56 · 26/11/2024 19:19

Two days ago I bashed my left hand on a swing door when I was opening it and it didn't hurt but a few hours later it was very painful and I couldn't lift anything with that hand so I saw the rest was broken so I went to get an X-ray and the x-ray said nothing broken but just badly sprained. My wrist and hand was putting a splint and I was told to just go home and see my GP if I needed further advice. 1 end of the wrist is extremely painful so I was convinced that there was a hairline fracture but the doctor said nothing showed up on the x-ray but it is still extremely painful when any pressure is put to it so I'm going to my GP to ask for a further examination and I would like to know what the x-ray said if there's any tendon damage or anything like that and the reason why it is more painful at one end of the wrist and the other and also this Hospital doctor said to me it will be better within seven to ten days and I don't think she should say that because how does she know people get better at their own rates. I spoke to a friend of mine he used to working a hospital and she said are you sure that doctor was an orthopaedic doctor because sometimes when their short of staff they get another Doctor Who isn't and orthopaedic doctor just to cover I said I want someone to explain what they saw on the x-ray not just fog me off with oh it's not a fracture because I don't know if I've got tendon damage or what she didn't say and I'm on very strong the painkillers which masks the pain which means I can use the hand but because I'm using the hand with the stronger painkillers once they wear off my wrist will be twice as painful because I've been using it and putting stress to whatever is wrong with it so I'm going to get a second opinion because this doctor at the hospital said to me what job do you do and I said I work with computers can I type oh yes she said you can type what I can't type no way it's going to put stress on the finger stress on the the wrists and everything that don't think she should have said that

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Jifmicroliquid · 27/11/2024 21:19

I broke my scaphoid and had a cast for 2 weeks and then a splint. A friend did hers and went straight into a splint.
It depends on the break.
Hairline fractures will just heal on their own.

I’d just strap it up and see how you go.

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 21:18

When I broke my foot I had three months of work because my GP said it would be dangerous to travel on public transport using crutches in the rush hour and I said to her I have seen other people on crutches in the rush hour and she said maybe you have but I am the one that's dealing with you and if I say it's dangerous then I'm not going to allow you to travel in the rush hour so I will sign you off

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SleepyRich · 27/11/2024 21:16

And that's no slight on office workers! Just meaning that there's likely to be other ways to support the team, or just type 1 handed or dictate. As opposed to say a builder/labourer, firefighter etc where there are less options to move to/manage with the same injury.

SleepyRich · 27/11/2024 21:12

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 21:00

Will my employers said to me don't come to work until you feel better and ask for the GP I'm happy to go along with whatever she says

Absolutely not something I could judge for your situation, but do you not think she was thinking a day or 2 with a sore wrist? I mean surely most office workers would be expected to return in that kind of time frame even if it were fractured/on the understanding that allowances occur/amended duties as needed?

Here's the guidance around fit notes: https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/gps/getting-a-fit-note/

If your employer demands one in the first 7 days they become chargeable, but if you request following 7 days self certifying they're free.

nhs.uk

Getting a fit note

Find out how to get a fit note (sometimes called a sick note) if you're unwell and cannot work for 7 days or more.

https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/gps/getting-a-fit-note

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 27/11/2024 21:10

I had a broken wrist a few years ago, and weeks later my hand was still in agony, more than my wrist.
When I went back to hospital to have the cast removed they gave me another xray and said they had missed originally that my hand was also fractured. What they called a 'boxers fracture' I can't remember the proper name. I wish I had asked for another opinion earlier as by the time it was discovered the bone had already fused, so if you are still in pain don't worry about making a fuss ask for another xray.

Sharpkat · 27/11/2024 21:08

I had a shoulder X-ray. Was told nothing was wrong with it. A couple of weeks later asked for the X-rays to be reviewed and was told minor fracture and I would be seen in a virtual fracture clinic. Long story short, I was rushed in for emergency surgery as my shoulder was broken in several places and my rotator cuff was broken and had been for six weeks by the time I got the X-rays properly looked at.

SleepyRich · 27/11/2024 21:02

Also as others have pointed out the suspect diagnosis of wrist sprain means it's quite likely you've got some degree of ligament damage. This doesn't show on x-ray but is graded on range of movement or loss of. If they've told you improving over 7-10 days suspect they think you've just got a mild bruising injury.

Sprains typically improve to normal over several months. If you didn't get one there's a good info pack at the following address (wrist sprain leaflet from fracture clinic).

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.ruh.nhs.uk/patients/patient_information/ORT_057_Advice_after_a_wrist_sprain.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwitopOes_2JAxWx7AIHHVLeN-kQFnoECDsQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3TsA6ASm6WePM-ClXLgLi1

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 21:00

Will my employers said to me don't come to work until you feel better and ask for the GP I'm happy to go along with whatever she says

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SleepyRich · 27/11/2024 20:54

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:33

However tomorrow's appointment at the GP is to say when do you think I should return to work and get a doctors letter because that's what I need because my place of work only lets you have a week off if you need more than that you need to get a doctor's letter and I can only get that by having an examination because how can the doctor tell whether you need more time off without seeing you

You should prepare yourself for not having a very fruitful appointment. You need to self certify for 1week off work before they can issue you a med3/sick note. They can't issue them for the future so you'll need to contact them again after the first week if you still need more time.

Also whilst they don't tend to refuse medical notes I do wonder whether they'd say wrist sprain would be a valid reason to be off, obviously typing speed reduced single handed but i do think most employers will take a dim view in regards to multiple weeks off for what you've described. The GP can only really advise that you should return when you feel able to.

Secondly it's quite possible the GP won't be able to see the x-ray, often different systems are used and not accessible. They'd just see your discharge letter which can be quite minimal/might just say you've been discharged with wrist pain.

Essentially they're just going to check your neurovascular status, which will very likely be fine, squeeze your wrist to see where it hurts, which you already know, then try to reassure you you've had an x-ray and thats the standard test.

Even if they can see the x-ray it could have been years since they last interpreted an x-ray/might never have really done it depending on where they've worked. Anyone currently working in a&e is likely going to be more current. It's not normal to have all x-rays interpreted by an orthopedic doctor - anyone who's done the appropriate training course- that can include nurses, paramedics and of course any Dr. There's typically a secondary check or report by the radiographer so if something's missed they'd call you back.

MrTiddlesTheCat · 27/11/2024 20:53

You might have damaged a ligament. Ligament damage doesn't show up on an xray. I had to have an MRI for them to finally realise I wasn't needlessly moaning about my wrist hurting. I was being treated for a fractured shoulder and they completely missed 3 'fractured' ligaments in my wrist.

ilovesooty · 27/11/2024 20:43

If you're fit to work go back. If you aren't fit to go back get your GP to issue a sick note which will probably be issued via a phone consultation . I doubt if the diagnosis will affect the recovery time anyway.

Iamanunsafebuilding · 27/11/2024 20:40

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:33

However tomorrow's appointment at the GP is to say when do you think I should return to work and get a doctors letter because that's what I need because my place of work only lets you have a week off if you need more than that you need to get a doctor's letter and I can only get that by having an examination because how can the doctor tell whether you need more time off without seeing you

I didn't take any time off for my elbow and possible wrist fracture. I have a desk job with typing all day and I was just a bit slower!

Iamanunsafebuilding · 27/11/2024 20:39

I fell while I was running in the summer and fractured my elbow, I also had pain in my wrist so they x-rayed to look for a scaphoid fracture. Nothing showed on the x-ray but gave me a splint they asked me to go back a week later for another x-ray as scaphoid fractures aren't always obvious at the time. Again nothing showed but my wrist was still painful, after a couple of weeks I stopped wearing the splint and just used it as normal. It still catches me occasionally but active recovery is very much recommended now if it's possible, my elbow fracture has healed as well but I worked hard to ensure I regained the movement in the joint.

Letmegohome · 27/11/2024 20:36

@Flute56 you didn't answer my questions, are you an anxious person / see the worst?
I can "get inside my own head" about situations and it can make pain worse or make you overthink

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:33

However tomorrow's appointment at the GP is to say when do you think I should return to work and get a doctors letter because that's what I need because my place of work only lets you have a week off if you need more than that you need to get a doctor's letter and I can only get that by having an examination because how can the doctor tell whether you need more time off without seeing you

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FromCuddleLand · 27/11/2024 20:33

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:27

8 years ago I broke a bone in my foot and they didn't give me a plaster cast they gave me an air boot

Yes, as I said it depends entirely on the location and type of break as to how it is managed. You will only get more answers by consulting someone who can see you and decide what is best to do to investigate and diagnose as necessary though.

Letmegohome · 27/11/2024 20:33

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:32

I have only been to the hospital and seeing the hospital doctor

Are you an anxious person?

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:32

Letmegohome · 27/11/2024 20:30

@Flute56
Sprains can be much more painful than breaks
You seem quite determined it's broken do you usually see the worst in a situation?
How many professionals have seen you about it?

I have only been to the hospital and seeing the hospital doctor

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Letmegohome · 27/11/2024 20:30

@Flute56
Sprains can be much more painful than breaks
You seem quite determined it's broken do you usually see the worst in a situation?
How many professionals have seen you about it?

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:29

EmotionalSupportPotato · 27/11/2024 16:42

Did you say at the time? Actually I can't move my fingers so how will I type?

When the doctor at the hospital examined me she asked me to squeeze my hand and move my fingers which I could do and probably that is why she said I could type but typing with requires pressing down on the keys and I don't know what that would do to the actual injury because it's one thing occasionally pressing your fingers down or wiggling your fingers and it's a whole different matter going to work doing an eight-hour job typing for all those eight hours and I wouldn't want to risk anything happening by doing that all day long

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Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:27

FromCuddleLand · 27/11/2024 20:23

This is utter rubbish. It depends entirely on the location and type of fracture. Casts are still very much the norm in most cases.

8 years ago I broke a bone in my foot and they didn't give me a plaster cast they gave me an air boot

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Dealingwithatrexrightnow · 27/11/2024 20:24

Valid8me · 27/11/2024 19:41

An xray won't show tendon or soft tissue damage but it will show whether it is broken or not. It's been 2 days, strap it up, keep taking the painkillers and try not to use it if you can.

The Dr probably said that it should get better within 7-10 days as that is the average time that it takes for most people. What did you want them to say, 'Sorry, I have no idea when it may get better'?

Sadly I fell in the summer and thought I had a broken finger. When to have it x rayed and they said to wait and see and that a part of it was difficult to judge but no obvious fracture.

Fast forward and I did what they said and let the swelling go down and went back 10 days later and it is broken and has healed at an angle and I can’t write with that hand. I have to type with my middle fingers. Minor injuries said they couldn’t do anything as bones healing and it can’t be rotated back and now waiting for surgery which will be a year apparently. So go back. Minor injuries clinic?

FromCuddleLand · 27/11/2024 20:23

Dotto · 27/11/2024 20:22

They don't tend to do this initially, these days

This is utter rubbish. It depends entirely on the location and type of fracture. Casts are still very much the norm in most cases.

Dotto · 27/11/2024 20:22

Flute56 · 27/11/2024 20:18

According to the internet a fractured wrist is put in a plaster cast

They don't tend to do this initially, these days

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