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To not attend a job interview with less than 24 hours notice?

31 replies

himyf · 25/11/2024 20:03

I applied for a job in a completely different part of the country. It would be a big move for us but we’re flexible about where we live and the job was interesting so it was worth an application.

Today I got an email at 4pm asking me to attend an in-person interview at the location tomorrow at 12pm. The email said it would take 20minutes.

I emailed them straight back (no contact number given to phone them) and asked if due to the short notice I could attend on a different day this week or have the interview virtually, and they replied at 5.40pm with the exact same email as the first time - no acknowledgment that I had asked a question (strange).

AIBU to not attend? No interview dates were provided on the application/advert - if they had been I would have made sure I could travel on these dates. But at such short notice I simply can’t arrange to be half way across the country for a 20minute interview (which will clearly be a first round one anyway). I think not acknowledging my question about accommodating a different interview method or date and just resending the first email is their way of saying the interview can’t be moved, which is fair enough, but it’s very frustrating to be given such little notice!!!!

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balletflats · 25/11/2024 20:20

@BaklavaRocks so you are happy to take the ones who have nothing happening and you intentionally exclude applicants who prioritise their existing commitments. I wonder how that strategy will play out long-term?

mitogoshigg · 25/11/2024 20:14

Depends on many factors but wanting to meet you in person for an initial interview is perfectly reasonable, and possibly they want to get you in straight away because they liked your application. Even if they offered you a job could you move quickly?

BaklavaRocks · 25/11/2024 20:12

Depends how much you want the job. Maybe this is the first test! Do you want to work for a company that has you jump through this stupid hoop? How desperate are you? How competitive is the job? How good would it be to get the job?

(In my line of work we get about 100 applicants for each job. About 20 would be desperate enough to travel a long way with no notice. The others wouldn't get an interview. (I've never been that mean to make anyone do this - but sometimes competitive roles can be filled so easily the employer doesn't need to consider your circumstances and might be happy if you decline and withdraw your application as its one way to whittle down the applicants).

MyWaryUser · 25/11/2024 20:10

himyf · 25/11/2024 20:09

Thank you! I thought that too - possibly a bad sign for what they’d be like as an employer. I think I just wanted to sense check my gut feeling was correct!

Trust yourself more lovely.

himyf · 25/11/2024 20:09

MyWaryUser · 25/11/2024 20:07

Yeah that’s absolutely unacceptable. Nope. There’ll be other better employers that don’t do this. Focus on finding those.

Thank you! I thought that too - possibly a bad sign for what they’d be like as an employer. I think I just wanted to sense check my gut feeling was correct!

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MyWaryUser · 25/11/2024 20:07

Yeah that’s absolutely unacceptable. Nope. There’ll be other better employers that don’t do this. Focus on finding those.